A. This is an indicator that shows a person's attitude (proactiveness) towards dating and adult relationships. Please select the option that best reflects your own opinion. Registering falsely is prohibited.
[Definition of each type]
- A: Dinner date This will not develop into a physical relationship. I only want a relationship involving meals or tea.
- *Transportation costs will be covered for the first date, but compensation for subsequent dates will be discussed.
- B1: Slowly The first date will be just a meal. If we click after the second date, I'd like to develop a relationship.
- B2: From the second time onwards I'm the type of person who wants to check the chemistry during the first meal, and if there are no problems, I'd like to move on to a relationship from the second date onwards.
- C: Depends on how I feel If you have good chemistry in terms of support requirements, looks, personality, etc., there's a possibility that the relationship could develop from the first date. (The probability is about 50%)
- D: Aggressive Depending on the circumstances, this person is proactive and may want to start a relationship from the first date. (The probability is about 90%)
- *However, this doesn't mean that looks and personality are completely disregarded.
Q. What does "relationship" mean in PATOLO? (Prohibited actions)
A. This refers to a long-term partnership (such as an extramarital affair) based on mutual affection and consent.
Based on Tokyo Metropolitan Government ordinances and regulations, PATOLO supports "relationships between men and women involving compensation," but **"prostitution (one-off dates solely for the purpose of sex)"** is strictly prohibited.
[Prohibited Rules]
- Sudden hotel/home dates are prohibited. Regardless of the relationship type (C or D), always check your compatibility by having tea or a meal first. Sexual activity immediately upon meeting is prohibited.
- Prohibition of coercion You cannot assess a woman's willingness to engage in physical intimacy on a first date, nor can you force her to do so.
Q. What happens if I register with a false relationship type? (Relationship type fraud)
A. You will be subject to forced withdrawal from the membership. Setting a profile type that differs from your actual preference in order to increase your matching rate is considered "relationship type fraud." If reported in the feedback after a date, you will be subject to disciplinary action.
[Common examples of violations]
- Even though it's A (meals only), set it to B or C. Setting the rating to B or higher when you have no intention of engaging in adult relationships, simply because "no offers have come in."
- Ambiguous stretching Despite setting B2, C, and D, this behavior involves failing to clearly define the conditions for a relationship (including adult relationships) and trying to maintain the relationship solely through dinner dates.
Q. How can I change my relationship type? Will my partner find out if I change it?
A. You can change it from "Edit Profile" on your My Page.
[Notification of changes] When you change your relationship type, a notification will be sent to your current partner (who is currently "scheduling a date" or "date confirmed") based on their notification settings via LINE, email, etc.
- *This will not be displayed in the site's messaging system, but it is a feature designed to prevent problems.
Q. Why do the dating styles of the same women differ between Universe Club and PATOLO?
A. Because our female members use different services depending on their specific characteristics.
The organizing committee acknowledges the differences in type between the club and PATOLO.
- Example 1 (PATOLO is more proactive): With other clubs, you don't know what the other person is like until you meet them, but with PATOLO, you can message them beforehand, which gives you a sense of security, so I'm using the more proactive types (C and D).
- Example 2 (The club is more proactive): PATOLO is cautious (B) because she is unsure what kind of man he is, while the club is proactive (C) because it has staff introductions.
[If you want to know which is their true feeling] This is due to the woman's strategies and psychology, so we recommend that you use the messaging function to confirm directly with her.
