How do I use PATOLO? Please explain the process from matching to going on a date.

A. After creating your profile, you can arrange a date by searching and messaging. There are two ways to confirm a date: "self-arrangement" and "concierge request (men only)".

The specific usage flow consists of the following five steps.

[STEP 1: Setting up your profile]

Profile settings

You can change it as many times as you like.
*If you wish to change your patron name, please contact the staff of your club.

*Posting contact information or social media details is prohibited..

[STEP 2: Find a date]


Find a date from the member list.
Click the "three lines" icon in the upper right corner or the "Search with different criteria" button.
You can set detailed search criteria.

Send a Message

[STEP 3 Send a message]

Send a Message

Members can freely exchange messages with each other. (Free)

You can also check and discuss the conditions for dating.
Let's decide on a date, time, and place to meet via message.
(Staff can also act as intermediaries. See Step 4.)

* Before the dateExchanging contact information is prohibited..
If you discover any violations, please report them using the "⚙" icon.

[STEP 4: Ask out on a date]

Ask for a date

[Arrange a date with the other person]
Please apply via the "Confirm Date" option on the chat screen.

If the woman approves, the date is confirmed.
If we do not receive a response within 72 hours, your order will be automatically canceled. 
(Male) A referral fee must be paid at the time of application.

*For men only*
[Request adjustments from the store staff]
Please apply via the chat screen under "Confirm Date" > "Request Concierge".

*If a participating store does not support scheduling, the option will not be displayed.
(For men) A referral fee and scheduling fee must be paid upon confirmation of the date.

After the date is confirmed,

You will receive a reminder notification the day before.

On the day of the meeting, please message each other to let us know what you'll be wearing and arrange a meeting time.

[If the meeting ends after only a brief introduction (tea or dinner date)]

As a token of appreciation, please give the woman the amount of "transportation expenses" she has set in her profile.

[If a relationship develops on the day of the first meeting]
After meeting on the day, please proceed with the relationship only if you both agree on the terms. Please give the agreed-upon payment to the woman as a token of appreciation.

[Response to STEP 5 Feedback]

Send your feedback

After the date, please go to the "Schedule" tab > "Your Partner" > and send feedback.
If you encounter any problems, please contact us immediately by reporting them.

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