A. No, exchanging contact information before meeting is strictly prohibited. We cannot provide it even through the club.
To prevent any problems, please use the messaging function on the PATOLO website for all communication until you actually meet. *Even if you go through a staff member (club), you cannot share personal information such as contact details with the other party.
Q. Is it okay to exchange contact information (LINE, etc.) after a date?
A. While we leave the decision to the members themselves, we recommend continuing to use "site messaging" to prevent problems.
While the method of communication after a date is up to the individuals involved, PATOLO strongly recommends continuing to use the site's messaging function.
[Reasons for recommending in-site messaging]
- Avoiding the risk of your identity being revealed Since the relationship is kept secret, exchanging personal LINE IDs or phone numbers increases the risk of being discovered by family or acquaintances (through notifications, icon displays, etc.).
- Preventing problems during a breakup If you find yourselves no longer compatible or you want to end the relationship, sharing your personal contact information can lead to trouble (such as obsession or stalking). Within the site, you can safely end the relationship using features like blocking.
Q. Can I still use the message function even if it expires or new applications are no longer accepted?
A. Yes, male members can still send messages even after their membership has expired. Please also make use of "Private Mode".
You can continue communicating comfortably using only PATOLO's features, without even needing to exchange contact information.
- Expiration date for male members Even after the expiration date (paid period) has passed,Sending and receiving messages remains free.You can use it. There's no need to rush into exchanging LINE IDs.
This applies to women who are currently messaging, arranging a date, or have already completed a date. - Making use of private mode If you want to only communicate with specific people (and not receive new invitations),Turn on "Private Mode" position.
