A. This refers to a thank-you payment if the relationship develops into a romantic one. Negotiations take place "before meeting" or "during the date."
- definition: This refers to a monetary gift given by a man to a woman as a token of appreciation when they have a mutual connection and begin a romantic relationship.
- Timing of negotiations: Please discuss this with each other either in advance (before meeting) or when you actually meet.
Q. Is it okay to confirm things like "a physical relationship" and "amount of money" via message before a date?
A. No, we strictly prohibit any "confirmation of an adult relationship (prostitution)" before meeting.
At PATOLO, we ask that you strictly adhere to the following order.
- First date (coffee or meal): First, let's talk and see if we get along.
- Judgment: Based on that, they decide whether or not to pursue a romantic relationship.
Therefore, making statements in messages before the first date, such as "confirming a hotel visit" or "making a monetary agreement in exchange for sexual relations," is considered prostitution or solicitation of prostitution and is prohibited.
Q. What are some "OK ways" and "NG ways" to ask about compensation via message?
A. It's okay to talk about a hypothetical situation like "if we get along," but it's not okay to ask for a "guarantee."
To avoid problems and violations of the terms of service, please refer to the following example sentences.
✅ OK Example: Confirmation as a condition (hypothesis)
"Ms. XX is registered as a Type C (depending on feelings),If you have a meal together, get along well, and feel like you'd like to develop a more mature relationship,How much compensation would you like to receive?
- point: It's perfectly acceptable to ask about desired conditions by using a hypothetical approach like "if...".
❌ Examples of what NOT to do: Guaranteeing an act or suggesting prostitution
"Ms. XX is registered as a Type D (proactive),We'll definitely be able to go to a hotel on the day of our date, right? Please make the hotel reservation confirmed on the day of booking for XX million yen.
- point: It is prohibited to force or guarantee a physical relationship before meeting, or to negotiate monetary compensation based on such a premise.
