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Can you find sugar daddies through Wakuwaku Mail? A thorough explanation of how to start safely and what to watch out for.

Can you find sugar daddies through Wakuwaku Mail? A thorough explanation of how to start safely and what to watch out for.

"Can you do sugar dating on Wakuwaku Mail?"
"Is it safe? Won't we get caught?"

Are you experiencing any of these anxieties?

In this article,Dad activity appThis article provides a comprehensive explanation of Wakuwaku Mail, a dating app that many people are curious about, covering everything from fees and features to typical allowances, how to spot problematic sugar daddies, and how to protect your identity, all based on official information.

However, using the service for the purpose of "sugar dating" carries the risk of violating the terms of service, so we will provide you with information that allows you to make your own decision after understanding both the advantages and disadvantages.

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Hi everyone! I'm Airi, 28 years old, and I've been doing sugar dating for 5 years. I've met about 25 people so far and earned a total of 400 million yen. Currently, I earn an average of 10 to 15 yen per month, and I share my experiences and insights about sugar dating.

Wakuwaku Mail Basics | Understanding the Fee Structure and Registration Procedure

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Before you start using Wakuwaku Mail, make sure you understand the fees and registration process.

Here, we will explain the pricing structure, registration procedure, and how it differs from apps specifically for sugar dating.

Wakuwaku Mail's pricing structure and point system

Wakuwaku Mail is basically free for women to use.

There is no charge for exchanging messages with men or viewing their profiles.

However, sending messages between women and viewing adult content requires service points.

Men use a point system, where they spend points depending on the service they use.

The following is an example of fees and points consumed.

Price List
■ Points can be purchased at a rate of 1 point = 10 yen.
Female
All interactions with men are free of charge.
*Points are required for interactions between women and to view images and videos in certain sections.
Male
Item Points to spend
View the job postings 1P / 1S
View recruitment images 2P / 2S
Watch the recruitment video 3P / 3S
View profile picture 2P / 2S
Watch profile video 3P / 3S
Send "Looks good!" 2P / 2S

* Points consumed areOfficial WebsiteThis information is compiled based on publicly available data.
(As of February 2026) Prices and features are subject to change, so please check the official website for the latest information.

Since it's a pay-as-you-go system rather than a monthly subscription, you won't be charged for periods when you're not using it.

Let's also look at the advantages and disadvantages of a points system.

Advantages and disadvantages of a points system
Classification Message
Benefits ✔ Highly flexible
Since you are only charged for what you use, you can use it at your own pace.

✔ No unnecessary expenses
You will not be charged for periods when you are not using the service.
Drawbacks ✖ Costs may increase
If the number of transactions increases, the final payment amount may exceed the monthly fee.

While most apps for sugar dating use a monthly subscription system for men, Wakuwaku Mail uses a point system.

It's difficult to say definitively which is more cost-effective, as it depends on how often you use them.

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This might be a good option for those who want to try it out little by little.

Steps from registration to service activation and age verification methods.

The registration process for Wakuwaku Mail is simple and proceeds as follows:

Registration process (4 steps)
STEP 1
Visit the official website or download the app.
STEP 2
Enter your nickname, address, and date of birth.
STEP 3
Enter your phone number and complete SMS and phone verification.
STEP 4 (required)
Submit age verification documents

To verify your age, you will need to submit age verification documents.

The following certificates are available:

  • Driver’s License
  • Health insurance card
  • Student card
  • staff identity card
  • pension book
  • Patient Registration Card
  • Certificate of Residence
  • My number card
  • Passport, etc.

To submit your documents, take a picture of them and upload it.

The review process is usually completed within a few hours to a day.

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Age verification is mandatory as required by the law regulating dating sites.

You won't be able to exchange messages until age verification is complete, so please complete it as soon as possible after registering.

Differences from other sugar daddy apps | Features as a general matching app

Wakuwaku Mail is not a sugar daddy app; it's a general matching app used for a variety of purposes, including finding a romantic partner, making friends, and finding a spouse.

There are three main differences between this app and a sugar daddy dating app.

Comparison of Wakuwaku Mail and sugar daddy apps
Item Wakuwaku Mail Dad activity app
Objective A wide range of encounters, including friendships, romantic relationships, and matchmaking. Specialized for sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships
Fee structure Point system Many are subscription-based.
Membership Total number of members: over 13 million (as of February 2026) *Reference: PATOLO has over 24,000 registered members (as of April 2025)

It's important to note that Wakuwaku Mail has users with diverse purposes, so there are many men who aren't looking for sugar daddy relationships.

On the other hand, because there are so many members, there are plenty of opportunities to meet people.

The recruitment function allows you to search for partners based on your purpose, such as someone to eat with, talk to, or share hobbies. It also includes features like tweeting, journaling, and online dating, so you can efficiently find someone who suits your needs if you use them effectively.

Here are the types of people who are best suited for each role.

Dad activity appI want to efficiently meet only men who are looking for a sugar daddy relationship.
Wakuwaku MailI want to find a dad who suits me from a wide range of people.
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Since Wakuwaku Mail and apps for sugar dating have different purposes, choose the service that best suits your needs.

Things to know before you start! Precautions when using Wakuwaku Mail for sugar dating.

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Wakuwaku Mail is not an app specifically for sugar dating.

That's why there are some important points you should be aware of beforehand.

After understanding the potential for mixed uses, the risks of violating terms of service, and the differences in market rates, you should decide on the usage method that suits you best.

Since it's not exclusively for sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships, there are also many men looking for regular dates.

Wakuwaku Mail is a comprehensive matching service used by users with a wide range of purposes, such as finding a romantic partner or making friends.

Therefore, there is a good chance of matching with men who are unaware of the concept of "allowance" specific to sugar dating, or men who are looking for a genuine romantic relationship.

While this diversity offers the opportunity to build unique relationships that suit you, be aware that, unlike apps specifically designed for sugar dating, finding the right partner may require a certain amount of effort.

When using Wakuwaku Mail, you should pay particular attention to the following points.

Points for safe communication
① Carefully assess the other party's objectives.
By carefully reading their profile and exchanging messages, you can accurately understand the type of encounter the other person is looking for. Preventing misunderstandings early on helps avoid problems.
② Use keywords to communicate your purpose effectively.
While respecting the terms and conditions, include phrases like "conditions apply" in your profile to indirectly convey your stance. It's important to avoid direct expressions while still conveying your intentions.
③ Carefully choose your words to avoid violating the terms of service.
Direct expressions of monetary value carry the risk of account suspension. To avoid this risk, be sure to use careful rephrasing.

Wakuwaku Mail can be considered a platform that has the potential to lead to your desired encounter, provided you are willing to put in the effort to carefully assess the other person.

Using the service for the purpose of "sugar dating" carries the risk of violating the terms of service.

Wakuwaku Mail's "Terms of Service" clearly state that "prostitution, compensated dating, and acts that violate laws or public order and morals" are prohibited.

Source: Wakuwaku Mail official websiteTerms of Use '

Therefore, encounters that are based on the premise of monetary exchange may be judged to fall under the category of compensated dating or similar activities.

If you are found to have violated the terms and conditions, you may be subject to the following measures:

  • Account suspended
  • forced withdrawal

If your account is forcibly terminated, your accumulated points may be deleted, and you may not be able to re-register.

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I've also heard that there are people who actually use Wakuwaku Mail for the purpose of finding sugar daddies.

However, this is done with full awareness of the risk of violating the terms of service, and it is not an officially approved use.

The following are expressions to be aware of when using them for the purpose of "sugar dating" (or similar relationships involving financial support).

  • Daddy
  • Allowance
  • Support
  • assistance

Using these direct expressions is said to increase the risk of being detected by reports or surveillance.

Some people use vague expressions like "adult relationship" or "conditions apply," but even then, the risk is not zero.

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While I don't recommend using Wakuwaku Mail for sugar dating, please understand the risks involved and make your final decision at your own risk.

The going rate for compensation tends to be lower than that of specialized apps.

Because Wakuwaku Mail is a general matching app, the going rate for compensation is said to be lower compared to apps specifically for sugar dating.

There are three possible reasons:

  • Many men are not looking for sugar daddy relationships, and some don't even have the concept of compensation.
  • A sense of market value, like that found in dedicated apps, is not shared among users.
  • Because men incur costs through point-based payments, the amount they can allocate to compensation tends to be limited.

Generally speaking, the going rate for sugar dating on Wakuwaku Mail is said to be about 5,000 to 1 yen lower than on dedicated sugar dating apps.

On the other hand, some argue that because the going rate is low, the psychological barrier for men is also lowered, making it easier to find a partner.

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However, when it comes to compensation, there's a huge difference from person to person, so it's hard to say definitively.

Furthermore, since many of the men involved are inexperienced in "sugar daddy" relationships, it's thought that these relationships are more likely to develop into long-term ones.

If you're looking for a high allowance, a sugar daddy dating app would be more suitable.

For those who want to start easily or build long-term relationships, Wakuwaku Mail is one option to consider.

[By Purpose] A thorough explanation of the going rates for sugar daddy arrangements on Wakuwaku Mail.

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If you're considering sugar dating through Wakuwaku Mail, it's a good idea to understand the going rates for different types of arrangements.

The following is our company (PATOLOThis is the result of a survey conducted by [company name] regarding the amount of compensation received through Wakuwaku Mail.

Average dating allowance on Wakuwaku Mail
Dating a woman you met on Wakuwaku Mail (regardless of the relationship)
Average allowance:¥21,346
*Company survey: Conducted on January 27, 2025 (26 respondents)

*The listed amounts are only estimates, and the actual compensation will vary depending on the other person's financial situation, relationship, and the nature of the date. Please be sure to confirm and agree with the other person beforehand.

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It's best to keep these in mind as reference values ​​only.

The going rate for a first meeting (tea/cafe)

The typical compensation for an initial meeting is between 5,000 and 1 yen, and often includes transportation costs.

A "first meeting" refers to the initial face-to-face encounter, often held over tea at a cafe or similar establishment.

This is an opportunity to check each other's personalities and compatibility, and it typically lasts for 30 minutes to an hour.

The purpose of this meeting is twofold:

  • Check compatibility during the first meeting
  • I will decide whether to continue meeting in the future.

Meeting someone for the first time has a different purpose than a proper date.

It's better to think of this as an opportunity to determine whether the other party is trustworthy, rather than focusing on the amount of money involved.

The going rate for dinner date

The typical amount to spend on a dinner date is around 1 to 2 yen. For upscale restaurants, it tends to be around 1 yen, while for more casual places like izakayas (Japanese pubs), it's around 2 yen.

A dinner date refers to a date that occurs after you've met someone and established a relationship where you continue to see each other regularly.

Lunch or dinner is the norm, and the duration is typically around 2-3 hours.

However, the actual amount will vary depending on the relationship, the other person's attributes, and the length of the date.

The going rate for adult relationships

The typical payment is around 3 to 5 yen per session, and it may be possible to negotiate a monthly payment once the relationship stabilizes.

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By the way, an "adult relationship" refers to a date that involves physical intimacy.

The monthly fee can start from 10 yen, but it varies greatly depending on the other person's financial situation, the depth of the relationship, and how often you meet.

The advantage of a monthly subscription is that it reduces the burden on both parties by eliminating the need for negotiations each time.

However, physical relationships carry significant risks, so it's crucial to carefully consider the relationship, including trust and safety, before making a decision.

[Safety Measures] 3 Points to Avoid Problematic Dads and Prevent Your Identity from Being Revealed

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Because Wakuwaku Mail is a service used for a wide range of purposes, it's necessary to assess the other person's intentions and personality.

Here, we'll explain three key points to help you avoid dangerous individuals and prevent your identity from being revealed. Make sure you understand these before you start engaging in sugar dating safely.

In addition to taking self-protective measures, it's also reassuring to know the extent to which the service provider is checking for any issues.What can be prevented with each type of authentication?I am organizing this.

Characteristics of a dangerous person that can be identified from their profile picture and self-introduction

The more dangerous a person is, the more likely they are to give off a suspicious vibe from their profile.

The following are characteristics of high-risk profiles:

Characteristics of high-risk profiles
Check item Dangerous patterns Reasons / Solutions
Profile photo Looks like a model or celebrity / Looks like a found image There's a possibility it's a scammer or someone impersonating someone else. Don't judge solely on the photo; check everything comprehensively, including their self-introduction and the content of your communication.
Profile photo Photo not set Because there are concerns about their intention to conceal their identity and their genuine existence, we will carefully assess them through messages.
self-introduction Just one line / Almost blank They might not be very serious. Try bringing up a specific topic to gauge their reaction.
self-introduction Overbearing tone / frequent demands There's a risk of being controlled if you meet them. It's best to ignore them if you don't want to.
Annual income/occupation High income appeal (emphasizing investor/business owner status, etc.) There's a possibility of fraud or exaggeration. Don't just focus on the money; consider the person's character and the level of detail when making your decision.

If a self-introduction is carefully written and conveys the person's hobbies and personality, it is likely that they are a sincere person.

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It's best to distance yourself from someone who exhibits multiple characteristics that indicate a high risk of danger.

Determine if the person is dangerous through their messages.

Even if someone's profile looks fine, their true nature can sometimes be revealed through message exchanges.

The following patterns, in particular, require attention.

Warning signs to watch out for and how to deal with them
Danger signs Example : approach
I want to meet soon "Can we meet today?" or "How about tomorrow?" are the first messages used to invite someone out. I would exchange messages with the other person for at least several days to get a sense of their character before making a decision.
Avoid talking about treatment They change the subject when asked about their conditions / They offer an extremely low price. Before meeting, clarify the conditions, and if they don't match, don't hesitate to decline.
Trying to meet in a closed room They suggest, "Come to my house," or "I'll pick you up in my car." For your first time, always choose a public place such as a cafe or restaurant where there will be other people around.
Ask for personal information immediately They immediately ask for your LINE ID, phone number, and real name. Continue communicating within the app until a relationship of trust is established.

In particular, if multiple warning signs appear simultaneously, the risk of trouble is considered high.

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If you feel something is off, it's important to make the decision to decline and not force yourself to meet.

Measures to absolutely prevent your identity from being revealed | SNS identification and privacy protection

One thing to avoid when engaging in "sugar dating" is having your identity revealed, which could negatively impact your daily life.

Let's implement the following measures thoroughly.

List of measures to prevent your identity from being revealed and your personal information from being identified.
Countermeasures Specific methods
Profile photo I don't use the same photos I use on social media.
Be careful, as you may be identified through Google Image Search.
How to take photos Avoid including buildings or landmarks around your home in your photos.
Be aware of cases where a location can be identified from the scenery reflected in the eyes.
Personal Information I will not reveal my real name, workplace, school name, or nearest train station.
I'll go by my nickname.
ways to contact I won't exchange LINE IDs or phone numbers until I trust the person.
Use a different messaging app if needed.
SNS account I won't share my Instagram or X accounts.
Personal information may be identified from the content of the post.
location information Turn off location services on your smartphone.
The Exif information of the photos will also be deleted.
Meeting location Avoid train stations near your home, workplace, or school.
Choose a location where you are unlikely to run into someone you know.

Identifying someone from a photograph is a particularly easy task to overlook.

If you use photos you've posted on social media as your profile picture or icon, your account may be revealed through image searches.

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Make sure to take photos specifically for use with your sugar daddy and don't reuse them elsewhere.

Three reasons why Wakuwaku Mail is suitable for sugar dating

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There's a reason why Wakuwaku Mail is gaining popularity as an option for sugar dating.

I will explain the reasons by dividing them into three points: the large number of members, unique features, and ease of getting started.

This article also touches on the differences between this app and sugar daddy apps, so please use it as a reference.

With over 1300 million registered members, the potential number of potential matches is overwhelming.

Wakuwaku Mail boasts over 1,300 million registered users, a significantly larger number compared to the hundreds of thousands of users typically found on apps specifically for sugar dating.

Even if you live in a rural area, it's easier to find a match, and you have the potential to meet a wide range of men, from high-achieving dads to kind and gentle dads.

However, because of the large number of members, many men who are not looking for sugar daddy relationships are also registered, so it is necessary to carefully assess potential partners.

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A large number of members doesn't necessarily mean it's suitable for sugar dating, right?

The "Recruit" function allows you to efficiently find people with similar goals.

Wakuwaku Mail has a feature that allows you to post your desired conditions to find a partner, or to approach other users who have posted requests.

The advantage is that you can communicate your purpose for meeting in advance, making it easier to match with someone who has similar conditions.

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By proactively posting your own content, you can expect more efficient activity!

There are three important points to keep in mind when using the recruitment service.

  • Because it's viewable by anyone, there's a possibility of receiving messages from a large number of men.
  • There's a possibility that some of them are dangerous.
  • Explicit language carries the risk of violating the terms of service.

Violating the terms of service may lead to forced account termination, so please be very careful with your wording.

Referring to the section mentioned above, it is necessary to carefully identify dangerous individuals.

It's easier to get started with than apps specifically for sugar dating.

Wakuwaku Mail is a general matching app, so compared to apps specifically for sugar dating, the psychological barrier to registration is lower, making it easy to start with the feeling of "let's just give it a try."

For those who want to explore not only sugar dating but also regular relationships, Wakuwaku Mail is a good choice. Conversely, for those who want to focus solely on sugar dating and want to efficiently find a suitable partner, a dedicated sugar dating app would be more effective.

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That's one of the great things about apps, offering the potential for diverse encounters!

How to find your ideal daddy on Wakuwaku Mail

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The key to success in sugar dating on Wakuwaku Mail lies in three things: your profile, your postings, and your search function.

Here, we'll explain practical know-how step-by step, from how to create your profile to your first meeting.

We've also included example sentences that you can actually use in your profile, so please refer to them.

[Examples Included] How to Write a Profile That Gets You Matched Efficiently

A profile picture significantly influences the first impression you make on others.

A photo of you in clean, presentable clothing with a natural smile is generally considered to make a good impression.

Including a full-body photo would help convey the overall impression.

The self-introduction avoids direct terms like "sugar dating," "allowance," or "financial support," while using expressions that will only be understood by men familiar with sugar dating.

It is said that including the following expressions makes the message easier to understand.

  • I'd like to meet depending on the circumstances.
  • I'm also considering an adult relationship.
  • I want to build a good relationship with each other.

Here are five example sentences.

A collection of sample messages hinting at sugar dating.
Message examples Commentary
[Example 1]
"I'm looking to connect with affluent adults, the kind of people I wouldn't normally meet in my everyday life. Ideally, I'd like to have a comfortable and enjoyable relationship with both of us."
The phrases "someone you wouldn't normally encounter in everyday life" and "a well-off adult" indicate that they are seeking financial support.
[Example 2]
"I'd be happy if I could provide a relaxing time while you enjoy a delicious meal. I'm often told I'm good at being spoiled."
The phrases "a time for relaxation" and "good at being pampered" naturally convey the benefits to the other person.
[Example 3]
"I want to support wonderful people who are working hard, and I would also like to share a special time with them. If the conditions are right, I would love to meet you."
The phrase "if the conditions are right" subtly suggests a relationship that involves compensation.
[Example 4]
"I'd like to rely on someone who is financially and emotionally secure. How about we start with a meal?"
The phrase "someone who is financially secure" indicates the qualities the person is looking for in a partner.
[Example 5]
"I registered because I'd like to have a calm, mature relationship with an older person. Ideally, I'd like a mutually beneficial relationship."
The keywords that suggest "adult relationships" and "relationships with mutual benefits" are the phrases that evoke the idea of ​​"sugar dating."

These are just examples.

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Rephrase it in your own words to create a natural-sounding text that doesn't sound like copy-pasting.

How to effectively utilize "recruitment"

There are two ways to find someone: posting your own request and looking for a partner, or browsing men's posts and approaching them.

When posting, it is said that using eye-catching titles like the ones below makes it easier to get responses from others.

  • I'm looking for a wonderful person in Tokyo.
  • Let's have a fun time together.

The timing of your post also affects the response rate; it's said that messages are more likely to be read between 20 PM and 23 PM, when male users are more active.

Since daytime posts tend to get buried, it's considered more efficient to post during the evening hours.

Please note that since the bulletin board is accessible to anyone, you may receive messages from a large number of men.

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Some of the people you meet may be dangerous, so it's necessary to carefully assess their profiles and messages.

Tips for efficiently finding a suitable partner using the search function

Wakuwaku Mail has a search function that allows you to narrow down potential partners based on criteria such as age, area, and occupation in their profiles.

This feature can be used to efficiently approach potential fathers.

The following search criteria are said to make it easier to find men looking for sugar daddy relationships:

ageLate 30s to 50s
OccupationBusiness owners, doctors, lawyers, etc.
purpose of useIncludes keywords such as "adult relationship"

When reviewing profiles from search results, check the following:

  • Is a photo set?
  • Is the self-introduction written carefully?
  • Are the profile fields comprehensive?

Men who possess all of these qualities are more likely to be sincere partners.

On the other hand, you should be cautious if the annual salary is set extremely high or the specifications seem too perfect.

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Profile information may be exaggerated or false, so be sure to examine it carefully.

Points to agree on during the initial meeting

The purpose of the initial meeting is to check if you are compatible with each other.

From there, it's common practice to discuss and finalize the terms and conditions in detail.

It is recommended to establish a certain level of understanding through messages before meeting in person.

Specifically, the items are as follows:

  • The amount of the allowance
  • Frequency of meeting
  • Relationship (Is it just about meals, or is there an adult relationship involved?)

Also, please keep the following points in mind when meeting for the first time.

Points to note on the day of the first meeting
① Choose the meeting place carefully.
Always choose an open location where there are other people around, such as a cafe or hotel lounge. If they suggest a private room or a car from the first meeting, it's best to avoid it.
② Negotiate terms using positive language.
Using positive expressions, such as "I hope we can have a relationship where we can both enjoy our time together," is effective. By being mindful of communicating in a way that doesn't cause offense, you can proceed with the conversation without damaging your impression.
③ Do not engage in or accept unreasonable negotiations.
While being flexible and observing the other person's reactions, there's no need to force yourself to continue if you feel the conditions aren't right. Having the courage to firmly refuse is also important.
④ The payment will be received on the spot.
It's customary to receive payment for the initial meeting directly on the spot before parting ways. Avoid agreeing to any offers of payment afterward.
⑤ Be wary of any changes to the conditions on the day of the event.
Be wary if they demand a price reduction after an initial agreement has been reached, or if they introduce conditions that weren't discussed. If you feel distrustful, consider ending the relationship on the spot.

It's common practice to discuss terms and conditions in a positive and flexible manner, and to receive payment on the spot at the end of the meeting.

Be wary of people who offer to reduce the price on the day of the meeting or make demands that weren't made beforehand.

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If you feel something is wrong, make the decision to leave the area immediately.

My experience with sugar dating on Wakuwaku Mail: Learning from success and failure stories

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Many people are probably curious about what kind of results you can expect if you actually try to use Wakuwaku Mail for sugar dating.

Here, we will introduce both success stories and failure stories.

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You should be able to find something useful in your own sugar dating activities from either perspective.

*The following is just one example and may not apply to everyone.

[Success Story] A stable income of 20 yen per month! The story of how I met a wonderful dad.

Many people may be feeling anxious about whether they will truly be able to find a dad who is right for them.

By looking at Tomoko's case, who built her ideal relationship in just half a month after registering, you can find tips for efficiently and safely engaging in "sugar dating."

Personal Story | Tomoko (pseudonym, late 20s/office worker)

I registered with Wakuwaku Mail and found my ideal dad in about two weeks.

After registering, I first meticulously crafted my profile. I wrote a thorough self-introduction, making sure that it naturally conveyed "what kind of relationships I wanted to build."

From the messages I received, I started exchanging messages with a male business owner in his 40s. We exchanged messages carefully over about a week.

During that time, we deliberately avoided discussing the amount of money directly, and instead focused on conversations such as, "What kind of involvement are you looking for?" and "I'd like to build a good relationship."

The first meeting took place at an Italian restaurant in Tokyo. We spent about two hours just having a meal, confirming each other's values ​​and preferences, and the compensation for the meeting was...1 million yen

From the second date onwards, it became a dinner date 3-4 times a month. Per dateAround 5 10,000 yenWe've reached a point where I receive compensation from them.

As a result, the moonAround 20 10,000 yenThis led to a stable relationship. I think the key was taking our time and carefully building a relationship of trust.

I believe the key to Tomoko's success was that she prioritized building trust rather than immediately jumping into discussions about money.

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Making the first date just a meal to get to know each other and creating a comfortable atmosphere for both of you might have been a key factor!

[Failure Story] Wasting time... My encounter with a problematic dad

This is the story of a college student who, after registering and immediately getting a match, soon found themselves being subjected to increasingly unreasonable demands.

This article delves into her decision to ultimately cancel the meeting and the unease she felt during their interactions.

Personal Story | Yuka (pseudonym, early 20s/university student)

I received a message from a man in his 50s on the very day I registered.

The message said, "Would you like to meet up for just a meal?" and the profile stated, "Annual income of 1,000 million yen or more."

I was eager to get started, so I exchanged messages with the man for two days and we arranged to meet in person.

However, as the day approached, the content of the messages gradually changed. There were more and more remarks that hinted at things that hadn't been discussed beforehand.

I felt uneasy, so I ultimately canceled the meeting.

The total time spent communicating was only about two to three hours, but the emotional exhaustion was far greater.

What we can learn from Yuka's mistake is that if the period of interaction is too short, you won't be able to see the other person's true nature.

If the other party makes demands that were not agreed upon beforehand, there is a risk that they may escalate further on the day of the meeting.

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It was wise of you to refuse when you felt something was off...

Frequently Asked Questions about Sugar Dating on Wakuwaku Mail

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This page answers frequently asked questions about sugar dating on Wakuwaku Mail.

If you're still unsure whether to start, please use this as a reference.

Can I find a "sugar daddy" on Wakuwaku Mail?

可能性はゼロではありません。

It is said that some business owners and high-income men who have grown tired of apps specifically for sugar dating are deliberately using Wakuwaku Mail.

To build a stable relationship with a wealthy sugar daddy, it's more likely to last longer if you aim for a pattern where the allowance gradually increases as you build trust, rather than demanding a large sum from the start.

Is it possible to be forcibly removed from the service if my sugar daddy activities are discovered?

Wakuwaku Mail's terms of service prohibit acts that violate public order and morals, such as prostitution and compensated dating.

If you are found to have violated the terms of service, your account will be suspended and you will be permanently removed from the platform, and re-registration will be difficult.

It's important to understand that even when using euphemisms, rather than direct expressions like "sugar dating," "allowance," or "financial support," the risks are not entirely eliminated.

Are there any measures I can take to operate safely without revealing my identity?

It is possible to participate without showing your face.

You can use photos showing the lower half of your face to convey your style and overall vibe, or utilize photos that show your back or hairstyle.

Aside from using photos, a good way to prevent your identity from being revealed is to use a nickname and avoid sharing personal information such as your workplace, nearest train station, or social media accounts until you have established a relationship of trust.

Summary: Use Wakuwaku Mail wisely to start your ideal sugar daddy relationship.

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Wakuwaku Mail is a general dating app, but due to its large user base of over 1,300 million members, some people use it for the purpose of "sugar dating" (papakatsu).

By making full use of the abundant features such as the recruitment function and search function, you can more easily find someone who suits your purpose.

Compared to apps specifically for sugar dating, it has a lower psychological barrier and can be a good entry point for beginners. However, using it for sugar dating purposes is prohibited by the terms of service, and there is a risk of being banned.

Please fully understand the risks involved and make your final decision at your own risk.

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I'm Airi, 28 years old, and have been involved in "sugar dating" for 5 years. I've met about 25 people so far and earned a total of 400 million yen. Currently, I earn an average of 10 to 15 yen per month, and I share my experiences and insights about sugar dating.

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