2024 January 10
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The two gradually deepened their relationship as they met, had meals, and then became adults.
As usual, say goodbye, send a thank you line (message), and communicate.
I suddenly realized that I had been asked this before the disbandment.“When can we meet next?” ”But this time it wasn't there.
Take your smartphone“When can we meet next time? ”Whenever I send it,“I’m happy to see you again!"and cheerfully
I should have received a message that conveyed my enthusiasm right away, but it never marked as read.
Maybe it was cut off at regular intervals?
Why? What was the reason for this timing?
A woman in despair thinks.
Was there anything I could have done before this happened? Where did I go wrong?
I wanted to know if there is anything I can do to prevent or prevent it.
For women who feel this way, I would like to write about what can lead to a breakup.
I think there are two factors that lead to separation.
Cases where one partner is leaving sugar dating for personal reasons
Cases where one of the couple has a change of heart and breaks up
This means that it can be a matter of either ending the relationship from the sugar daddy relationship or from that person.
Specifically, what factors affect the resolution? Let me explain.
When a father and a woman have different values regarding money, time, or the scope of their relationship, it becomes difficult for them to come to an agreement with each other, and the relationship may break down.
For example, a woman“If you want to have sex with this person, this is how much you need.”Just when I thought that, men
“I don’t have that much room in my pocket.”
``If you're going to pay that amount to this woman, wouldn't it be better to find another woman?''
I think,
And the man, the womanI can no longer see the value in meeting regularly with,
We decided that if we couldn't meet this woman unless we paid her tens of thousands of yen, we should break up.
The opposite is also true. The woman is not satisfied with the amount proposed by the man and continues to meet him.
“I feel like my time and body are being exploited.”Case“Let’s cut it.”Of course it is possible that
In relationships that involve money, it can be said that financial relationships are the key.
If one person becomes too emotionally dependent or longs for real love and intimacy, the relationship can become unbalanced and you may become dissatisfied with each other.
For example, you can't force the relationship to be limited to each other when it comes to daddy activities.
So either one of them (usually the man giving the money),
“I want it to be just me” “I want you to spend more time with yourself”I feel like I want to monopolize the other person. .
And the more there is a temperature difference between you and the other person, the more burden there will be on one of you.
“If it takes this much mental load.”I decided to say goodbye.
It's hard for those who are into it because they expect too much from the other person, and it's also hard for those who are into it because they can't respond to the other person's feelings.
In that case, one of the partners may choose to break up in order to escape from the painful situation.
Dad life is built on mutual trust and rules.
If these are destroyed or left unprotected, the relationship can fall apart.
The most common is
Even though we had a set date to meet, he kept cancelling
Canceling without notice
I treated her rudely and even though we had promised to be adults next time, I broke that promise.....
If one of you cannot keep the agreement that you have made,
The victim is unable to trust the other person and the relationship falls apart.There are also cases where.
Even when dads and pjs are allowed to have relationships with other partners, those relationships can sometimes cause problems.
As mentioned above, for girls who are active dads,"Activities for money"Therefore, unless you are secured by a very large amount of money, you don't know how long you can continue your P activities, and you don't know when your current subscription will expire, so most people tend to diversify rather than limit themselves to one person.
While I think she may have had relationships with other men,She openly talks about other daddies and it's obvious that she's doing sexual things with other men.と
There is also a pattern where men become depressed and decide to break up.
People change, and so can their goals and needs.
If the goals and needs of dads and dad-active women no longer match, it may be difficult to continue the relationship.
For example, a woman who was working to repay women's scholarships.
Repayments are completed and the goal is achieved,There is no reason to be a sugar daddy anymoreSo I decided to quit sugar dating altogether.Farewell in this way.
Reasons like these may also be factors that lead to quitting sugar dating.
lack of communication
As the relationship develops, there may be a lack of communication.
Lack of communicationCreates dissatisfaction, misunderstandings, and rifts in relationshipsThere is a possibility.
In particular, when there is a difference in stance or enthusiasm between a woman who is in it for money and a man who wants to have a close relationship with her, it is easy for them to become dissatisfied with each other.
To maintain a successful sugar daddy relationship, it's important to respect each other's needs and expectations and maintain open, healthy communication.
I have had this experience myself, but if the man is the type who wants to keep in touch relatively frequently after meeting you until the next time you meet (the type who usually wants to enjoy messages as a pseudo-romance),
Women who do not send communication before meeting have difficulty motivating the other person when they have not met.Therefore, it tends to be easily cut.
"Maybe the other person only sees me as money"
"Maybe they don't see themselves."
It becomes an element that brings out negativity.
In that case, there are many patterns in which women who interact frequently are more likely to be cut off.
I often take surveys on my sugar daddy account under the name "Oseki-chan".
The reason for the breakupquestionnaireI tried taking a picture.
If you think sexual incompatibility was also one of the reasons for the breakup,This articlePlease also take a look.
I also asked men at the dating club of the Universe Group, where I actually work.
Rather than being biased towards this pattern, it seemed to depend on the level of the relationship with the woman.
Personally, I thought that in the case of men who are truly mentally and financially stable,
It's not that women are the ones who give up on men, it's that men are the ones who give up on men.
At first glance, you might think that there are plenty of beautiful women to choose from, but in reality, the men who are active are...
In particular, when considering the percentage of truly good men, it becomes clear that men are inevitably the ones doing the choosing.
Just as there are as many ways to socialize as there are encounters and people, there are also many different ways to break up.
Still, it is very important to know what you can do or what you should not do.
Find out what your partner's minefields are and enjoy being a dad.
