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2024/ 10/ 23
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When it comes to receiving allowances in sugar dating, there are several ways to receive them.
This time,
What exactly is a monthly contract in sugar dating?
How do I switch to monthly?
What is different each time?
We will explain questions such as:
I hope you can find the ideal way to earn money by choosing the activity style that suits you.✨️
First of all, there are two main ways to receive your allowance.
Every timeThere are two types of contracts: a "pay as you go" contract, where the allowance agreed upon by both parties is received each time, and a "monthly" contract, where the monthly amount is paid in a lump sum at the beginning or end of the month.in XNUMX minutes by bus from Yonago Station.
The monthly fee is fixed regardless of the number of times you meet, so the number of times you meet each month may vary.
For men, it becomes easier to sense the value of the money, and some women may feel lucky if they calculate the cost each time.
This time, on my X account
We conducted a survey asking, "Have you ever had experience with a monthly contract for sugar dating?"
We provided "none" and "yes" response buttons for both men and women and asked them to respond separately.
What are the results?
A total of 124 people participated in this survey.
Of these, 55 people (44.3%) answered that they had experience.
The breakdown was 21 men (the sugar daddy side) and 34 women (the sugar baby girls side), accounting for 16.9% and 27.4% respectively.
Additionally, 55.7% of the total respondents had never had or currently have had a monthly contract, with 27 men and 42 women accounting for 21.8% and 33.9%, respectively.
I was surprised at how many there were.
I was surprised to find that there were quite a few experienced people in the area.
Now, let me list the good points of monthly sugar dating.
I have never actually received a monthly subscription, so I would like to ask my friends who have actually received one,universe clubPlease note that these are stories based on actual experiences I heard during my time at work.
Please rest assured that we only publish real experiences.
First of all, unlike pay-per-visit, where the amount varies depending on whether you meet or not, or the number of times you meet, monthlyYou are guaranteed to receive a certain amountThere is a merit that.
How much will I earn this month?
I don't have much free time so I can't devote time to activities.
There is no need to worry about financial instability. Having an amount you can depend on gives you peace of mind and financial stability.
Among the men who give allowances on a per-use basis and the women who receive allowances,
If I receive an allowance every time, it feels like I'm selling my time piecemeal, and I don't like that.
It feels like she's dating a sugar daddy and it's a turn-off.
I feel like I'm being confronted with the reality that our relationship is just about money.
Some people say that.
It seems that such people give money to their partner on a monthly basis, either by hand or by bank transfer, and then go on dates like normal lovers. This has the advantage of "reducing the sense of a financial relationship and making it easier to create a pseudo-romantic feeling" compared to giving money every time.
In the survey, about ○% of people said...
I feel like the more you're into it, the better the monthly plan is.
Just as there are advantages to monthly rentals, there are also disadvantages. What are the disadvantages?
It seems like there are only disadvantages for men, but is that really the case?
The disadvantages of monthly rentals are divided into male and female perspectives.
From a man's perspective, there are disadvantages such as increased financial burden and having to pay a certain amount even if you don't meet as many times as agreed, making it poor value for money.
So what are the disadvantages for women?
No matter how busy you are at work or in your personal life "I have to meet him since I've been paid this much."You may feel the pressure to do so.
Some men inevitably feel that since they are paying monthly, they should be made a priority, and this makes many women feel as though they have to make them a priority more than before.
Many of the Ps tried to increase the number of times they did something.
There were days when we only had meals together, or even just saw each other for a little while. It's difficult to make it work, so I felt bad on those days.
It is also a natural tendency of men to become more attached to the things they devote themselves to.
I'm giving this much on a monthly basis
You're slow to respond, you only think of me as an ATM to give you money
Some men worry about this.
Since we are on a monthly basis, I expect that at the very least, my partner will give me priority over other men, not see other men, and respond to my messages promptly. Since I am doing this much for my partner, I want him to treat me accordingly, and it may be human instinct to expect this from him.
In some cases, receiving money can lead to financial dependence, which can lead to emotional dependence as well.
If and when this source of money is lost, in order to avoid losing it, priorities will begin to depend on the other person and their money, and if you have no core of your own, you may find yourself in a completely upside-down situation where you will not be able to survive without your husband.
That's not the ideal daddy life...
Oseki: That's not the ideal sugar daddy situation...
So how much do women who engage in monthly sugar dating actually receive per month?
Is the content intended for adults?
We conducted a survey of both men and women who have had experience with monthly sugar dating, asking about the general content and amount of monthly fees, etc., on the following topics.
The following is about the contents.
Only for meals or dates about 1-3 times a month
Adult relations 1-3 times a month
Only dinner or dates at least once a week
Adult relationship at least once a week
In addition, we will also discuss the actual monthly amount and changes in feelings.Separate men and womenThank you for your reply.
Here is the "monthly contract details for sugar dating" for men and women.
It will be easier to understand if you think of warm colors as 🚺 and cool colors as 🚹.
Of the 30 women who had experience with monthly contracts, approximately 77% had monthly contracts with physical relations, and approximately 23% had monthly contracts without physical relations.
When I hear about mistresses and monthly relationships, I assume it involves a physical relationship.
I thought so, but it's not like that!
About 1% of people meet with their friends about 3-67 times a month.
And 33% of women meet their spouse at least once a week (or more than four times a month).
I thought there were many women who met frequently, but
It seems like you don't meet that often.
Of the 15 male respondents who had experience with monthly contracts, approximately 73% had experience with monthly contracts that involved physical relations, while approximately 27% had experience with monthly contracts that did not involve physical relations.
It's interesting that the percentage of responses from men is roughly the same as that from women.
About 1% of people meet with their friends about 3-73 times a month.
And 27% of people meet their spouse at least once a week (or more than four times a month).
Personally, I found this very surprising, but I think it was due to a lack of time and money.
I guess it's a sign of his desire to provide stable support for women.
Regarding the amount of the monthly contract, which is probably what you are most curious about, we have taken into consideration the fact that the details will likely differ for each person and have therefore decided not to separate answers regarding the content, but to simply compile the results as numbers for the time being.
The most common answer was 10-30 yen (or less), and there was not much difference between the remaining three options. There were just as many people receiving 3 yen or more as those receiving 10 yen or less, which I thought was amazing.
What kind of kids are getting more than 50 yen?
Personally, I'm very curious...
The responses from men were slightly different from the proportions for women, with almost equal proportions of people choosing "10 yen or less" and "10 to 30 yen or less."
The remaining two options were given roughly equal shares.
What is the content of monthly rentals under 10 yen?
There is something to be concerned about.
I also hope that one day I will be able to compile a monthly summary by content.
(To do that, I need to increase my followers!)
The moment you start a monthly sugar daddy relationship, things will change from when you were in a one-time payment relationship.
We conducted a survey to find out more about the realities of this, such as what changes in mood occur in both men and women, and whether their moods fluctuate.
We also received responses from men and women separately.
I think there are good and bad changes in women's mindsets.
Of the 27 women, 44.4% expressed positive feelings such as "I'm grateful/appreciative/I want to respond to their feelings even more" and "I'm more motivated to make them like me even more."
On the other hand, the majority of women (55.6%) had experienced negative changes that did not have a positive impact, such as "I want to see them less" or "I feel depressed."
Humans are creatures who seek out the easy way out...
I think there are women who are calculating the cost per visit.
When it comes to changes in men's mindset, more negative changes were noticeable.
Of the 18 men, 38.9% (about 40%) felt that their relationship and they were being made positive by their partner, with comments such as "I feel it's good value for money no matter how many times we meet" and "My happiness increases because our relationship is stable," meaning that they were feeling positive emotions.
Is it roughly the same ratio as women?
On the other hand, more than half (61.1%) of men had become discouraged after noticing changes in their partner's feelings, such as "the number of times has been reduced and I feel like it's not cost-effective" or "I feel empty and wonder how long this will last," or they did not feel that their relationship was very good.
I want to improve our relationship or stabilize it.
I signed up for a monthly contract, but... it's too much🥺💦
The reality is that monthly relationships aren't all good for both men and women.
I felt it was important to understand this.
So, for all the girls who have actually switched from paying as you go to a monthly plan, what do you think are the important things to keep in mind?
What the sugar daddy staff heard, saw and felt from PJ-chan
Please let me output it.
When we think about why men propose or accept monthly contracts,
You will find answers to how you should act and who you should be.
The reasons why men propose monthly contracts are probably as follows:
I want to stand out from other men (P) (or I want to limit it to just me since I'm signing up for a monthly plan)
This will also require some money in advance, so please set aside a reasonable amount of time.
I want to express my sincerity to you
And the moment you hand over the money, contact them.If they stop replying, become sloppy, or stop making time to meetWhat do you think?
This girl only wants money and wants to be with me
That's not what I think...
This will make it very clear to the viewer that:
Perhaps they just want it to not be made public.
To that end, be conscious of communicating with the other person by sending messages of concern from time to time and by having frequent exchanges.
I'm not saying you have to force yourself to get in touch.
When their attitude becomes obvious, I feel sad.
If they understood, they wouldn't behave like that.
Although,
Even if you ask for something like that for this amount of money
So I don't have any privacy? I'm tired...
It's not good to feel this way.
Not just how often you meetIt is better to be clear about "what you can do and what you would be asked to do"maybe.
I'm sure there are women who operate in a pseudo-romantic style that is firmly based on, "I love you because you're special," but there are also women who find constant contact and being tied down a burden.
In that case, we will propose a reasonable amount according to what is required,
Be honest about your own boundaries, such as how much you can do depending on the amount of money, and how often you can meet.
At that moment, I made a promise and said yes
The worst thing would be to receive only the first shipment and then never hear from them again.
Let's avoid that at all costs!
Please spare me that...💦
Even if you intend to continue it, a sugar daddy relationship will most likely come to an end at some point.
This is about ``breakups'' that can happen or will happen someday even if you are in a regular relationship.
We asked people who had actually had regular relationships, in this case monthly relationships, to fill in the questionnaire about how long the relationships lasted.
Surprisingly, the majority of respondents had been staying with the service for more than a year since it became a monthly contract.
However, 1% of people finish within 3 to 22.2 months, and XNUMX% of people finish their monthly contract within XNUMX months.
"Just because it's a monthly contract doesn't mean you can be at ease."I also understand that this is a reality.
me too1% of customers have been staying on a monthly plan for over a year.The results were encouraging, showing that many people maintain long-term, ongoing relationships.
But at the same timeThe same percentage (6%) of people had their monthly contracts terminated within six months.To
I have the impression that men are more strict,
It may be a miracle that it continues...
In sugar dating or anything else, it's important to "anticipate the worst case scenario."
Even though I am currently receiving stable support,
There may be times when you are forced to end a relationship due to reasons such as the above.
There's no need to be pessimistic, but things are always changing.
Understand and accept that the present will not last forever.
Check the reason for the breakup
Added 2024.10.23
We asked people who are actually in monthly sugar dating relationships for information and received their experiences!
And he had the valuable experience of becoming a Suki P.
Supporting someone while you can't meet may seem like a bad idea, but if the other person is a sensible woman,
We can see that money accumulates in one's heart without being perceived as someone who will give it to them unconditionally.
In this way, we should never forget to be grateful and build relationships.
For women who are determined to continue
I feel like I want to continue supporting them in the future.
To have this kind of relationship, you have to understand each other very well.
If you don't trust it, it won't work.
I understand that it's not something you can build right away after meeting someone.
As I am still new to sugar dating and have never actually been proposed a monthly relationship, I cannot share my own experience with you all. Therefore, I would like to solicit your own experiences and hear about the kind of relationships you are actually able to build.
If you have experience, I would appreciate it if you could tell me how much you propose for a monthly lease and what kind of relationship you have built.
We are also looking for content that you honestly think is not worth it and that can serve as a negative example.
We would appreciate your cooperation.
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We look forward to seeing you!
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