2024 December 08
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Dad activities have also become quite popular.
Even in ordinary conversations, the word "dadakatsu" pops up.
The reason is that the world is changing as young women become more independent through their relationships with older men (daddies).
It also means that receiving financial support is becoming more common.
However, in public, sugar dating is"It looks like an easy way to make money"The image that comes to mind is
In reality, there are inherent risks and the dangers are high.
As it becomes more popular,
The next generation of dads has joined in.The number of people seeking sugar daddies has increased.
The number of women seeking sugar daddies has increased due to the negative effects of not being able to earn money or go to night jobs due to the coronavirus.
And overflowing,Men who can't meet people and feel lonely can start sugar dating casually.became.
At that time, there were women who were making money from online drinking parties.
It seems that for some men, online drinking parties were what prompted them to start sugar dating.
It's a good thing that more men are willing to support sugar daddy girls.
There have also been an increasing number of nuisances for women who are active in the field.
Men who try to lower the price of sugar daddies
These are the people.
When I started X, I started researching what girls who were looking for sugar daddies wanted to know.
I've noticed that it seems like there are a lot of men who want to lower this price range.
This is a fact that I didn't notice when I worked at a dating club.
The following content is often found in personal DM inquiries and anonymous questions.
What do you think of men who easily haggle over the price when dating a sugar daddy?
The man I met offered me a price that was lower than the market price.
How to negotiate...
What do you think about having a regular relationship with a low-cost P?
There are so many questions like this
In the first place, the definition of sugar dating and the relationship vary from person to person.
It is not possible to set a minimum amount for the amount you propose, so it is left to your own judgment.
I have heard that there are more and more men who try to reduce allowances in cunning ways or make proposals that only benefit themselves.
We will explain the characteristics of such sugar daddies and how to think when faced with such men.
First,Sugar dating should be done with the consent of the other person.
This is a major premise.
Sugar dating is a type of dating where a woman over 18 years old and a financially well-off man go on a date with financial support.
The allowance will be decided after mutual agreement between the two parties.
One of them is not satisfied with the content of the sugar daddy relationship or the other person's appearance or personality.
Both men and women have the right to decline if they do not wish to be in a relationship.
What is sugar dating?Similar but differentThing.
If men don't understand this difference, they tend to be disrespectful towards women.
Of course, it is also important for women to be grateful to men for their money and support,
The other person's attitude
If you pay the money, you can do it. If you can't, you're worthless.
If you say that, it will be difficult for the woman to express her gratitude and negotiations will not go well.
This tends to result in failure.
This applies to both men and women, but we recommend that you do some research on the going rate for sugar dating.
Depends on your experience,
For example, if someone is usually okay with an allowance of 7 yen,
It's unlikely that you'd agree to a proposal for 2 yen each time.
For those who have only ever met men at dating clubs,
The phenomenon of being shocked when a man you meet on a dating app proposes something to you
Because I don't know the approximate market price of a dating club,This may be the reason.
If you have time, check out the market outlook.
So, in reality, even if the allowance is low, even if you play the role of a rich dad,
We will explain the typical behavioral patterns of men who say that their actual contribution to the sugar daddy girls was low.
I didn't want to experience this for myself.
For two adults. If you can't handle it, turn around.
Some people send this as their first message.
You could say that these guys have a clearly defined "budget" and are looking for a woman who can date them within that budget, but compared to men who make suggestions after understanding the woman's wishes and circumstances, I feel that theirs is more like compensated dating than sugar dating.
The image of a man who is involved in sugar dating is probably that of a gentleman who is relaxed and calm.
I think a lot of them are about being good at escorting.
However, there are men like this among those who want to act like good daddies and negotiate for even one yen cheaper.
I hate women who like pussy.
Have you ever heard this word?
He only sees women as holes to have sex with, and although he is sexually aroused and likes women as females,
They despise women as creatures.
They believe that they are creatures unworthy of trust/dignity.
I'm fine with having sex, I'm not interested in the person or what's inside
This refers to people whose way of thinking is fundamentally based on misogyny and male chauvinism.
These people are the ones who make womenAs a cheap economic objectI'll try to handle it.
In X, some people use words that are not even considered, and talk about genitals in a derogatory manner.
Onaholes with a will, cheap holes, and bargain pussies
Civility...❣
Everyone is born through that hole.
This is a way of thinking that tramples on women's dignity, and it is evident in every word he says.
Rude, intimidating, or unkind behaviorwill appear.
It can be said that these actions and words show absolutely no respect.
Basically, in sugar dating, it is a win-win situation for both parties.
You develop deep relationships and spend a lot of time together.
However, men who offer low prices do not take into account the stance or feelings of the sugar daddy girls they are dating.
ItsWho benefits from this besides you?
I sometimes make the following suggestion.
For example,
Demand that they only accept sugar daddy services if the compensation is minimal
Attempting to financially blackmail
There are also cases like this.
This is a clear violation of rights and one cannot help but say that this man is disregarding the woman's feelings.
This could result in legal issues and troubles.
Just like in normal love, I've fallen in love and I want to have this person all to myself!
People who think this way are human, so it may be inevitable.
However, there are also men who want their partners to end their relationships with other sugar daddies for other reasons.
Receiving support from other men makes you a lower priority
If I meet other men, it will be obvious that I am dating for a low price.
If I meet another man, I won't be able to call him whenever I want.
For this reason, I decided to end my relationship with the other man (my daddy).
Try to maintain your superiority.
The target audience is often young project managers who are beginners and don't yet know how to do things.
👇 A comic based on a real example
Men trying to have adult acts cheaply = Women need to do it multiple times until they reach their target amount
The resulting diagram looks like this.
that wayprevalence of venereal diseaseIt also leads to.
Asking for unprotected sex, without consent
Some men will try to exploit you for cheap.
Unfortunately, this is also in the form of feedback for our service "PATOLO"
Sometimes it can become clear.
👇Actual reviews of 🚺➡🚹
This is not something I heard on PATOLO,
Putting them in a situation where they have no money and they can't refuse
They try to get people to do what they want by telling them fictional stories.
Men actually exist too.
I've heard a whole lot of different stories.
It is also characterised by a disregard for women’s safety and health and a failure to provide safe environments and conditions.
In most cases, when using sugar daddy apps, they will confirm this in advance via message.
How about raw ho for an extra charge of XX?
This is the most common way to ask.
"NN at an exceptional price"Forcing them to do so, removing the contraceptive during the act,
However, this is not reflected in the allowance, which is something that only has disadvantages for women.
When you hear the term "mistress contract," most people
Someone who is rich and has a lot of money and can afford to be like Daddy Long Legs.
I guess he wants to surround himself with women...
I imagine that these types of people are not the only ones who engage in sugar dating.
The difference between ideal and realityThis is also one of the reasons why the market seems to have fallen.
There are actually people out there who will try to lower the market price, which is why they offer low prices.
We actually asked people who want to keep their allowances compact why they do so.
choice
Low budget
I don't value sex highly
I don't see much value in women who are looking for sugar daddies.
Once the results are available, I will share them with you in a graph.
They try to develop themselves by offering as little financial compensation as possible to women.
They focus on reducing their own financial burden and ignore women's needs and the value of their labor.
I'm thinking 1.5 each time.
When he proposes this to her and she refuses,
You worthless shitty pussy! Know your worth!
They are characterized by parting shots such as:
Some men say that they don't see much value in women who are into sugar daddies.
From their perspective,"Someone who can easily have a physical relationship with you if you pay them money."As
Maybe they see you as a product or service provider.
It disregards the dignity and self-worth of women who engage in sugar dating.
Prioritize economic interests over emotional and ethical considerations.
👇 Sometimes this kind of mentality is clearly evident.
As long as I'm happy, that's fine
Don't act like you're a good woman when you're a worthless whore
Some people just don't see much value in sex itself.
This is especially common among young men who can easily have physical relationships with any woman of a certain age.
Money and youth,
Mr. P, a young man who can compete to some extent in the normal dating market based on his own ability,
Better than dealing with other old guys, right?
Because I am confident in my value compared to other men in the sugar daddy market.
I am more likely to try to test my abilities in areas other than money.
And so we end up proposing it at a low price.
👇 A post that puts it into words
In fact, younger men tend to offer lower allowances.
We often receive feedback like this.
Of course, this is not something that young P has in common.
This may be inevitable, but if you are involved in a sexual relationship like in a prostitution establishment or if you are providing sexual services,
Those who are familiar with the area are familiar with the price range.
Especially men who have compared cheap, popular, high-end, super high-end...
"If you pay the money, you can do it," so the amount proposed by a seemingly normal woman was
Compare the price range of the sex services you have paid
"It would be cheaper if I went to a brothel."I think.
They are both women, and there is little difference in the actions they take.
I can understand the men's feelings, but
Prostitution and sugar dating are different, so it may be difficult if you don't understand that.
And even though she's worse looking than a prostitute,
If the service is worse than that of a prostitute, is it worth paying for?
With a woman who feels valued and "happy just to have been able to develop with that person"
I think the best solution is to develop it.
Men who are in an environment where sex is easy to have, or who can develop if they don't choose
Maybe it feels that way because of that experience.
👇 What is the average price for sex work? I used this as a reference to deepen my understanding
How is it?
your dad is
Isn't this a man who tries to control women mentally and physically?
Men, did this not apply to you?
The more items that apply, the better.
"A low-price landmine man who tries to lower the market price and ignores the dignity of women"There is a high possibility that it will be.
Conclusion
There are men in the industry who try to lower the price of sugar daddies.
I realized that it hurts women's feelings and dignity.
But there is a reason behind it,
SometimesThe insensitive, rude and poor manners of sugar daddy womenIt could also be due to reasons.
Sugar dating is seen as something that only people who are financially and mentally well off can do.
To meet those expectations, I want women to be respected and to work only under fair conditions.
As a sugar daddy staff member, this is my hope.
In addition, Women themselves need to recognize their own self-worth and protect their rights.
It is also important to train in a way that makes people think you are valuable.I also feel this strongly.
Only you can protect yourself.
You also need to make an effort to become a woman that men want to support.
Let's keep that in mind and act accordingly.
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Is it the market price?
I feel that times have changed that this is being talked about by the management.
Basically, it is a negotiation between individuals and does not involve the amount etc.
That was supposed to be your stance, but has it changed recently?
If a market price exists, the operator should clearly state it.
Make sure to clearly state this at the time of the interview or on the website: ``If these conditions are not met, you will be flatly refused.''
We should protect women by teaching them this.
But that won't happen.
I understand that you may have a difficult time between your position and your true feelings.
If you don't make your stance clear, your post will look unconvincing.
thank you for your comment.
>>Basically, it is a negotiation between individuals and does not involve the amount etc.
This basically hasn't changed.
However, when I look at it on X and other SNS, I see it from a woman's perspective, so I wonder if it's a father-hunting activity? There are times when I see a report that shows a person being offered a price that makes them think that they are being exploited.
I found it very painful to read the content, and I wrote this because I wanted women to read this article and reconsider whether they can really afford that amount.
It's fine if women act on their own understanding, but it's sad if men are subjected to peer pressure or saying, "This is the market price."
I would like the relationship to continue with an allowance that is acceptable to both men and women. We sincerely thank you for your comments that take our position into consideration.