Just 4 things! [For Women] Basic Rules and Manners for Sugar Daddy Apps

No special manners are required for sugar dating.

Sugar dating won't work unless both men and women follow the rules and manners.
Because it is a personal relationship involving money and sex,
When choosing a romantic partner, one often asks, "Can I trust this person?"
This is important for both men and women.

There have been numerous incidents related to "sugar daddy" relationships recently.
With someone whose personal information is unknown,
It's only natural, considering the possibility of being alone together in a room or becoming intimate.

But there's absolutely no need to worry.
To get straight to the point,

As long as you follow basic etiquette and manners as a working adult or student, there shouldn't be any problems with sugar dating.
You don't need to be a sophisticated connoisseur of high-end restaurants; information you can find in 5 minutes before a date is sufficient.

In short, if you can do the obvious things in an obvious way, you'll win.
Unfortunately, very few women are able to do this thoroughly.
This is because sugar dating is not a job, and the connections are made anonymously, making it easy to resort to vague or inappropriate responses.
Maintaining the resolve to avoid taking the easy way out is the shortest route to a successful project.

Many women are likely carrying out their activities while feeling anxious and vulnerable.
For some women, the hassle might outweigh the benefits.
However, the ideal dad that all the PJs want to meet is a socially successful man.
It might be easier to understand if you imagine them as company presidents or executives.
Such men naturally value good manners.
For them, the importance of manners in building trust in business is simply a given.

Now let's look at some specific points to keep in mind.

These are the essential rules and manners you should follow when engaging in "sugar dating"!

In the past, I have encountered several instances of blatant breaches of etiquette.
The most surprising incident was when a woman sent an acquaintance on a date instead of herself.
Although it was an individual's violation, what they were doing was the same as what a professional company would do.
In the 12 years since the company was founded, this has only happened once as far as I know, so I think it's a truly rare occurrence.
Be careful, as this can result in immediate expulsion.

① [Message] Please reply within 6 hours. Thank you message will be sent on the same day.

First, let's talk about messaging rules and etiquette.
Please try to reply within 6 hours, or ideally within 3 hours.
If you are unavailable to be contacted between 9:00 AM and 18:00 PM on weekdays due to school or work, please include this information in your profile.

And one common mistake many women make is sending a thank-you message after a date.

After a date, send a thank-you message promptly after you part ways.

I'm struggling with what to write. I'll send it tomorrow → Time has passed and I haven't heard from them, so I'll just not send it.

The above is the worst-case scenario.
First of all, in a sugar daddy date, it's the sugar daddy who pays, right?
As any working adult would know, when someone treats you to a meal,
In addition to expressing gratitude at the time, it is common courtesy to follow up with a thank-you message.
It's not common for the dad who treated you to a meal to contact you.
And even if the date itself was enjoyable,

Many men decide against inviting a woman out again if she doesn't send a thank-you message.
It will result in a significant deduction of points, at the very least.

In short, it will cool down.

The best time to send a thank-you message is on the train home after the date has ended.
Simply expressing your gratitude for the meal and meeting is perfectly fine.

② [Respect the man's time] Don't cancel at the last minute or be late.

Next is the etiquette of "keeping promises and understanding the value of a man's time."
If you can't follow this rule, there's a high probability that the man will break up with you.
Please arrive at the meeting place 5 minutes early.

In sugar dating, I receive invitations from many men at the same time.
Sometimes, even if you already have a prior commitment, you might later find a man with better prospects.
I woke up in the morning and suddenly didn't want to go after all. Some women might think, "I'm going to quit sugar dating!"
It's possible that you overslept because you were tired.

On the day itself, I felt depressed, had a vague stomach ache and headache, fell down the stairs, and was bitten by a dog.
My face is puffy, my makeup isn't going well, I notice my nail polish is chipped, and my bedhead won't go away.
My family member is ill, and my pet looks up at me sadly.

Those who are determined to overcome various obstacles and go on dates are the ones who can succeed in "sugar dating."
*This is not to say that you should go on a date even if you have the flu or test positive for COVID-19.

I don't think you'll understand if I say it's the same as an arranged marriage,
I hope you'll approach this with the same mindset as you would for a school entrance exam or a job interview for a full-time position at a company.

Of course, your own feelings are the most important thing.
If you hate sugar dating so much that you're struggling to even think about going on a date that day,
You should stop immediately, or even better, not register in the first place.
Of course, it's a nuisance for Dad,
Women may end up simply having a negative experience and revealing their personal information without any real benefit.

③ Smiles and expressions of gratitude [Thank you, Thank you for the meal, I'm sorry]

In sugar daddy dates, the man pays for all the date expenses, such as meals.
If the woman responds with an air of "Isn't that obvious?" and says nothing, the man will become disillusioned.

This man might be someone who will support you in the future.
I expressed my gratitude to the man, who has a high social status and a high hourly wage, for taking the time out of his busy schedule to go on a date with me.
After being treated to a meal, express your gratitude.
When you have to decline a relationship because the conditions don't match, be sure to apologize politely.
In some cases, a man's attitude may suddenly change, leading him to hurl insults or become enraged.
In such situations, don't panic or make a fuss; simply report and block the user through the app or website.

It's terrifying when someone you've just met suddenly loses their temper and becomes violent, isn't it?
However, it's actually common for both men and women to resort to verbal abuse or abrupt changes in attitude when relationship conditions don't align.
This could cause good sugar daddies and women to leave, which is a real shame.
Both men and women should be mindful of being polite and considerate, especially when declining or being declined in a relationship.

Even if you have something on your mind, try to resist the urge to make a sarcastic remark at the end.
You could be subjected to several times the amount of attacks and harassment later on.
Don't provoke such a troublesome person; just cut your losses and move on.

④ Do not ask for or disclose personal information.

To prevent problems, make sure you don't ask for or share personal information.
There have been numerous instances in the past where the victim became a stalker, contacted their workplace, or delivered items to them.
When I spoke to men and women who had been victims of such crimes,
"I felt he was a good person, so I shared my personal information to show my sincerity."
Many people say that,
If a dad or PJ is truly a good person, they wouldn't be happy at all to receive personal information from the other person; in fact, they would be wary.

It's also a common occurrence to be suddenly handed a business card without any explanation,
Let's accept their kind offer and return it respectfully.

Also, after meeting in person, the majority of men and women communicate with their potential partners via LINE.
Women who use their real name as their LINE username should change it to a username they don't mind being seen by others before going on a date.
I have never heard of anyone being suspected of engaging in "sugar dating" (compensated dating) after changing their registered name on LINE.

Summary

What did you think?
This time, we covered the basic etiquette of sugar dating.

Since you've already mustered the courage to start this activity,
Getting involved in trouble,
Be careful not to unknowingly lower your standing with men.
Let's aim for a successful project.

Things aren't going well, but I don't know why!
If this sounds like you, please feel free to consult with our professional sugar daddy staff.