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2024/ 07/ 31
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Sugar dating won't go well unless both men and women follow the rules and manners.
It's a personal relationship that involves money and sex.
When choosing a partner, one thing to consider is, "Can I trust this person?"
It’s important for both men and women.
There are many cases involving sugar daddies in the world,
With people whose personal information you don’t know,
This is only natural, considering there is a possibility that you will be alone in a room together and your skin may touch.
But there's no need to be anxious.
First, let me give you the conclusion:
There is no problem with sugar dating as long as you observe basic etiquette and manners as a working adult or student.
There's no need to act like an expert in a fancy restaurant; just some information you can research in five minutes before your date will be enough.
In short, if you can do the obvious things in an obvious way, you win.
But unfortunately, very few women are able to do this.
This is because sugar dating is not a job and is an anonymous connection, so it is easy to get away with responding in a casual manner.
The shortest route to a successful project is whether you can maintain the mentality of not choosing the easy way out.
Many women are likely to be feeling anxious and lonely as they carry out these activities.
For some women, the hassle may outweigh the benefits.
However, the good daddy that all PJ members want to meet is a man who is socially successful.
It may be easier to imagine them as a company president or executive.
Naturally, such men value manners.
For them, the importance of good manners in building trusting business relationships is something they take for granted.
Now let's take a look at some specific points to note.
In the past, I have encountered some serious breaches of etiquette.
The most surprising case was when the woman sent a friend on a date instead of herself.
Although it was merely an individual violation, what they were doing was the same as what a business would do.
It's been 12 years since the company was founded, and as far as I know, this has only happened once, so I think it's a really rare event.
Be careful because you will be expelled immediately.
First, let's talk about messaging rules and etiquette.
Aim to respond within 6 hours, ideally within 3 hours.
If you cannot be contacted between 9:00-18:00 on weekdays due to studies or work, be sure to state this in your profile.
And one thing that many women tend to fall into is not sending a thank you message after the date.
If you go on a date, be sure to send a thank you message promptly after you leave.
I'm having trouble deciding what to write. I'll send it the next day → Time has passed and I haven't heard from the other person, so I'll stop sending it.
The above is the worst case scenario.
First of all, it's the sugar daddy who pays for the sugar daddy date.
As any working adult would understand, when you are treated to a meal,
It is common sense to contact the person to express your gratitude in addition to expressing your gratitude on the spot.
It is not normal for the dad who treats the child to contact him.
And even if the date itself was fun,
Many men decide not to invite the woman out again because they don't receive a thank you message.
At the very least it will be a big deduction.
In other words, it cools down.
The best time to send a thank you message is after the date, on the train on your way home.
Even if it's just a simple thank you for the meal or meeting them,
Next is etiquette, such as "keeping promises and understanding the value of a man's time."
If you cannot follow these rules, there is a high probability that the man will break up with you.
Make sure you arrive at the meeting point 5 minutes early.
When you engage in sugar dating, you will receive invitations from many men at the same time.
Sometimes, even if you are already engaged, you may find a man who is better suited to you later.
Some women may wake up in the morning and think, "I don't want to go after all. I'm done with sugar dating!"
It's also possible that you were tired and overslept.
On the day itself, I felt depressed, my stomach and head started hurting, I fell down the stairs, I was bitten by a dog,
My face was swollen, my makeup wasn't working, I noticed my nails were chipping off, and I couldn't get rid of my bedhead.
A family member becomes unwell and a pet looks up at you sadly.
Those who are prepared to overcome these various obstacles and go on dates are the ones who will be successful in sugar dating.
*This does not mean that we want you to go on a date even if you test positive for the flu or coronavirus.
I know that you probably won't understand if I say it's the same as matchmaking, so
We hope you will approach this in the same way as you would an entrance exam for your desired school or an interview for a full-time job at a company.
Of course, your heart is the most important thing.
If you hate sugar dating so much that you're struggling to decide to go on a date,
It's best to quit now, or never sign up in the first place.
Not only is it a hassle for Dad,
It could end up being just that the woman feels uncomfortable giving out her information.
In a sugar daddy date, the man pays for all the expenses, including meals,
If women don't say anything in response to that, acting like it's obvious, men will become disillusioned.
This man is someone who may be able to support you in the future.
Express your gratitude to the man who has a high social status and a high hourly wage for spending his precious time with you on a date.
If someone treats you to a meal, say thank you.
If you have to turn down an offer because the terms are not right for you, be sure to apologize politely.
There is a possibility that the man's attitude may suddenly change and he may become abusive or angry.
In such cases, don't panic or make a fuss, just report it via the app or website and block it.
It would be terrifying if someone you meet for the first time suddenly got angry and started acting violently.
However, it is true that both men and women can become abusive or suddenly change their attitude when the terms of a relationship are not right for them.
It's a shame that this can cause good men and women looking for sugar daddies to drop out.
Both men and women should be conscious of responding politely, especially when turning down an invitation or being turned down.
Even if you have something to say, try to resist the urge to say something nasty at the end.
You may be subject to multiple attacks and harassment later.
Don't provoke such a troublesome person, just get over them quickly and move on to the next one.
To avoid any trouble, be sure not to ask for or provide any personal information.
In the past, there have been many cases where the other person has become a stalker, contacted the victim's workplace, or delivered items to them.
When I spoke to men and women who had been victims of such crimes,
"I felt he was a nice person, so I provided him with my personal information to show sincerity."
Many people say,
If he is a truly good dad or project partner, he will not be happy at all and will be wary of receiving personal information from the other person.
It is common for a business card to be handed to you without any prior notice,
Just accept the sentiment and give back graciously.
Also, after meeting in person, the majority of men and women communicate with their sugar daddy via LINE.
If you are a woman who uses your real name as your LINE registration name, change it to a name that you don't mind being seen before going on a date.
I have never heard of anyone changing their registered name on LINE and then being suspected by others of being a sugar baby.
What did you think?
This time, we talked about basic etiquette when it comes to sugar dating.
If you have mustered up the courage to start your activities,
Getting into trouble,
Be careful not to unintentionally lower the opinion of men.
Let's aim for a successful project.
It's not working and I don't know why!
If you have any questions, please feel free to consult our professional sugar daddy staff.
I'm Nanami Miyoshi from the PATOLO division, and I've been working as a sugar daddy staff member for 8 years. My hobbies are observing people and thinking about sugar daddy. You won't understand anything if you think about it in front of the computer. First, go on a date, then talk.
