November 2024, 10
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Do you give presents when dating a sugar daddy?
What kind of gift would make him happy?
When is the right time to give a gift?
I'm sure there are many people who think the same way.
In this article, we will introduce how to choose a gift for sugar dating, how to give a good impression,
I'll introduce you to some gifts that will make you feel awkward.
This is a topic I've been wanting to know about as well, so I'll be doing some research!
This is a gift for those who become regular customers through sugar dating.
I think many people are worried about whether to give it or not.
Once you give it as a gift, won't it just escalate more and more?
I get worried and sometimes I can't do it.
It's tough to have expectations all the time...
that is···
Some men worry that there may be some kind of "side effect" in the woman after giving the gift, and when they actually receive the gift,"Well then, let's make a donation."There are also women who transform into begging girls.
But are most relationships really just like that, where one person exploits the other?
We conducted a survey to find out the actual situation.
I'm a sugar daddy Twitter user and I'm addicted to Twitter.universe groupMy name is Oseki and I work at .
We are always conducting surveys about sugar dating on X.
What should I write about in my next column?
What survey should I take?
I was spending a daze on a holiday afternoon.
OnemarshmallowIt arrived to me. Here is the contents:
This is definitely a question everyone needs to know
I felt this way, and so I decided to make it the subject of my column.
As always, on the account of Oseki (Yuna Seki)
I thought about a few things under the theme of [Sugar Daddy/Gifts]
The contents of the survey are as follows:
Present gift experience
Have you ever received a gift and been confused or dissatisfied with the reaction or service?
Something I'm happy to receive from "Mr. P" and that helps me
"Things that I would find troublesome or unwanted if I received them from Mr. P"
The intention of giving gifts in the "sugar daddy" relationship
Something I'm happy to receive from "PJ-san" and that helps me
"Things that I would find troublesome or unnecessary to receive from PJ"
The best time to give a gift
A woman who wants to give a gift
I've never received a present from a sugar daddy.
Since I can't write about my actual experience, I'm really looking forward to finding out what everyone actually got.
There are several benefits to giving gifts when dating a sugar daddy.
By giving gifts to sugar daddies,
NaturallyConsideration for othersIt can be showngood impressioncan be given.
If you have just met,
"He might become a daddy worth caring about."This will make it easier for people to think that way.
I have to value it more than other people.
It's easy to think
The person had received a gift from his dad.
If it isn't there, it will be even more rare.
Nowadays, there are probably many women who satisfy their need for approval by posting on social media.
On SNS"I was given a present"Directing
Things I've bought and received to make people think of me as a more wonderful, shining woman
There are signs that it will be posted on social media. (It may be a branding thing.)
And such modern times
The stronger this feeling becomes, the more young women today, especially those who engage in sugar dating,
It is easy to feel that financial and material support equals one's self-worth tends to be.
I'm also happy that people like it that much.
I can understand why people want to brag about it.
Gifts for both men and women who are looking for a sugar daddy"Absolutely not."I don't think there are many people who are convinced of this.
However, some people feel that it is not really necessary to go that far, and opinions vary.
However, in reality, sugar dating is a relationship where money and material support are key.
This may result in some negative outcomes, such as:
This is just my opinion, so please read it as a personal opinion.
Young and beautiful women have multiple daddies and potential daddies.
And when there is a lot of competition and a lot of men who want to be liked
They try to differentiate themselves from the other members of the opposite sex by increasing their gifts and financial supply.
It’s often exhausted.
In other words, There are many opportunities to compare and competitorsThat.
In this case, if the woman does not have any feelings, she will be compared to a man who expresses his affection through various words and actions.
Since you are "giving absolutely nothing," you are likely to be at a disadvantage.
I somehow feel calm when I'm with him, something I can't get with anyone else.
If you feel it's valuable, then it's a different story.
And vice versa, if the man you want to continue dating is
If he was in a relationship with multiple women, other women would give him small gifts or things with their feelings.
If you are the only one who always takes on the attitude of "receiving things," people may lose patience with you.
Not when you meet normally, but in situations where you might have high expectations.
The xth anniversary of a regular relationship, birthdays, Christmas, etc.
Even though we meet at special occasions where normal couples give each other gifts, I don't give him anything.
MoreoverIf women are preparedWomen may find you disappointing or wonder if they should reconsider their relationship.
I often say, "This is all about feelings"
Even though it's a sugar daddy relationship, I feel a bit sad if we meet on Christmas and nothing happens.
If you meet regularly and would like to continue to meet in the future
If you can at least express your feelings in a tangible form, it may help build a smooth relationship.
Here we received responses from men and women separately.
・E-tickets
・Cosmetics and skin care
・Consumables/daily items (food/snacks/shampoo, etc.)
・Highbrow
Something that has no physical form and can be used like electronic money
It won't go away anytime soon, but it's essential for girls.
Things that will soon disappear / Things that are not unnatural in everyday life
Something that has high value as an object and has a strong presence
It feels like it's something that doesn't leave a lasting impression, but blends into everyday life and has a strong presence.
I tried to divide it in this way 🥺💦
This time, we omitted the experience-type items because they are not physical "presents."
As expected, the number one gift that people are happy to receive is a high-end brand.
It seems that women are happy when their husbands give them gifts such as accessories, bags, clothes, and other things that they would not be able to afford themselves, or that are too difficult for young women to afford.
Things that don't lose value easily can be used for years.
Maybe it's because it's less influenced by trends.
On the other hand, sweets and everyday consumer items were not very popular as gifts.
In fact, one of the reasons may be that it is well within your reach.
I'm on a diet when it comes to sweets
On the contrary, it may be the number one thing we don't want as it poisons our eyes and turns into body fat.
I'm happy about the sentiment though.
It would be a complete disaster if you gave someone a gift hoping that they would be happy and that it would enrich their life, only to have them find it annoying, so it shows that choice is important.
For this survey, we changed the genre slightly and compiled the data.
・E-tickets
・Wearable items (neckties, cuffs, etc.)
・Consumables/daily items (food/snacks/shampoo, etc.)
・Things that don't get left over (food treats/no allowance for one meal, etc.)
The options are almost the same as for women, but for men, it is convenient to have something that doesn't leave a physical mark.
I assumed that there would be a lot of them, and also that the desires and wishes of men who can buy their own high-end bras would be slightly different from those of women.
More effective with more marketing power
Must have been an option, sorry 😢💦
This is a pretty realistic result.
While the sentiment is appreciated, most people have families and partners, so they cannot bring it into their homes."Something that doesn't leave a tangible mark"Most people said it was good.
By the way, if you bring a gift
Items purchased while on a business trip, or that would not be unnatural if given as a gift by a colleague or subordinate
If so, that would be a welcome impression.
If you are single, I think it would be fine to have something that will remain as a physical gift. If you are in a regular relationship,
It might be a good idea to do some research and find out what you want and what would be helpful to you.
Oseki, when you had a doctor boyfriend, what did he ask you to do?
...Shoehorn
After talking about wanting to wear matching shoes,
There is also this pattern.
We also received responses from men and women separately.
The number one unwanted item was the present that people would be happy to receive, but was the least in demand.
Sweets and everyday consumer goods were by far the most popular.
Even if I receive calories I don't want"It will interfere with my next plans" "It will be a burden"Maybe that's the reason for some people.
It would be weird to receive it while on a diet and then throw it away...
On the other hand, Starbucks tickets
It may be that they think, "It's never good to have too many of these."
The overwhelming number one gift that men think would be embarrassing to receive from a PJ-chan is
It was something to wear.
These are things that the wife would normally buy (more often than not), or things that the man doesn't have the sense to buy.
I think it's best to avoid anything that smells vaguely feminine.
What if your wife finds out and you can't see her anymore?
It's a waste of money...
It's better to leave your wife alone than to be cursed...
It is also important not to let them see it.
When would you like to give a gift this time?
We also conducted a survey.
There are four options:
birthday
Our Anniversary
Christmas
When I suddenly thought of
Women can never truly understand a man's mind, so we really appreciate your cooperation in taking part in this survey.
The results were as follows.
It wasn't an anniversary or some other event that a normal couple would have.
It's for when you suddenly feel like expressing your gratitude or your everyday thoughts to someone.
Recently in the manual it said "Give me a present because it's our 10th anniversary."
I've been encouraged to ask for it and it seems to be a trend, but from women
I think encouraging it would be counterproductive.
A girl who doesn't ask for anything, definitely more than a "Kurekure-chan"
I have a feeling that men would want to give it as a surprise...!
This time, I asked for reviews of the sugar daddy gifts I posted on my account, and here are some of the ones I actually received.
We will publish it!
Speakers...why did I decide to give this as a gift?
I want to date this girl.
If you don’t respect a man’s precious time,
Because those are the words that don't come out...
Please enjoy...
There are other project members having such a great time, and yet what about me...?
Added on October 2024.10.9, XNUMX
In fact, the author's birthday is this month.
I asked one of the few men I had met through the app for some accessories.
In terms of our relationship, we've only met once, but we keep in touch every now and then.
I don't particularly dislike it, and I don't feel like I want to take advantage of it or squeeze it dry.
Since there were none, it was like I tried it as a test to see what would happen if I really asked for it.
👇 I put it together in a manga
Result: I was hoping for high-end jewelry, but ended up going to a silversmith workshop to make my own jewelry.
But still, I'm happy...
It's funny how the replies always have a different meaning
Also, if I actually go to a silversmith studio, I will post the results.
We would appreciate it if you could wait a moment.
How was it?
I have written about the reality of men and women giving gifts to each other, the benefits and drawbacks of not giving each other gifts, the things that people are actually happy to receive, and the things that are troublesome.
People in the world can be harsh sometimes."Men who can't give gifts shouldn't ask what you want."And"You can say that when you become a woman who wants to receive a present."There is also a thing.
However, there are certainly sugar daddy relationships in which the partners give each other gifts in the hopes of making each other happy.
I hope this article will help you to become aware of this fact.
I hope you can build a relationship that you feel comfortable with.