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*This article was published on November 2022, 11. [Question] Shouldn't the person who pays for "sugar daddy" just go to a brothel? This is a rewrite of the column.
Created on: November 2022, 11
I ate three pieces of bread in quick succession in the morning.
The coffee milk was way past its expiration date.
"Well, it'll be fine," I thought to myself,
I'm completely fine and am now realizing how strong my stomach is.
This is Seki from PATOLO Support.
Why do people who want to have sex on the day use apps instead of sex establishments?
Are you looking for a partner?
Even though we met on a sugar daddy app,
Women who are a must for physical relations are fraudsI suspected that...
I became motivated to try out a sugar daddy app, so I installed it!
Even though we were matched and interacted with each other, the people we interacted with on the day were all looking for adults.
At such times, the above questions may arise.
(I often see this on the internet, and sometimes I get contacted with questions about it.)
ToDay,
Why do men who want to become a sugar daddy choose to engage in sugar dating instead of going to the prostitution industry? What is their psychology?
I would like to write on this theme.
Thank you, Oseki-chan, for speaking on my behalf...
I'm quite strict!
| Customs | Daddy | |
|---|---|---|
| Remuneration format | Times and fees are fixed and clear | There is a market price, but it varies depending on the person and the content. |
| Sexual services | Required for some industries | Not required |
| How to participate | Belongs to a certain store and waits on working days (usually with transportation) | Communicate with the other party and head there on the appointed date and time. |
| Back Rate | Varies by industry and store | 100% Own |
| OffFollow | If a bad customer comes, they will deal with it. | There are no staff on-site, so it can be confusing |
The sex industry is a business that aims to provide sexual services.
Times and services are clearly defined.
① The fee structure is clear, and the fee is set by the number of minutes and the content.
② In the sex industry, there is little romantic feeling, and services are provided in a limited time and area
3) Prostitution often serves multiple customers a day.
There will be many moments when you will feel that your relationship is more businesslike.
Some people have this impression
👇 From the perspective of the working women, some feel that working in the sex industry is easier in terms of the mental stress.
Sugar dating is a relationship where a man (the sugar daddy) and a woman (the sugar girl) meet to fulfill each other's needs.
Sugar daddies provide financial support to their women, and in return, the women share their time with their sugar daddies.
① Sugar Daddy Dating can imitate a romantic relationship
②Physical relations are not necessarily forced
3) The opinions of both men and women are respected
Sometimes, women feel that the relationship is not just about money, and that a connection of the heart develops rather than just a physical one.
👇 Are women only interested in money when dating sugar daddies? Are men only interested in their bodies? Are there people who date without any allowance?
I used to hear this often during interviews when I was working in the social club department.
Why not brothels or nightlife establishments (bars, etc.)?
Have you chosen to be a sugar daddy?
There are several psychological reasons why many men choose sugar dating over sex establishments or nightlife establishments.
In Fuzoku, the amount of money is clearly determined, such as how many minutes and how much to do something.
A timer is also set and when it makes a sound the time is up.
You can only meet at the store at set times and prices.
There is very little romantic feeling
Freedom is limited
I think the above points are also important.
For example, even if you want to go out to eat together,
I can hardly do anything I want outside of the store (home)
Because it is monitored (protected) by the store staff
Another drawback of prostitution is that there is no room for negotiation regarding the content of the date or the price.
Well, they have a job after all...
You just have to back out!There seems to be an opinion that
If it were discovered, it would cause trouble for the shop and, above all, for the girls, and any man with common sense would know that doing something outside the rules is not fair in the first place.
Additionally, some people gave the following reasons for not using sex services:
I don't like the atmosphere of simple manners and customs
I can't refuse because the content is included in the service, so
I become one uncle among the customers I deal with in a day.
Since physical relations are part of the job, it feels even less special.
I'm not saying you have to fall in love with a sugar daddy girl,
Sugar baby girls will pretend to like you, and will deceive you.
I guess the atmosphere is a little different from the other girls...
The appeal of sugar daddy is,Men and women can choose each otherIs on the point.
Women have the right to decide to develop and they cannot be forced to do so.
This allows you to spend what you might perceive as a more natural and quality time.
Another feature is that there is a high degree of freedom, as the specific time and content are not clearly defined.
In this way, a major attraction of sugar dating is that it is a person-to-person relationship, unlike the sex industry.
They have dreams, they want to support those dreams and goals, and women have the right to choose their partners.
Among them, "I can act because I was thought to be good."
It's not just anyone, it's a relationship that is based on mutual consent between two peopleThey see value in
You can say.
The pricing system for the sex industry is very clear, and the price is determined by the time and the service provided.
For example, the price may be set as a certain amount for 30 minutes or a certain service.
Additionally, additional fees may apply and will be added each time.
As such, the price of a sex service is clearly set, which has the advantage of making it easy to plan a budget.
✅ Check out the types of sex industry, the system, and the prices
The pricing structure for sugar daddy dating is very flexible, unlike that of the sex industry.
Generally, it depends on the date and the time.
There is no set market price, and the specific amount and conditions are decided through discussion between the sugar daddy and the girl looking for a sugar daddy.
This allows for flexible receipt and payment methods to suit each other's needs.
In addition, sugar dating is not just about a one-time date, but it is often about building a lasting relationship.
Setting compensation from a long-term perspective
Since there are no monthly contracts in the sex industry, this is a very
I'd say that's a big difference.
Sugar daddy girls are women who receive financial support through sugar daddy dating.
The backgrounds are varied.
Some women are students and do sugar dating as a side job,
Other women work daytime jobs while also engaging in sugar dating.
People who are active while working a day job
It's called the day job project.
The important thing is that women who are looking for a sugar daddy are not necessarily in financial difficulty.
The point is that they choose sugar dating as a way to achieve self-actualization and improve their quality of life.
I like normal girls!!
I often hear phrases like this sometimes.
However, although the girls who are looking for sugar daddies are just normal girls, they are making money from sugar daddy activities.
I don't have a so-called side job or anything, I've only ever worked as a student or a lunch job
Not a normal girl in the sense that she doesn't know anythingIt’s important to understand that.
Not only do women like older men because they want more experience, but also because they like older men.
Please understand that these are women who choose sugar dating as a way to "earn money."
However, from the male perspective, whether or not you work at a store is a big issue.
I feel like I'm becoming a standard for a normal girl.
Therefore, the current situation is that more and more daddies are looking for girls through apps and dating clubs rather than going to brothels.
Although the definition of a "normal woman" varies from person to person,
It might be a good idea for women to remember that many of the men who come for an interview looking to find a sugar daddy rather than work in the sex industry are looking for a "normal girl."
Occasionally, there are people who say, "No sex workers" or "No people who work at night."
However, it may certainly seem that there are many negative aspects from a man's perspective.
But there is one thing I want to say about prostitution.even if, even without
To be honest, everyone is just a normal girl in front of the person they like.
(Actually, my friend was dating a customer and was seriously in love with him.)
Sugar daddy girls and prostitutes are both living beings with feelings.
I would like you to interact and deal with us with respect.
(Of course, this is based on the premise that women treat men with respect.)
How was it?
Do you understand the difference between prostitution and sugar dating?
To summarize the main points:
Both have their pros and cons, so give them a try.
Decide, maybe it's a good idea to start with the app ♬
Also, although I'm worried about sugar dating, I think it might be a good fit, so I've looked into sugar dating apps and dating clubs, but I still can't feel completely at ease.
In such a case, just come and listen to what we have to say, and tell us when you register online.
There's nothing wrong with just listening to the story.
First, whether you can do itSee it with your own eyes and ears, listen to it, and confirm it.Let's look at.
The other day I went to Kyoto on my own and visited Kiyomizu-dera Temple with some staff from work.
There are no sweet things happening every day except in the world of Netflix.
I want to take a photo of a lively male...
The author, who thought so at the time, told the staff at the Kyoto branch
"Please help me take photos that look like we're on a date.",
I was able to successfully take a photo that looked like a couple.
Universe Club, Kyoto branch staff member Arai-san, Fukuoka branch staff member Kurono and Hiyama-kun
Thank you very much for that time.
Even if it's not a real romantic date, it's a way to soothe the fatigue of raising children.
Being able to escape reality with someone...this blessing brings about a sense of excitement and relief that only someone who is truly cornered can experience.
While admiring the autumn leaves from Kiyomizu-dera Temple,
Men who struggle every day to find a sugar daddy should turn a blind eye to the reality in front of them.
I thought that perhaps they were balancing the little taste of honey by paying money, opening their hearts to it, and getting the other person to open their hearts to them as well.
While looking at Kyoto Tower (?), I was told by the hotel receptionist when I stayed in Kyoto a long time ago.
I remember being told, "You should never marry a Kyoto man."
I still don't understand what my sister meant when she told me that when I was young.
I sometimes think deeply
We had a chance to escape reality by drawing fortune slips with joy (even though it was just the four of us on a date).
The fortune slip read:"Life and death do not always go as you wish"And so on.
When I think back, my life has been a repetition of today (unlucky day), and I've had a miserable life, with no one believing me even though I'm in love. But today is the youngest day of my life, and I really want to go on a date to a temple with my boyfriend someday.
I regained my vitality and completely cleared my thoughts.Sugar Daddy Uncle - Unsuccessful ver.This was the author who had become like this.
✅If you want to hear from a woman who has actually experienced sugar dating, not from the author, here.
Life and death do not always go as we wish, so be thankful that today has come.
I will live with misfortune as long as I live.
Thank you to everyone who has read this far.
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