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Airi
What does "spinning around in sugar daddy relationships" mean?
Airi
How much can you earn by doing a lot of face-to-face meetings in sugar dating?
Do you think I can do it?
Among women who are thinking about starting or wanting to engage in "sugar dating," some are researching information about sugar dating online.
Some people might come across keywords like "spinning around" or "spinning around face to face."
In everyday life, most people would probably think of baseball batting practice when they hear the term "swinging around."
This time, I will write about the reality, advantages, disadvantages, and methods of "spinning around" in sugar dating.
Oseki
I'd like to try it myself sometime if it's possible!
What does "spinning around" mean in the context of sugar dating?
What is "spinning around" in sugar dating?She scheduled appointments with multiple men on the same day, rotating through the number of dates.,
This is often what it refers to.
It might be derived from the idea of rotating through different people you meet one after another, like in a conveyor belt sushi restaurant.
It simply means cramming in a large number of tasks and getting them done.
And there are two types of these.
- Face-to-face spinning
- Adults swinging around
I will now explain the time and content of each (literally).
A wild first meeting
Both terms are quite literal, but they refer to scheduling a face-to-face meeting (or first date in the context of dating clubs) for a full day or a set period of time.
So, how much time do you all spend on what?
How many face-to-face meetings should you schedule in a single day?
I think the definition of "going through the motions" varies from person to person, but on average how many times do you schedule meetings?
We conducted a survey, separating the results by gender, to see if they were interested in scheduling a meeting.
For women
Women are the most,2-3 meetings per dayMany people scheduled their appointments that way.
For example, if you schedule two appointments on a day off—one in the morning and one in the afternoon, or one for lunch and one for dinner—that's realistic and allows for some flexibility in your schedule, so I wouldn't call it being overworked.
If this is after work or school, I imagine it would be quite urgent to fit in 2-3 appointments.
For men
For men, the most common number of face-to-face meetings scheduled per day was one.
I'm not sure if it's because men have less free time than women due to work and family responsibilities, or because they don't feel the need to cram as much in, but even when including those who take on multiple jobs, men made up the largest percentage.
Oseki
It seems some men can get more than two!
They might be someone who has plenty of free time!
How long does each initial meeting last?
The time spent on a single meeting varies, but I think most people spend a little less than an hour on it.
I had predicted this based on what I saw on social media. I think there are some people who change their approach depending on the allowance they receive.
The time per case is,Approximately one hour for both men and womenMost people are like that.
Incidentally, I think the start time will vary depending on whether you start with tea or a meal.
While some women may cut the initial meeting short, few will spend more than two hours with the woman.
Conversely, the results showed that more men chose to stay for two hours than for 30 minutes.
If the payment has been made in advance, some women may try to take their time and really get to know the other person.
If a woman's primary goal is to receive payment, she might be more likely to try to leave early unless she really wants to spend more time with the man.
Since the man has gone to the trouble of paying for the initial meeting, he will naturally want to get to know the other person better and become closer. It's not a good idea to extend the meeting too long, but it might be a good idea to carefully check whether the other person is being sincere even after you've paid them.
Example of a face-to-face meeting
This is the average number of face-to-face meetings (the average number of people actually meet on a regular basis), but the number will be different if you're doing a lot of networking.Someone who can handle 3-4 cases in half a day, or 5 or more cases in a full day.There is also.
actuallySomeone who can handle 7-8 cases a dayIt seems there are some as well.
Oseki
This is a real job!
👇I've actually found people on social media who are going around meeting each other face-to-face!
Everyone's so busy, I wonder if we'll be able to have a relaxed and calm conversation?
Given the nature of the app, where there's no rule requiring a specific timeframe (e.g., XX minutes to XX hours), it's difficult to restrict the other party's actions, which presents some challenges.
Oseki
For someone like me with no stamina and clumsiness, handling this many tasks is difficult.
I felt it was absolutely impossible...
Adults swinging around
Now, let's talk about the other type of spinning: the adult spinning.
"Adults galore" refers to the practice of cramming multiple adult relationships, or sex, into a single day during a sugar daddy relationship.
In terms of usage:
Airi
I'm a project that's all about adults and lots of energy, right?
And
Airi
I'm a little short on cash this month and I'm busy.
I might have to swing the adult around...
It's often used in this way.
Trends of women who are overly mature
Many women have adult relationships with men, partly as a professional and partly as a job.
Sometimes, a face-to-face meeting isn't necessary; the amount of money is decided through communication, and the meeting place is a hotel, etc.
Overall, these are the most prominent characteristics I've observed.
- Minimize the time spent with men
- I am focusing on earning my daily target amount.
- If the total daily earnings are high, the price per transaction may not matter.
- They don't give much thought to the risk of illness.
*I'm sure there are some people who have carefully planned, considered, and taken precautions for themselves.
Many young women are only focused on money and don't consider the risks and rewards.
From a woman's perspective! The benefits of "going all out" in sugar dating.
I'm incredibly busy, and I'm worried about the next meeting I have to attend.
It's easy to think that it's difficult to concentrate on the face-to-face meeting in front of you, but this kind of rapid-fire approach wouldn't become popular unless it offered some benefit to the woman.
Why do women cram multiple sugar daddy/sugar baby dates into a single day?
Earn efficiently
In the case of face-to-face meetings, to be honest, from a woman's perspective, it's so efficient that she thinks, "There's no better way to earn tens of thousands of yen a day without putting so much strain on my body."
If the initial arrangement was to set the amount of payment for the first meeting at 1 yen,
If you can successfully adjust 2-3 cases a day, you can easily make 2-3 yen.
As mentioned earlier, if you can get 5 or more jobs, you can earn 5 yen in just one day.
Oseki
I thought 0.5 (5000 yen) was the more common option in the app.
Is that even possible?
As the saying goes, "low profit, high volume," no matter how small the amount for each individual meeting may be
(If you were actually working, 5000 yen would be a very high hourly wage.)
You are guaranteed to receive 5000 yen x 3 = 5000 yen.
If you shorten the session from one hour to 30 minutes and insert twice as many appointments (6) per day, that would amount to 30,000 yen.
It is possible to earn this much money during the daytime and nighttime hours without using one's body (sexual relationships).
That's quite rare, isn't it?
Needless to say, adults can swing them around like that.
👇Is it possible to do "sugar dating" just by having meals together?
You can meet various men.
This means that the number of men you meet through sugar dating will definitely increase, and so will the number of opportunities to meet people.
Ultimately, the truth is that you won't know if you appeal to a man's taste until you actually meet him.
Therefore, until a man meets a woman he likes, until he meets a woman he wants to have a regular relationship with...
Time and opportunities are finite.
As the saying goes, "the best time to do something is now," so today is also a good day in terms of motivating the other person.
Timing is crucial.
And the more slots there are,
You'll encounter things that resonate with you, and you'll also have more opportunities to meet people who resonate with you.
The more time you spend together when you have the opportunity, the more likely you are to find a source of income or meet good people.
Disadvantages of "spinning around" in sugar dating
The fact that it seems like women only have an advantage means that they are significantly influenced by it.
There are actually many disadvantages. What kind of negative aspects and risks are involved?
If the man notices, there's a high chance it will be canceled.
To spin it around like that, you need time.
Therefore, the time allotted for each case is inevitably limited. That's why we ask men in advance
Airi
I can only spare this much time.
You need to inform them of this beforehand.
Furthermore, if you fail to inform them of this beforehand and then suddenly have to leave at the meeting place, it will leave a terrible impression, so it's best to avoid doing so.
But if you tell them that, they will definitely think this.
Uncle
This girl has plans after this, doesn't she?
And if you have plans after this, you're either someone with good intuition, or someone who's had a flurry of first-time encounters with women.
Uncle
This kid is a pro at spinning around and eating tea.
Let's not meet.
This often happens.
If the scheduled meeting is discovered, it won't result in any financial gain. In other words, it leaves a bad impression and the meeting will never happen.
I made the worst impression on men.
Of course, it's not the man's fault for refusing, but here are some reasons why a man might have a bad impression of a woman:
It's clearly motivated by money.
I get discouraged when the time is set too strictly.
There's a strong feeling that anyone will do as long as they get paid.
Unable to connect after the first attempt.
I'm not ready for a physical relationship.
Seeing the shadow of another man makes me sad.
There are also posts from people who were discouraged after realizing that the face-to-face meetings were just a series of quick exchanges.
Risk of getting involved in trouble
These days, there are so many men who are being tricked into meeting women one after another, or rather, being scammed into having a casual chat over drinks.
Some people have bitter feelings about that.
As a result, some people end up posting on sugar daddy account bulletin boards or being exposed on bulletin boards dedicated to exposing others.
Sometimes people have their photos exposed online, so to avoid taking that kind of risk, I think it's best to avoid blatantly sharing information that could easily be conveyed to the other person.
Some men take precautions against the initial rush of a sugar baby.
Because some women engage in "sugar dating" after only meeting in person, more and more men are now taking precautions against it.
One blog describes them as a fraudulent group.
This likely refers to women who "pretend to be in a sexual relationship before meeting in person."
Certainly, if the roles were reversed, it's understandable that some men would want to take precautions or screen potential partners.
✅How to deal with the first-time "adult" encounters of sugar babies Read
Whether you actually do it or not is up to you.
How was it?
Whether or not you actually engage in "sugar dating" (a type of compensated dating) should be decided by weighing the potential advantages, disadvantages, and risks yourself.
As a sugar daddy staff member, I recommend not taking on too many requests, as it could easily damage your image and you might not be able to have a deep conversation, and you might not want to make the other person feel rushed.
I meanI don't recommend spinning it around.That's how I really feel...
However, I also believe it's a valid way for women to earn money, so I wanted to share it.
If I have the opportunity again, I would like to write about real-world examples and cases of spinning the bike around.
Let's work hard in our activities with a sense of calm and composure, so that we have no regrets and no one points fingers at us behind our backs.
✅Also check out dating clubs that are impossible to use effectively.
