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[2026 Latest] Complete Guide to Sugar Dating on Payters | Explanation of Market Rates and Fees

[2026 Latest] Complete Guide to Sugar Dating on Payters | Explanation of Market Rates and Fees

Paters (also known as Peters) is officially a dating app, but of its more than 260 million registered users, a large portion are using it for the purpose of "sugar dating" (papakatsu).

This article summarizes the specific steps for engaging in "sugar dating" on Payters, as well as the latest allowance rates, pricing plans, and safety features for 2026.

Based on a large-scale survey conducted by UNIVERSE GROUP involving over 38,000 men and women, a survey of 1,093 women regarding typical allowances, and my own 3 years of experience in "sugar dating" with a total earnings of 400 million yen, I will explain not only how the app works but also how to actually make money.

Source:We surveyed 38,000 men and women about their reviews and opinions on sugar daddy dating apps.,A survey of 1,093 women revealed the going rate for "sugar daddy" arrangements.

If you're searching for information because you're worried about things like, "Can I really do sugar dating?", "I don't want to be undervalued because I don't know the going rate," or "What if I end up with a scammer?", then after reading this article, you'll be able to take that first step without hesitation. We'll reveal the going rates from the initial meeting to the intimate relationship, and we'll cover prohibited activities and tips for making money, so please read it to the end.

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Hi! I'm Megumi, 33 years old, and I've been involved in "sugar dating" for about 3 years! I've met around 25 sugar daddies so far and earned a total of approximately 400 million yen. My average monthly income is 20 to 30 yen. I mainly use SugarDaddy, Paters, local dating clubs, and PATOLO for my activities.

PATOLO's official website is here.

This media outlet is operated by UNIVERSE GROUP and provides information to help women considering or engaging in "sugar dating" make safe and satisfying choices. The content is based on actual user reviews and our own research, and we prioritize an unbiased perspective that includes not only the benefits but also the risks and points to be aware of.
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What is Payters? A clear explanation of its features and basic information.

Paters
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In conclusion, while Payters is officially a dating app, the reality is that many men and women use it for the purpose of "sugar dating" (papakatsu).

In an independent survey conducted by UNIVERSE GROUP, the operator of this media outlet, targeting over 38,000 men and women, the results showed that the vast majority of Payters users use the service for the purpose of "receiving/giving allowances."

In fact, 37.9% of women had used Paters before joining PATOLO, making it the second most popular option after SugarDaddy (52.1%).

Source:We surveyed 38,000 men and women about their reviews and opinions on sugar daddy dating apps.

While it can be used for dating or marriage-seeking purposes, the reality is that most registered users are using it for purposes similar to "sugar dating" (papakatsu).

Below is a summary of basic information about Payters.

ItemMessage
Companyamica Co., Ltd. (established in 2017)
Management StructureDating apps (many users are looking for sugar daddy relationships)
Cumulative number of membersOver 260 million people
Compatible devices・iOS
・ Android
Web
Price - Men: Paid service (Standard 3 months from ¥29,800)
Women: Free
Major features• The search function is detailed.
- Instant dating feature
24/365 monitoring

Note that "paters" and "Peters" refer to the same app, differing only in their English spelling and pronunciation.

You can find information about the same service using either spelling when searching.

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The distinguishing features of Paters lie in its highly accurate search function and its design focused on quick encounters. Because you can narrow down your search by specifying detailed criteria, users with a clear purpose tend to find it easy to use.

Incidentally, in a survey conducted by UNIVERSE GROUP among 1,193 women regarding their reasons for joining, 46.3% responded that they were "looking for a sugar daddy service where they could earn money," meaning that approximately 9% started sugar daddy activities for financial reasons.

Furthermore, 37.4% of users joined the service without any prior experience in "sugar dating," indicating that the service provides an environment that is easy for beginners to get started with.

Payters' sugar daddy dating rates [Meeting, meals, intimate activities, monthly contracts]

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The going rate for sugar dating on Payters varies greatly depending on the type of date.

We've organized the latest market rates for 2026 into four patterns, from initial meetings to monthly contracts. Note that "adult relationship" is a euphemism in the context of "sugar dating," referring to dates that include physical intimacy.

If you start working without knowing the figures, you might end up getting ripped off by the other party's asking price, so it's reassuring to understand the standards first.

Furthermore, a survey conducted by UNIVERSE GROUP targeting 1,093 female members revealed that the median desired allowance varies by as much as eight times depending on the region.

Tokyo ranked fourth nationwide with 64,340 yen, while Okinawa Prefecture came in first with 79,167 yen.

Date contentUrban marketLocal market pricesRemarks
Meet in Person5,000-10,000 yen4,000-8,000 yenTea for about an hour
Meals only10,000-30,000 yen8,000-20,000 yen2 to 3 hours
Adult relationship50,000-100,000 yen40,000-80,000 yenEach time
Monthly contract (no adults)10 to 30 yen/month8 to 20 yen/month2-4 times a month
Monthly contract (with adults)20 to 50 yen/month15 to 40 yen/month2-4 times a month
*This market price is an estimate based on PATOLO's independent survey (2026 / 1,093 respondents) and a compilation of reviews from multiple sugar daddy experience blogs and social media.

Typical allowance for a first meeting: 5,000 to 10,000 yen in urban areas.

The going rate for a meeting through Payters is around 5,000 to 10,000 yen in urban areas and 4,000 to 8,000 yen in rural areas. Since the meeting is just an hour-long tea session to discuss terms and conditions, the amount of compensation is not particularly high.

The initial meeting is more of an "interview," and it's a chance for both parties to decide whether to continue the relationship after receiving payment.

Even if you're offered a price below the going rate on the first date, it's a valid strategy to consider the possibility of future dates before making a decision.

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When I received 1 yen at our first meeting, I was relieved to know that "this is normal." Because I knew the going rate, I was able to confidently offer a price.

The average cost of a dinner-only date is between 1 and 3 yen.

The going rate for a dinner-only date is 10,000 to 30,000 yen in urban areas and 8,000 to 20,000 yen in rural areas.

These dates typically last 2-3 hours and are wholesome, not involving physical intimacy.

Many people worry about whether they can get paid just for meals, but at Paters, there are many cases where relationships continue based solely on meals.

If you want to know more about sugar dating that only involves meals,Is it really possible to just have meals with a sugar daddy? What are the going rates and how to meet them?Please also refer to this.

The going rate for a sexual encounter involving adults is 5 to 10 yen.

For adult encounters, the going rate is 50,000 to 100,000 yen in urban areas and 40,000 to 80,000 yen in rural areas.

"Adult relationship" is slang for a date that includes physical intimacy, and the compensation tends to be significantly higher compared to a date that only involves a meal.

Having an adult relationship isn't something you necessarily have to do.

Remember that the fundamental principle of sugar dating is that you can choose what you want to do.

For further information, please read What is an adult relationship? The psychology, advantages, and disadvantages that men and women desire.This is explained in detail, so please read it if you have any concerns.

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Make sure to clearly confirm whether or not there's a "sexual relationship" involved during the initial meeting. Leaving it ambiguous can lead to problems.

Monthly contract (regular) allowance range: 20 to 50 yen per month

A monthly contract involves receiving a monthly allowance in exchange for going on dates with a specific "sugar daddy" 2 to 4 times a month.

The going rate is 10 to 30 yen per month without a sexual relationship, and 20 to 50 yen per month with a sexual relationship.

The advantages of a monthly contract are that it tends to provide a more stable monthly income and eliminates the hassle of negotiating each time.

On the other hand, there's also the risk of becoming dependent on one "sugar daddy," so if you're a beginner, try going on one-off dates to get used to it before considering anything else.

Allowance rates by age group | Those in their 30s receive the highest amount at 61,212 yen

The survey also revealed the median desired allowance amount by age group.

Age distributionMedian desired allowance
10 fee¥54,929
20 fee¥59,355
30-40 generations61,212 yen (highest amount)
50 and overDecreasing trend
Source:A survey of 1,093 women revealed the going rate for "sugar daddy" arrangements.

Contrary to the common perception that "younger people can earn more through sugar dating," those in their 30s are actually asking for the highest amounts.

This is likely because they have gained work experience, which allows them to understand what constitutes a fair price and confidently propose it.

Furthermore, the survey's data categorized by relationship type revealed a structure where the desired amount gradually increases with the depth of the relationship, with Type A, which is closer to just meals, averaging 42,324 yen, and Type C, which involves a deeper relationship, averaging 63,275 yen.

Deciding which type of relationship you want to pursue will help prevent discrepancies between your expectations and the actual value of your dating activities.

In addition, when 1,093 women were asked what they most hoped for from a sugar daddy app, the top answer was "meeting a sugar daddy who offers generous allowances" (41.8%), followed by "meeting a trustworthy sugar daddy who has passed a screening process" (27.0%).

The top two options account for approximately 70% of the responses, indicating that what women are looking for is not "quantity" but "high-quality encounters with men."

Negotiating and receiving payment | 42.1% "negotiate before meeting"

In a survey of 318 women, 42.1% responded that they negotiate payment before meeting.

Next, "negotiating towards the end of the date" was chosen by 31.8%.

Regarding payment methods, 73.6% responded that they prefer "a fixed amount paid each time," with monthly payments being a minority choice.

Data confirms that the prevailing style is to determine the amount before meeting and receive payment each time.

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I always confirm the payment via message before meeting someone on a date. Deciding on it beforehand eliminates the stress of negotiating on the day itself.

Now that we understand the market, let's look at how to actually get started.

5 Steps to Finding a Sugar Daddy on Payters [Complete Guide for Beginners]

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Many people who want to start using Payters are unsure where to begin.

Here, we'll explain the process from downloading the app to actually meeting someone, broken down into four steps.

There are no particularly difficult operations. If you understand the overall flow, you should be able to proceed without getting lost.

Step 1: Determine your goals for sugar dating.

First, decide what kind of "sugar dating" you want to do.

The features you use and how you write your profile will vary depending on your purpose, so starting without clearly defining these points will lead to inefficiency.

The objectives are broadly divided into three:

  • I want to earn some money in a one-off way.
  • I want to have a regular daddy.
  • Adult relationship
  • No adult involvement

Once you've decided on your objective, your search criteria and message writing style will naturally fall into place.

Step 2: Free membership registration and profile creation

Download the app and register as a member by entering basic information such as your phone number, date of birth, gender, and nickname.

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Registration is free and only takes a few minutes.

There are two essential points to keep in mind when creating your profile:

  • Make sure to set a photo.
  • Fill in as many blanks as possible in your self-introduction.

Profiles without photos or with blank self-introductions are more likely to be ignored.

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Simply writing a couple of lines about your hobbies, how you spend your free time, and what kind of relationship you're looking for can put the other person at ease.

Another common pitfall in this process is putting it off with the thought of "I'll set it up later," and then neglecting it.

To avoid wasting the opportunity to make a good first impression, we recommend filling in at least a rough outline of your information when you register.

It's a waste to aim for perfection from the start and get stuck, so let's release it when it's about 7-8% complete.

Since you can edit your profile later, it's a good idea to think about what you want to include before registering to ensure a smooth process.

Step 3: Narrow down your search criteria to find potential dads

Paters' search function allows for detailed filtering by age, area, purpose, occupation, height, and more.

By narrowing down your search by specific purposes, such as "dinner," "coffee," or "adult relationship," you can efficiently find men who meet your needs.

If you want to meet someone right away, you can use the "Date Now" feature to filter for men who are available to meet that day.

This feature is ideal for those who have limited days available for sugar dating or those who prioritize speed above all else.

Step 4: Negotiate the terms via message

Once a match is made, you can start exchanging messages.

For your first message, a simple greeting like, "Hello, I've read your profile," should suffice.

It's natural to confirm details like the amount of compensation and whether or not a physical relationship is involved around the third to fifth message.

In fact, a survey conducted by UNIVERSE GROUP (318 women) showed that 42.1% answered that they "negotiate compensation before meeting," indicating that agreeing on terms beforehand is the mainstream approach.

"Nice to meet you. I've read your profile. If you don't mind, what kind of relationship are you envisioning? I'd be happy if we could find a style that suits both of us."

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Proceeding to a meeting without clearly defining the conditions can easily lead to misunderstandings and problems, so it's important to confirm these details before meeting.

Step 5: First meeting

Once we've exchanged messages and our expectations have aligned to some extent, we'll proceed with making arrangements to meet.

Let's adjust the date, time, and location to suit each other's schedules and within reasonable limits.

For your first meeting, it's best to choose a quiet, public place such as a cafe or hotel lounge.

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Also, if you feel uncomfortable during the process of communicating with someone, you are free to decline the agreement.

There's no rule that says you have to meet just because you've matched with someone; it's up to each individual to decide whether or not to meet.

If you encounter suspicious individuals or disruptive behavior, please utilize private mode or the reporting function.

Proceed at a comfortable pace while protecting yourself.

Furthermore, if you want to avoid feeling nervous during your first meeting, or if you want to confirm the amount of compensation and the type of relationship beforehand, you might want to consider PATOLO, which has a strict screening process and confidentiality agreements with male members.

Click here to apply for PATOLO as a woman.

Payters Pricing Plans | Differences Between Male Costs, Female Free, and VIP Options [Latest 2026 Edition]

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Payters' fees differ significantly between men and women.

Here, we have compiled the latest prices as of April 2026, broken down by gender and plan.

Women can use all basic functions for free.

If you are a female member of Paters, you can use all of the basic features for free.

Here's what you can do for free:

  • Account Registration
  • Create Your Profile
  • Viewing other users' profiles
  • Send Like
  • matching
  • Sending a message after matching

It's available without any additional charges, but just because it's free doesn't guarantee you'll find your ideal partner.

The results will vary greatly depending on the conditions and area you are looking for, and the level of detail you put into your profile.

List of paid plans for male members

Male members need to subscribe to a paid plan to fully utilize Payters.

If you keep using the free version, there are limitations on sending messages and other features, making continuous communication difficult.

PlanPrice (tax included)per month
3 months¥29,800About 9,933 yen
6 months¥54,800About 9,133 yen
12 months¥84,800About 7,067 yen
*We do not offer a 1-month plan.
*Monthly prices for multi-month plans are rounded down to the nearest whole number.
※source:Paters official website

Becoming a paid member allows you to send messages to your matches and perform searches that are filtered to show only active users.

Differences between VIP members and regular members

Payters offers a VIP membership option that adds an extra fee to the standard plan.

PlanPrice (tax included)per month
1 months¥35,000¥35,000
3 months¥90,000¥30,000
6 months¥144,000¥24,000
12 months¥234,000¥19,500

Becoming a VIP member unlocks features such as free-word search, message read receipts, and the ability to view women's video profiles.

Since a VIP badge is displayed on your profile, women are more likely to perceive it as proof of your seriousness, and this tends to improve your matching rate.

Comparison of pricing and features with other popular sugar daddy apps.

Comparing the pricing and features of Paters with other major sugar daddy apps reveals its position in the market.

app nameMonthly feeMembershipSpeed ​​of meeting
PatersApproximately 9,933 yen/month (29,800 yen for 3 months)Mostly women in their 20sMatching available on the day
sugar daddy8,000 yen/monthMostly people in their 20s, such as university students and office workers.Easy to schedule
Labuan5,980 yen/monthMostly women in their 20s and 30sYou can instantly search for people nearby.
PATOLO11,000 yen/monthMostly women in their teens and twentiesCondition-based approach, emphasis on certainty
*This table is based on publicly available information from each service's official website (as of April 2026). Prices and features may change, so please check each service's official website for the latest information.

While Payters' monthly fee is on the higher side compared to other sugar daddy apps, its strength lies in its fast matching process.

Now that we've covered the cost, let's move on to checking the safety aspects.

Payters' Safety and Prohibited Behavior | 24-Hour Monitoring and Rules for Forced Account Termination

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Many people are probably worried about the dangers of sugar daddy dating apps.

Payters has several mechanisms in place to prevent problems from occurring.

Here, we've outlined four safety measures and prohibited actions that could lead to forced account termination if you're unaware of them.

24/7/365 monitoring system prevents problems.

Paters constantly monitors the app 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.

The main activities being monitored are as follows:

  • Actions that violate the terms and conditions
  • Suspicious messages
  • Accounts that have been reported by multiple users

Even with a constant monitoring system in place, it's difficult to completely eliminate problems.

However, it is certainly true that there is a system in place to prevent problematic behavior from being left unaddressed for extended periods.

If you notice a suspicious user, you can use the reporting function described below, which will allow the administrators to quickly investigate.

Thorough age and identity verification prevents impersonation.

Paters requires age verification for use.

This mechanism is considered necessary not only to prevent underage users from using the service, but also to deter problems caused by impersonation and false profiles.

You may find the registration process a little cumbersome because you'll be required to submit identity verification documents, but this also means that the system is highly secure.

Identity verification is not mandatory, but once verified, a badge will appear on your profile, which can be a helpful criterion when choosing a partner.

However, just because there is age and identity verification doesn't mean you'll never encounter a user impersonating someone else.

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If you feel something is off during the interaction, it's important to respond cautiously.

Private mode (private feature) to prevent your identity from being revealed.

Paters has a private mode that prevents your profile from appearing in search results.

This feature makes your profile visible only to people you have accessed or who you have sent a "like" to.

According to a survey by UNIVERSE GROUP (318 women), the most frequently shared personal information with men during "sugar dating" (papakatsu) is LINE (69.8%) and the area where they live (64.5%), while only 6.9% disclose their workplace or school name.

To prevent your identity from being revealed, in addition to using private mode, you should also be familiar with how to identify businesses and suspicious users.

The following three points are typical characteristics of such businesses:

  • Unnatural editing and reuse of profile pictures
  • The messages are canned responses, and the answers to the questions are disjointed.
  • Immediately after matching, they ask for LINE ID or phone number.

If you notice any of these signs, please stop the interaction and block/report the user.

A violation reporting function that allows you to report malicious users to the administrators.

Paters allows users to report malicious users to the platform administrators using its violation reporting function.

After a report is submitted, the administrators will review the content, and if a user is found to have violated the terms of service, measures such as account suspension will be taken.

The fact that there are systems in place to prevent situations where people feel they have no choice but to suffer in silence after having an unpleasant experience is reassuring.

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However, please note that the response speed may vary depending on the case.

If a situation seems likely to escalate into a serious problem, it's necessary not only to report it but also to make the decision to immediately cease communication.

It is precisely because of these multiple safety measures in place that many users feel safe using the service.

Prohibited actions on Payters and conditions for forced account termination

To ensure you can use Payters for a long time, and to avoid unknowingly violating the rules and being forcibly removed from the platform, let's review the prohibited actions. The main prohibited actions are as follows:

  • External transactions regarding the direct exchange of money
  • Recruitment for investment, religion, and network marketing
  • False profile/impersonation
  • Creating multiple accounts
  • Statements suggesting contact with minors
  • Immediate redirection to LINE or other apps

If your account is forcibly terminated, you may not be able to re-register, so please be careful not to violate the terms of service.

As long as you use the service normally, you won't be forcibly removed from the platform, but there are cases where people have unknowingly violated the rules.

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I know someone who was removed from the app after repeatedly trying to redirect users to external sites. It's safer to stick to in-app communication.

Now that we've covered safety measures, let's look at actual user reviews and feedback.

Paters Reviews and Reputation | What We Learned from Our Independent Survey (102 Men and Women)

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Since it's difficult to get a complete picture of Paters' reputation based solely on app store reviews, this explanation combines data from a large-scale survey conducted by UNIVERSE GROUP targeting over 38,000 men and women with trends in app store reviews.

App store reviews reveal its reputation.

The following are some of the most notable positive reviews found on Google Play:

Good reviews
  • Some people say they feel reassured because the company has a proven track record and has been featured in the media.
  • Users say that the search function makes it easy to find someone who matches their purpose.
  • There are comments that the support provided by the management is excellent.

On the other hand, the most common negative reviews were the following:

  • Some users have reported encountering unscrupulous vendors or suspicious users.
  • Some say it's not suitable for those looking for serious relationships or marriage.
  • Some users have reported that the app is slow or sometimes malfunctions.

Some of the negative reviews are not due to problems with the app itself, but rather to a mismatch between the app's intended use and the user's device environment.

A survey of 38,000 people revealed Payters' 5-star rating system.

In a cross-company comparison conducted by UNIVERSE GROUP with 621 men and women, Payters received the following evaluation:

Unlike app store reviews, this is primary information gathered based on real-world experiences, focusing on aspects that users found beneficial.

Evaluation itemPatersAverage for dating clubsFactors contributing to the difference
Male reliability★ 2.67★3.38 (Universe Club ★3.67)Whether or not an interview is conducted directly impacts trustworthiness.
Ease of matching★ 3.77★ 3.00A large number of members is a strength.
Support★2 unitsUniverse Club ★ 4.09The presence or absence of an agent makes a difference.

Paters boasts one of the highest matching rates (★3.77) among the nine companies, making it its greatest strength the numerous opportunities for meeting people.

On the other hand, the trustworthiness of the men (★2.67) is about 1 point lower compared to dating clubs.

Club-style services, which are only available to men who have passed an interview-based screening process, tend to be more highly regarded as having "more trustworthy men."

In other words, the data clearly shows that Payters excels at "quantity of encounters," while dating clubs excel at "quality of encounters."

Our independent survey (102 men and women) revealed detailed dissatisfactions and points of satisfaction.

In a survey conducted by our company in December 2024, we gathered evaluations based on real-world experiences, which are often difficult to see in app stores.

Top 3 reasons why men felt they were glad they used the product.

RankingMessageNumber of responses
 1Ease of use and speed15 of
2Overwhelming number of members and choices11 of
3Low running costs6 of

Top 3 reasons why women felt they were glad they used the product.

RankingMessageNumber of responses
1Overwhelming number of members and ease of matching23 of
2Ease of use and convenience13 of
3You can tell a man's character from the initial interactions.8 of

Top 3 things men felt were "bad"

RankingMessageNumber of responses
1Women's poor manners and poor quality15 of
2The photos are heavily deceptive and manipulated.9 of
3The existence of vendors and agents7 of

Top 3 things women felt were "bad"

RankingMessageNumber of responses
1The quality of men is low.29 of
2Low allowance10 of
3The large number of people looking for casual sex (seeking a sexual relationship)4 of

For both men and women, dissatisfaction with the quality of members tends to be the most common complaint.

On the other hand, the app has received high praise for its speed in facilitating encounters and ease of matching, indicating that user satisfaction can vary greatly depending on how you choose and use it.

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Our independent research revealed that men tend to be dissatisfied with the "gap between photos and reality," while women tend to be dissatisfied with the "quality of men and the amount of compensation they offer." Sincerity in profiles is important for both parties.

Tips for earning money on Payters | 5 tips for increasing your earnings + user income distribution

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Many people who register with Payters encounter the problem of "not being able to find a match."

Here, we will explain in detail the key points that men and women should keep in mind when looking for their ideal partner.

Rather than special techniques, the key is to develop a strategy that puts you in your opponent's shoes.

[Exclusive Data] How much do Payters users earn? Monthly income distribution of 102 users

Based on our own survey (December 2024 / 61 women), we compiled data on the monthly income range of women who use Payters.

Monthly Income RangeResponse rateEstimated number of people
5 less than one million yenAbout 25%15
5 10,000 to 10 10,000 yenAbout 35%21
10 10,000 to 20 10,000 yenAbout 28%17
Over 20 million yenAbout 12%7
*Source: Company survey (response given in December 2024 / number of female respondents: 61)

This result shows that approximately 6% of Payters users spend between 5 and 20 yen per month.

On the other hand, only slightly more than 20% of women earn over 1 yen, indicating that strategic activities are necessary to secure a stable and substantial income.

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My own average monthly income is 20 to 30 yen, but to reach this point, I repeatedly revised my profile and increased my message reply rate. I'll share the tips next.

TipsAlways complete the negotiation of terms and conditions during the initial meeting.

It's generally best to negotiate compensation during the initial meeting.

If you request a price increase after the initial meeting, you'll often be rejected, and future contact will cease.

It's best to either state your desired allowance amount during the initial meeting, or wait for the sugar daddy to spontaneously increase it.

Tip #2: Winning Profile Picture Patterns (Cleanliness, Natural Light, Full Body)

For profile pictures, cleanliness is more important than a sense of luxury.

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Photos taken in natural light with soft expressions, or photos of people in simple clothing, tend to get a higher response rate.

Three things to avoid are excessive editing, close-ups of the face only, and photos taken in dark places.

A single photograph can determine whether someone feels comfortable meeting you.

Tip #3: Messaging techniques to increase reply rates

To increase the initial response rate to your messages, it's effective to avoid using canned responses and instead refer to the recipient's profile.

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For example, simply adding a comment related to your hobbies or work can change the response you get.

The best time to naturally bring up the topic of terms and price is around the third to fifth email.

Tip #4: Use the "Date Now" feature to find a man you can meet today.

Paters' "Date Now" feature is a convenient function that allows you to filter for only men who are available to meet that day.

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This is especially useful if you have limited time available for sugar dating, such as weekday evenings or weekend afternoons.

Try opening it regularly, not just on days when you have plenty of free time, but also to make effective use of your spare time.

Tip #5: Offer a price that won't disqualify you (stay within the market rate).

Higher allowances aren't always better.

Offering a price significantly higher than the market rate could deter potential buyers and lead to your offer being rejected.

Offering a price that suits your style is key to building a lasting relationship.

Having a stance like, "I want at least 7,000 yen for meals," makes it easier to meet a good dad.

By keeping these five tips in mind, you can significantly increase your chances of boosting your monthly income. Next, let's look at some information to help you determine if Payters is right for you.

Payters vs. Other Sugar Daddy Apps: A Thorough Comparison Based on Who They're Suitable For

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For those of you wondering, "Which app should I use?", we'll compare Paters with three major sugar daddy apps.

Please use this information to help you choose an app that suits your purpose.

Who is Paters suitable for/not suitable for?

Payters is suitable for the following types of people:

Suitable for
  • People who want to meet someone efficiently without spending too much time on communication.
  • People who want to have many options and compare them to choose the right person for them.
  • People looking for an app that is simple to use and easy to operate.

On the other hand, the following people may not be a good fit:

  • People who want to accurately understand the other person based only on prior information.
  • A person with high standards of manners, including politeness and language use.
  • A person who cannot compromise even slightly on the terms and conditions.

If you feel that it's not a good fit, you might also consider PATOLO, which has a strict screening system where you can check the allowance amount and relationship type in advance.

With 6% of male members earning over 2,000 million yen annually and travel expenses for initial meetings guaranteed, this service is ideal for those who want to avoid mismatches.

Click here to apply for PATOLO as a woman.

Comparison Chart of 4 Apps | Payters, PATOLO, SugarDaddy, Labuan

We compared four major sugar daddy dating apps based on four criteria: number of members, fees, features, and who they are best suited for.

Furthermore, a survey of 38,000 people revealed that when women choose a sugar daddy service, 67.6% prioritize "the quality of the man (financial stability)" (34.0%) and "the quality of the man (reliability)" (33.6%), respectively.

Only a few percent of both men and women cited "a large number of members" or "low fees" as factors, clearly indicating a preference for quality of encounters over quantity or price.

App or Application or Sakurabook AppMembershipMale priceCharacteristicsSuitable for
PatersCumulative total of over 260 million people29,800 yen for 3 months (approximately 9,933 yen/month)Immediate meeting, speed is importantPeople seeking many encounters
PATOLOStrict screening process11,000 yen/monthPre-payment confirmation and guarantee of travel expenses for the initial meeting.People who want to avoid a mismatch
sugar daddyprivate8,000 yen/monthAnnual income verification - Web-based version only.People who want to meet high-income dads
Labuanprivate5,980 yen/monthVideo profile / Online meetingPeople who want to check the atmosphere beforehand
*This table was created based on publicly available information from each service's official website, etc. (as of April 2026).

According to data from a survey of 38,000 people, PATOLO's 290 male members gave high ratings on a 5-point scale: Ease of matching ★3.99 and Resistance to identity being revealed ★3.94.

Male users have also commented, "I can discuss the date with my partner beforehand. It's really helpful because it prevents disappointments," indicating that the pre-confirmation system is well-received.

Frequently Asked Questions about Payters

This section answers frequently asked questions about Payters.

If you still have any questions, please refer to this as well.

Q1: Is Payters an app specifically for sugar dating?

Although Paters is officially presented as a dating app, in reality, it is an app with many users seeking sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships.

Our own survey of over 38,000 people revealed that 37.9% of women had used Paters before joining PATOLO, confirming that its primary use is as a sugar daddy/sugar baby dating app.

While it can be used for dating and marriage-seeking purposes, other dating apps are more efficient if you're looking for a serious relationship partner.

Q2: How much does it cost to do sugar dating on Payters?

For men, the 3-month plan starts at 29,800 yen (approximately 9,933 yen/month), and the 12-month plan drops to approximately 7,067 yen/month.

Women can use all the basic functions completely free of charge. The allowance is paid separately by the man, so it needs to be considered separately from the app usage fee.

Q3: Are "Peters" and "Paters" the same app?

Yes, it's the same app. The difference lies in how the English spelling "paters" is pronounced, resulting in two different pronunciations: "Peters" and "Paters."

The official Japanese spelling is "Payters," but you can find information about the same service by searching using either spelling.

Q4: From what age can you use Payters?

Payters is available to those 18 years of age and older, but high school students are not allowed to use it.

Since submission of identification documents is required for age verification, even if you are over 18, you may not be able to register with only a student ID.

Q5: Which is better, Payters or SugarDaddy?

Paters offers a faster pace for meeting people, while SugarDaddy typically involves scheduling meetings using its scheduling function.

Both platforms primarily attract women in their 20s, but Payters has a larger number of male business owners and executives, while SugarDaddy has an income verification system that makes it easier to attract high-income men.

If speed is your priority, then Payters is a good choice. If you want to take your time and assess your opponents, then SugarDaddy is more suitable.

Q6: How do I cancel my Payters account?

You can unsubscribe from Payters by going to "Settings" → "Unsubscribe" within the app.

If you are a paid member, you must cancel your subscription before canceling your membership.

Please consider carefully before canceling your account, as this will delete all your data and prevent you from contacting people you have already matched with.

Summary | 5 things you should know before using Payters for sugar dating

Paters is an app that allows you to engage in "sugar dating" (papakatsu) activities, leveraging its speed and large user base.

I've summarized the key points of this article into five points.

Summary of this article
  • While Payters is officially a dating app, it has a large number of users seeking sugar daddy/sugar baby relationships.
  • The going rate is approximately 5 to 1 yen for the initial meeting, 1 to 3 yen for the meal, and 5 to 10 yen for the adults.
  • The fee for men starts at 29,800 yen for 3 months, while women can use the basic functions for free.
  • Utilize safety features such as 24-hour monitoring and private mode, while complying with prohibited activities.
  • Using both Payters and PATOLO provides the best balance.

Paters is suitable for those looking for a fast-paced sugar daddy arrangement, but for those who want to finalize their payment in advance, PATOLO, which has a strict screening process, is also recommended.

With 6% of male members earning over 2,000 million yen annually and travel expenses for initial meetings guaranteed, you can participate with peace of mind while avoiding mismatches.

Click here to apply for PATOLO as a woman.

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Hi everyone! I'm Megumi, 33 years old, and I've been doing sugar dating for 3 years! I've met about 25 sugar daddies so far and earned a total of about 400 million yen. My average monthly income is 20 to 30 yen. I mainly use SugarDaddy, Paters, local dating clubs, and PATOLO.

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