November 2024, 08
Contents of this article
Is sugar dating a bad thing?
The public image seems to be that it's not a good thing...
Is it really okay to be a daddy?
In this column, we will discuss the thoughts of serious, simple, kind-hearted, and pure men and women who have thought about this at least once.
The public image of sugar daddy
I would like to write about whether sugar dating is really a bad thing or not.
Although many people are now looking for sugar daddies, generally speaking,
It's never a popular thing.
What is the public's image of sugar daddy relationships?
Let's take a look at the comments on the internet and social media as well.
Sugar daddy is a womanIn exchange for moneyOwnDeep relationship at timesHave
And there are companies that act as intermediaries for these encounters, like dating clubs.
Commodifying womenIt appearsThere may be some people.
Certainly, in terms of clearly linking adult relationships (sex) with money,
There may be some parts that are close to being commercialized.
How is it different from compensated dating?
Men who try to buy sex at bargain prices,
When men who mistakenly believe that they can do whatever they want with women's bodies as long as they have money enter the market,
Such impressions and images will only become stronger.
I remember that at that time, both men and women were often asked this question during interviews and consultations.
Is it okay to date a sugar daddy?
At this time, there are many concerns about whether everything is okay.
Is there any legal problem?
Is there any ethical problem?
Is there no risk of being found out?
Although there are some differences in the things people worry about,
Somewhere"Maybe I'm doing something bad."I think they ask such questions because they are worried about this.
This is a question that is asked frequently, especially by women.
I have a boyfriend (partner).
Is it okay for me to have a daddy?
Of course, I also get asked this question from conscientious, beginner men.
I have a family member, can I register?
Is it really okay to have a physical relationship with a woman dozens of years younger than you?
For men and women who have not yet tried sugar dating,
The activity may be an unrealistic way of making money that deviates from common sense.
👇Let's take a look at the difference between sugar dating and compensated dating
To be honest, this question has crossed the mind of even men and women who have been using the dating club for a long time.
I think this is a path that I have been thinking about and that cannot be avoided.
The definition of sugar daddy varies from person to person.
I think the following points are common to both of us:
👇Commonalities between sugar daddies
1. Find a man who will date you and give you financial support in return.
② Make your own decision without the involvement of a third party
3) Adults aged 18 or over
Sugar Daddy Specialty App PatroThis service that we are proposing in the form of
The amount that the man pays and the moment that the woman musters up the courage to take off her clothes are also so-calledinvestment.
It's an investment and a relationship between people.
Even if there are rules"Safety and Stability"This does not guarantee the accuracy of the information provided.
There are always risks involved.
SometimesIt can cause mental and physical damageIt will be.
There are some parts of the world where nice words don't work.
I accepted the proposal
I was the one who convinced myself that it was okay.
Whether you believe in the person in front of you or not is up to you
The danger of it all being down to meWhen,
You can make your own decisions according to your heart.This is what sugar dating is all about.
As the famous Leonardo da Vinci said:
If you choose pleasure, behind pleasure is
Know that it will bring trouble and regret.
Leonardo da Vinci
(Suddenly, a famous person's quote popped up...)
I don't mean to learn from great people, but I think there are two sides to everything, not just sugar dating.
Maybe you need to understand
👇Sometimes people realize that the decision they made was a mistake and end up like this (illustration from October 22.10nd)
👇 Check the risks of sugar dating in advance
Words like "threatening risk," "trouble," and "regret" are being used.
Of course, there are positive aspects as well, so the number of men and women engaging in sugar dating is not decreasing; in fact, it can be said that it is increasing.
Sometimes the returns can be quite large.
At the social club where I used to work,
I received the following comment from a woman whom I helped match with.
Through a connection with someone, I was guided to "take on a job that doesn't require physical activity for the first time in my life."
I was able to make money
It changed my life.
I am so grateful to your club, nothing can replace it.
thank you…!
He once said this to me in tears.
👇 A dating club where Oseki received lovely words of gratitude
"Is sugar dating really a bad thing?"If you ask me, I have seen the bitter and sweet reality of sugar dating.
As a sugar daddy staff member/dating club staff member, I would answer like this.
To be honest,
There is surely no right answer.
However, in order to achieve their goals,
When I saw him doing sugar daddy dating and making his dream come true,
I don't think it's a bad thing, even if one's way of making money is through sugar dating.
People who are bashing me online,
To those who make hard work a virtue and force it on others,
That's the way you think.
But I have a different opinion, and everyone has their own opinion.
Please refrain from completely dismissing me as someone who is into sugar dating based on your own experience.
No one can carry the person's lifeBecause.
I think and I say so.
Of course, I cannot condone underage sugar daddy activities or crimes, and I have no intention of doing so.
In response to a certain behavior of another person (in this case, sugar dating)
(It may be good to give advice that comes from your heart.)
It's impossible to take their place and carry their burden, or to fully understand them.
I don't know all of that person's feelings, circumstances, and reasons.
I think it’s important to understand that.
To give advice even if it makes others dislike you,
Forcing your own ideas and beliefs on others
I think they are completely different things.
So what if your child was a sugar daddy?
What do you think? Is it okay? Even if my child is looking for a sugar daddy?
Some people may think this way.
No one has ever asked me this question before, but it got me thinking.
As a mother, I think the first thing I would say if my daughter was trying to do this would be:
(I don't have a daughter... but Seki exudes melancholy.)
I need money and my part-time job pay isn't enough.
Should I get a sugar daddy?
Daddy life?
Why don't you think about it a little more?
He says this in reply.
But mom, listen?
An old man appeared and offered to give me a lot of money just for a meal.That's why
Wow!!! That's so hot!!!
You're cute, charming, smart, funny, eloquent, kind, a good cook, and even though you're not so good at cleaning, your charm makes up for that!!
And it looks like you're riding it.
But are you trying to earn a living just from food, or are you also trying to use your body in some cases?
I don't know the true meaning.
After all, your child is a stranger to you.
For now,I don't want my children to lose their innocence and their faith in others to ulterior motives.I think.
If possible, I want them to enjoy their youth without getting hurt or experiencing trauma.
So I'll give you this as a word of advice.
incidentally"Sugar daddy is no problem" "I'll do anything for money"For the spiritual woman
This is what I want to say as a mother in the sugar daddy world.
Don't just listen to the surface words and take them at face value.
There are a lot of people in this world who seem like good people but have bad intentions.
But I'll also add this.
But there are some people who seem nice and are really nice.
I believe in you, but I don't want you to get hurt unnecessarily.
Don't forget that everyone in your family, including your mom, is thinking about you.
With that said, I think I will trust my child and wait for the report.
This may also increase the opportunities to experience the inherent joy of earning money in exchange for work.
I will accept what my child says, hoping for his safety, so that the conversation between parent and child will continue.
Because I was a problem child, I am very careful how I interact with children.
This is my personal opinion as a person.
Men I met while working at the club
Among the men I met in private,
full of ulterior motives but generousI want to give and give to anyone (regardless of homosexuality)The man whoYes, there actually are.
Of course, there are those who have no ulterior motives at all.
Because voices on the internet aren't everything
It is important not to blindly accept both good and bad things.
Everything you believe in, the people you meet, and the things you allow in relationships.
Align your conscience, feelings, and values with the people you care about.
There are many different types of men in the world who are looking for sugar daddies.
There are many women who have been saved in some way by wonderful men.
that there are such wonderful people and possibilities知ら ない まま
Withering my youth and feminine beautyTo put it away,
As a woman myself, I feel that this is a shame.
Self-responsibility is a word that weighs heavily on everyone.
But while I am free, I believe in my potential, use my money and beauty,
Happiness againA moment of supreme pleasure that surpasses a lifetime of regretI would love for you to try it at least once.
But, of course, for men too
I especially don't want women to regret getting involved in sugar dating.
I wondered if what would really serve as food for meI want you to see it with your own eyes.
I want you to carefully consider the matter...!
This was a column asking for help from a nosy old lady with no real demand for it.
Be happy everyone.