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Last updated: July 2024, 7 | A thorough guide to how to start sugar dating for beginners and the steps to succeed
I think there are many people who are interested in sugar dating, but are worried about how to actually get started.
In this article, we will explain in an easy-to-understand manner for those who are new to sugar dating (mainly women in their 20s and 30s), everything from the basic knowledge you need to know when starting sugar dating to the secrets to success!
👇Here's what you'll find out in this article❣
I think there are many people who want to start sugar dating but don't know where to start.
First, register on a sugar daddy site or app!
When it comes to being a dad, there are fields that you are suited to and those that are not.
If you are working in a place that doesn't suit you...
Because this is the result.
Each site or app has different features, fees, number of members, and quality, so it's important to choose the site or app that suits you.
For example, the main ones are as follows:
What suits me best?
The following types of people are primarily suited to sugar daddy apps:
Here's an example. First, Ms. A 👩
Often"She seems like a good secretary" "She responds quickly to LINE messages, it's really helpful"People say that this is normal for me, but I don't find it bothersome...
MaleI think the quality is important, of course,First of all, we have to meet early to get started.BecauseI want to meet a lot of different people as soon as possible.!
Such a womanSugar daddy matching apps are suitableTherefore, I recommend that you start your sugar dating journey through an app.
This meansHigh self-production abilityAlsoI'm looking for a certain degree of freedom in my activities.,that isPossibleThat's because it's a matching app.
The appeal of sugar daddy apps is that they allow you to easily find a sugar daddy.
There are many opportunities to meet many men, so it is also recommended for those who are new to sugar dating.
However, there are some malicious websites and apps out there, so be sure to thoroughly check their reputation before signing up.
When choosing a sugar daddy app, it is important to prioritize safety.
Is it run by a trustworthy company? Is the identity of members verified and security measures in place?Let's check the following:
You can also refer to reviews and ratings.
What kind of person is a dating club suitable for?
B-koLet's take a look at Mr.
Rather than wanting to casually meet a variety of people,I want to meet men who have been screened to some extent..
I am busy with work during the day, so I may not be able to reply to messages immediately.I want the staff to make arrangements until we meet..
Women like those described above are suitable for dating clubs, so we recommend joining one.
Where a third-person perspective comes inDeterrence makes it easier to ensure safetyEasy to follow, care for, and remove areas that cannot be reached on bulletin boards or apps.That's the main reason.
In addition, dating clubs are a service where many people are looking for a relationship that is more like a mistress relationship among sugar daddies.
There is a high chance of meeting a daddy who values safety and reliability, has a high income, or is a so-called rich daddy.
The fees are often high, so it often takes a long time for women to receive an offer.
In addition, dating clubs often have strict identity checks and safety measures for their members.
Another advantage is that it can be used with peace of mind.
Dating clubs can be said to be a relatively safe service among sugar daddy dating services.
However, there are some unscrupulous dating clubs that charge high fees or provide services that are different from what is actually stated.
Be sure to gather information in advance and choose a reliable club.
Who is suitable for dating apps?
Some people use regular dating apps instead of sugar daddy apps."The rich"Many people use products targeted at these people.
Tokyo Calendar is said to have high-class men registered.
Tinder is said to have many men and women looking for casual relationships.
DINE: There is almost no interaction and the date starts with a meal (the man usually pays for everything)
It seems that some people use dating matching apps like the ones mentioned above to find a sugar daddy.
Also, the next options for sugar daddy apps are as follows:Social matching appIt seems that some people use it. An example of such a site is as follows.
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- Exciting email
- J-mail
- PCMAX
- Ikukuru
- happy mail
- YYC
The above sites were not originally created for sugar daddy dating, so please use them after gaining some experience with sugar daddy dating apps or dating clubs."What kind of daddy would I feel comfortable meeting?"Let's use it after you understand it by yourself.For advanced users 🥺
I think it may be difficult, but you can meet different types of men.For advanced usersseems to be up for the challenge.
However, there are risks involved, so you need to be extremely careful.
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Some people start their sugar dating activities using social networking sites such as Instagram and X.
Therefore, it is suitable for the following types of women:
Sugar Daddy Activities on SNSGo at your own paceBecausePeople who don't have timeAnd
You want to meet a specific type of guyRecommended for.
However, sugar dating on social media isThere is a high risk of getting into troubleSo please be very careful.
I want to hide as much information about myself as possible, so I'd like a tool that allows me to make my age and other information as vague as possible.
It's best to look at posts and other information from your side and get a rough idea of what the person is like.
Social media is a good fit for these kinds of women because it allows them a lot of freedom and allows them to communicate and be active.
It is easier for people to relate to you based on your personality, character, and personality rather than your appearance.There is a merit that.
The more the message resonates with me, the better my impression of her will be, and I'll want to meet her!
Also, the benefits from a man's perspective.
When meeting people through X or message boardsThere are entrance fees and setting fees charged at dating clubs.
There is no cost involved in "meeting".
There's a saying that nothing is more expensive than free, and when it comes to lowering the hurdles to meeting people, this is by far the most specialized field.
While it is easy to start sugar dating on SNS, it can also be easy to get into trouble. Be careful when interacting with others.Please refrain from posting personal information or disclosing private information..
Also, if you do meet in person, choose a safe location and be sure to find out about the person beforehand.
Sign up for the app and create your profile.
Check out the points you should keep in mind when creating your sugar daddy profile and think about how you want to present yourself to your potential partner.
Like meThere must be a lot of men who pay attention to style!
Write your personal introduction concisely and clearly.
My stance and requirements for sugar datingBy clearly communicating these things, you will make it easier for the other person to become interested.
In particularMy stance is that I'm the only one who eatsOrCan adult relationships be considered?is a very important point for me, so it would be better to write it down.That's good. Be careful of typos.
Honesty,Seriousness about sugar daddyIt is also important to communicate this.
In your self-introduction or message, try to convey your sincere attitude toward the other person.
Women``What kind of stance do you intend to take in dating?'' ``What kind of relationship do you think the relationship will be when it develops into a relationship?''That becomes a very important point.
Honesty,Seriousness about sugar daddyIt is also important to communicate this.
In your self-introduction or message, try to convey your sincere attitude toward the other person.
When dating a sugar daddy, it's important to make the other person feel safe.
Before you meet or message someone, create an introduction that gives a sincere and positive impression.
Once you've created your profile, start sending messages to people you're interested in!
The key is to send a message as soon as you find a match.
Keep that in mind when sending your first message.
For example, a male profile:
Relationship purpose: Looking for a relationship that goes beyond just dinner
"I like alcohol and am looking for someone to enjoy a meal and a drink with."
So that means...
He wants a physical connection with a woman, but he also thinks it's important to share time with her and talk to her over food and drinks.
What message would you send to this dad?"I met my ideal girl!"I wonder if people will think that?Let's make a sentence
Nice to meet you!
Check out my profile,I feel like he's close to my ideal partner.I am messaging you.I am the same as Mr. XX.I was looking for someone who could share peaceful times with me, including meals and drinks, not just financial relationships.
I hope this will be a good match for you. I'm waiting for your reply!
Nice to meet you!
I am the same as ○○-san.I love alcohol, especially sake and highballs.
I also saw the photos.It would be fun to have a drink togetherIt was a very relaxed atmosphere, so I'd be happy to join you for a drink if you'd like.
Some things will resonate with different people and some will not, and there are different preferences, so try and experiment to find the content that suits you (your character).
To find a compatible partner...
My answer is,I recommend searching according to your relationship goals.doing.
What I mean is, if you"Meals only"If you want to meet at a regular activity, and the other person is an adult P, if you try to meet only for meals, not only will you not become a regular daddy, but it could also lead to trouble because your stance will be different.
I'm an adult producer (= I don't have any need for activities that only involve eating)
I'm looking for a meal daddy! I'd love to meet you!
...(He says he's an adult producer, but you didn't read his profile, so just ignore him.)
It is only natural that it is not possible to provide ideal supplies to someone who has a different stance from oneself.
SoUse the search function to narrow down your search to men who have the same profile as youlet's
You can narrow down your search on most sugar daddy apps.
I mainly use Labuan."Meals only" "Let's start with meals"I often look for men who have this kind of attitude.
Occasionally, so-called "complaint" and "dissatisfaction" posts are mentioned on social media.
Most of the discomfort that P felt towards PJ was caused by comments made in messages before they met.
Being rude in your first message"My meeting fee is XX yen."I get annoyed when I see this."I won't settle for anything less than this, so please be patient."The nuance is as follows:Even if you communicate the same wish to the other person, the impression you get will be completely different..
If you find that you like each other through messaging, then meet in person!
Things to decide together before you meet
Please be careful not to be late for the meeting time.
Train timetables, travel times, locations, etc.Be sure to check it out.
I plan to write another article about what I'm going to talk about.
Apparently, some men are vague about the amount of the allowance,How much are you thinking about spending on a dinner date or adult date?If you discuss the details of the allowance when you meet, you will feel more at ease and more comfortable meeting each other in the future.
Even though I met him and he was a nice guy, I had a misunderstanding and it caused trouble later on...
I recommend you talk about it to avoid this from happening!
If the meeting goes well, go on a few dates and get to know the other person better!
What is important when making a regular daddy?"How often we meet"It can also be said.
Mere exposure effectHowever,The more times you meet, the easier it is for them to feel closer to you.Your partner also has financial circumstances to consider, so try to make time for them within reasonable limits.
By keeping in regular contact
My relationship with you is not just a dry one where we meet and I get paid.
This is the appeal.
Also, the more times you meet, the less appreciated it becomes, which tends to happen.
The most important time is when you get used to each other and your regular relationship becomes stable.
Don't forget this and express your gratitude to the other person.
Trust and bonds aren't built in a day or overnight., so keep that in mind.
I've written a series of steps from how to choose a field for sugar dating to how to actually do it, but did you get the general idea of the process and tips?
The point is 👇
Keep this in mind, as it will greatly reduce the chances of developing into trouble in the future.
Oseki-chan is so kind, she takes the time to summarize everything for me. She's a goddess (impression)
This time, I have written an introductory how-to article that will serve as a guide for sugar dating for beginner PJ girls.
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