2024 January 08
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"Sugar Daddy" has been gaining attention in recent years.
Although it is known as an easy way to earn income, there are various risks lurking behind it.
Sugar dating through apps and social media is particularly risky because it is so easy to do.
In this article, we will discuss the risks that inexperienced women in their 20s should be aware of when trying sugar dating for the first time.
We will explain it in an easy-to-understand manner.
When inexperienced people start sugar dating, it is very important to confirm the trustworthiness of the other person.
You should avoid scams and dealing with malicious parties, and it is important to understand the means and points to look out for to verify accurate information.
Wasting time by not showing up to a meeting,
Some men start sugar dating with the intention of committing fraud from the start, and there is a risk that women may be blackmailed or suffer financial and emotional damage.
The most important thing is to find a trustworthy partner and an environment where you can feel safe and secure in your sugar dating.
In sugar dating, monetary transactions are essential,
Inexperienced people need to act with caution to avoid getting into financial trouble.
It is important to discuss clear terms and contracts in advance and choose a trustworthy daddy.
Specifically, be careful of the following:
・If the sugar daddy offers you deals that seem too good to be true, be wary of fraud (Guideline: 1.5 yen or more for meals, 7 yen or more for adults)
-Don't bring bank cards, credit cards, or extra cash on a date
- Stay with your belongings during the date (take your bag with you to the bathroom or shower)
*There have been cases of people having their wallets stolen or having their allowance stolen after it has been received.
・Allowances must be paid in advance and in cash (if they ask you to transfer the money later, it is most likely a scam)
*There have been cases of fraud where the man meets the woman via an app or other means, pretends to go to the toilet, and then runs away without paying or giving the woman the allowance.
*We often hear of cases where selfish men make excuses, such as not being satisfied with the adult content, and do not give the woman the amount agreed upon in advance.
*In the case of monthly contracts, there have been reports of dads telling their partners they can pay later and then running away.
・Check the cash you receive immediately (it may not be real money, such as in children's banks. Sometimes people forget to put cash in without any intention).
When an inexperienced woman joins a sugar daddy dating service for the first time,
You also need to focus on your own health and safety.
To ensure your safety, please be mindful of the time and place of your first meeting, and of reporting to your friends and family.
It is important to take precautions in advance.
Specifically, be careful of the following:
・Consider your studies and workload and think about how many days and hours per month you can dedicate to sugar dating before starting your activities.
*Half of the popular women end up suffering from physical or mental health issues due to scheduling dates at a high pace at first, or being unable to keep their promises and canceling at the last minute, which leads to a drop in their ratings and a report history, making them lose the trust of their sugar daddies and therefore losing any chance of a long-term relationship or any chance of being asked out again.
- Meet during the day in a crowded place
It is dangerous to meet alone with a stranger in a secluded place late at night.
It's easier to have a conversation in a private room, but there is a risk that you may be touched.
You should absolutely avoid meeting people whose identities you do not know, especially via social media.
It is also not allowed to ride in the other person's car.
I recommend meeting during the day at a cafe or somewhere similar.
・Don't drink too much alcohol
In the most serious cases, there are men who get women drunk and then assault them or take advantage of them.
There have been some incidents in the past where people have mixed sleeping pills into drinks.
If you drink alcohol, drink only small amounts. Avoid going to the toilet when you have a drink in progress.
・Beware of voyeurism
If you meet someone in their car or at their home, you are especially likely to get involved in a crime.
There is also a risk of being photographed if you go to a hotel.
As a countermeasure,
[Pack your luggage together]
[If your smartphone is placed close to the bed, ask them to move it]
[Cover the bundled items with a towel or other cloth]
Something like this is effective.
Do not disclose personal information
There is also a possibility that you may be threatened by a bad daddy or a fraudulent daddy, or that a man you initially thought was a good daddy may turn out to be a stalker.
There is no good reason to give out personal information.
While sugar dating can have financial benefits, it also comes with emotional risks.
If inexperienced people fail to control their emotions, it can lead to stress and psychological strain.
Before you start a sugar daddy relationship, it's important to understand your own feelings and limitations, and to be prepared to deal with the situation in a successful way.
・Be aware that sugar dating can be a burden not only in terms of date time but also in terms of messaging.
Sugar dating is a relationship between individuals, and it is necessary to exchange messages before and after a date. Some men in long-term relationships prefer to be in contact on a daily basis.
If you respond slowly, there is a high chance that the relationship will be severed, so it is important to know a reasonable number of people to date and act accordingly.
・You may feel stressed by unpleasant words and actions of men.
It depends on the compatibility between the two parties and the woman's personality, but there are many women who feel stressed by men's words and actions.
For example, if you don't want any dirty jokes, you should write that in your profile.
At a dating club, staff will act as an intermediary, so you can have your more detailed requests addressed.
If an inexperienced woman in her 20s wants to start sugar dating, she needs to make plans with an eye to the future.
Not only can you earn a temporary income, but you can also learn how to invest and save wisely for the future.
It requires taking steps to build a stable life.
・Be clear about why you are looking for a sugar daddy
- Make a plan for how to manage and spend the money you earn from sugar dating
*If you spend the entire amount each time, the larger the amount, the more dependent you will become on sugar dating, and the harder it may be for you to return to your normal financial sense.
Since sugar dating is a risky activity, we have created a website to help inexperienced women in their 20s to participate with peace of mind.
It is important to consider these points.
Being well informed and acting with caution is the first step to having a good experience.
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