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[Sugar Daddy Activity] How much should you give as a sugar daddy? Tips for setting the right amount so you don't make a mistake

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The image shows a woman smiling with her hand over her mouth against a pink background, and a room with a romantic interior. The text reads in large letters, "The allowance I finally arrived at," and at the top is written in English, "How much your heart?"

It snowed this weekend and it was beautiful...
If I mutter "Merry Christmas..." to myself
I was embarrassed to be seen by passers-by
My name is Seki, a former PATOLO staff member and marketer.

That's the greeting from 2022...what about this year's?

I was transferred from Patrol to another department and I wondered what on earth I was doing.
I'm facing this every day and I don't have time for Christmas.

 Many people wonder how to set the amount of their allowance.
If the price is too high, the other person may be put off.
If the amount is too low, you may feel like you are losing out.

How do I check market prices and whose information should I trust?

When it comes to setting allowances, how much is a "reasonable" amount for me to suggest?

In this article, we will introduce some points to consider when setting allowance amounts.
We will explain it in an easy-to-understand manner.

Today I would like to write and answer questions assuming that I was involved in sugar dating.

👇What is the going rate for adults looking for a sugar daddy? Let's find out

Let's start by finding out the market price

The first priority is to know the market price.
This will vary greatly depending on region, type of relationship, and age group of the other person, so research is required.

How to check market prices

It varies greatly depending on the region and conditions.
The specific research method will be introduced.

In particular, X (formerly Twitter) is a treasure trove of real information.
People who are actually working there often post about their requirements and experiences.

When posting for branding or affiliate purposes
Because it may be for the purpose of impression manipulation,

It is important to develop the ability to distinguish between truth and falsehood.

Understand your worth

The amount of your allowance will vary depending not only on the market rate but also on your own attractiveness.
By looking at your own value objectively, you will be able to see the fair amount.

This is why, even though she was offered such a large amount,
A notable example is when someone offers you tens of thousands of yen.

This may be why the going rate for sugar daddy dating is said to be relative.
Maybe

👇Here are some real opinions from those who actually pay the allowance.

It is important to once again look at your own charms and specs objectively from a man's perspective.

Appearance and age

Appearance factors such as beauty, youth, cleanliness, and aesthetic sense are important points.
Even in dating clubs, the setting fees often vary depending on beauty and physical attractiveness, which is probably a reflection of the fact that market value is determined by appearance.

After all, beautiful women are valuable just for being beautiful...

sexI don't think there are people who don't care about rank at all, but the entrance is
It all comes down to appearance...!

Personality and communication skills

It is very important to make people feel that talking to you is fun and relaxing.
Being kind and considerate naturally is a great strength for someone.

Actually, I was asked recently, "Who would you like to be a regular in X neighborhood?"
After serious consideration, what do you feel is valuable to you?
It's revealed!

If you think about actually paying
The type that is not just about looks, the type that is generally OK as long as the looks are good
I think it's more likely that people will be divided into those who value content over appearance.

There are men who value this positive point.
I think some people set it on the premise that

Hobbies and skills

If you share certain hobbies, you may be appreciated for that.
This can lead to an offer, as they call it in dating clubs, and having hobbies or skills that are in high demand among men means that your allowance may increase.

Especially golf and languages, when my dad wants me to accompany him on business entertainment.
In cases where there are personnel who need to be contacted separately,
I get the impression that it's extremely useful.

Even in dating clubs, women who list golf as one of their hobbies
It tends to be easier to get offers.

Among these, the key is to make yourself feel "special" in the sugar daddy market.
For example, try to communicate in a way that makes the other person feel like it's fun to be with you and that you understand them.

Set a low initial price

Proposing a high price from the start is risky.
It is recommended that you set a modest amount the first time and then adjust it based on the other person's reaction.

If you think this is a good price…
There may be losses, it depends on the person.
There are also some difficult parts...

For a modest amount

For the first time, set the amount within a range that the other party will not feel uncomfortable paying.
If you can build a trusting relationship, you can ask for an increase later. (It really depends on the person.)

How about XX yen?

If the other person shows signs of reluctance,
"We want to find a price that is acceptable to both parties."It will make a good impression if you show a willingness to negotiate.

👇However, it seems that there are men like this in the world, so let's find out for ourselves.

I usually meet a few times and ask the other party for the amount they propose.
It might be a good idea to calculate the average value.

Tips for negotiating the amount and increasing your allowance

If you want to set a higher allowance than the current amount,
Here are some points to keep in mind when communicating the allowance you would like to receive to someone else.

Don't overreact if negotiations don't go through

The words you use will stick with you
I think it's better not to use unpleasant words as much as possible.

Be confident: a confident attitude is the key to success

If you appear anxious or unsure when it comes time to state the amount, the other person may feel like there is room for negotiation.

How much would you consider for an adult?

Ah, well...💦💦 I just started so I haven't thought about it yet...💦
How about 5...?
(Nervous)

Maybe this kid lacks confidence in himself?
Maybe there's some kind of problem?

If I negotiate more aggressively, I might be able to keep it cheaper...

Well, that amount is difficult.
How about 3 adults?

In this way, if you appear to lack confidence, you may make the other person feel uneasy.
The property's true appeal may not be conveyed, and it may end up being estimated at a lower amount than appropriate.
It's also possible that you're presenting yourself in the wrong way.


Believe in your own values ​​and act with confidence.

Consider the other person's position: Be flexible and think about the other person's comfort

As mentioned earlier, you can't do sugar dating on your own. It has to happen with someone.
Negotiations are not a time to only think about your own wishes.

It is important to take into account the other party's position and budget and aim for a solution that is satisfactory to both parties.

Set a line: Have unshakable standards

In order to have a sugar daddy relationship that you are generally satisfied with, it is important to set clear ``non-negotiable lines.''

The minimum amount
Make sure you clearly define the amount you are willing to accept below for your time, effort, and the value you provide.

In addition to the minimum amount, there are also minimums for time and date content.
Some women set this (unconsciously, somehow)

For women who are receiving a meeting allowance, the minimum amount is deducted (whether or not they will meet)
The most common amount was 1 yen, followed by 5000 yen.

Focus on long-term satisfaction

It's more important to build good relationships over the long term than to get a high price in the short term.
To do this, try to set a price that you are happy with, even more than the price.

It's really fun to be with you, it's relaxing
It's important to consider factors other than just money, such as the quality of the food.

With a girl who says that you have good physical compatibility
It feels like it's been going on for a long time

However, based on satisfaction

Stress-free pricing
A price that is too low can lead to dissatisfaction for you, while a price that is too high can make the other person feel burdened.

It's also important not to have excessive expectations.

Set a long-term perspective
Offer a realistic price to ensure an ongoing relationship.

What I consider when setting allowances

I wondered how I would feel when I actually developed myself, and gave it some real thought.
In fact, I've been thinking about this ever since my PJ debut.

First of all, I think that even in normal relationships,
I'm a face-chaser and can't develop a deep relationship with someone unless I like them and we have something to talk about.
I was born under a sad star.

Is the market price up to you? (Manga)

Is the market price up to you? This is a four-panel comic with the theme. A pink-haired woman worries and ponders about her market price, eventually concluding that she will set it at 4 million yen. In the panel, she smiles and says, "Go home."

Developing allowance elements

・The other party's face
・Is it comfortable to be with the other person?
・The gentlemanliness of the other person and conversation

No matter how much I'm drunk to death
"If I were to develop an adult relationship with this person, wouldn't I feel sick and sick afterwards? Wouldn't I feel like it would become a dark memory?"Because I think like this with my limited brain, I'm the type of person who will somehow prevent the two of them from being alone and run away.

SoIn the first place, as an adult I only say yes to people who I think are nice and that I'm attracted to.

And the people I like are generally comfortable to be with, so I leave the price up to them,
I think I would accept it unless it was 1 or 2.

Why do I think I'm a good man?
Would you turn it down if it was 1 or 2?

This is something that can be done at a fairly low cost in this area.
That's the only value he thinks of me as a woman.
Because it's sad to think about...

I wonder if there is a sense of purpose as a woman...

Is there a difference between being seen as a man and developing reluctantly?

This is how it is for me (I have never had any financial developments yet):

What if you love yourself?

As long as you love yourself, it's okay,
Maybe it's because I'm not struggling financially.
I think I'll leave it up to the other person.

I'm surprised you're the type to leave it to me...
So what if it's not your preference?

If I try hard enough, I can do it with someone I don't like,
And you don't like the face, but it might be just about okay.
is not it

If there is a sense of cleanliness and there are no dirty spots (appearance, male superiority, etc.)
If the other party offers 5 or more, it's OK.
(As of December 2022)

In 2022? What about now?

I'm busy with my family and work right now.
Any man who has feelings for me is fine...

Reasons for setting

The number 5 for adults that was set at that time was

I'm in my 30s...it's too expensive...there's no demand

Some people may think so, but
at that timeIt's not about estimating your worth and setting a price.

When you get into a deep relationship with someone you like or someone you're not dating
The amount of money you need to spend without feeling depressed if you are forced to develop a relationship with someone you don't want to be with for some reason.
The amount I was willing to work hard for was [5].

It is also very important to consider how you would feel about the amount offered if you were to have an adult relationship with this person.

Yay, I'm so happy!

I felt that way, I tried so hard, and this is all I can achieve

Let's imagine if you think so.

Consider how you will feel later on, and in some cases
You may need to set it higher (or differently).

My personal thoughts

As a sugar daddy staff member, I think it is important to have a partner who is both good for the man and good for my own mental health.
I sincerely hope that we can do business together at a reasonable price.

I understand that some men are put off by women who spend a lot of money...
I will not take sides.

Here is my opinion as a woman named Seki.
Let's put the market price aside for the moment and speak honestly.

Your reluctant attitude will be conveyed to the man, and his feelings will remain as a memory.
As a result, for some people it may be better not to develop it even if it is expensive.

To avoid bad memories for both parties and to avoid hurting each other's self-esteem
I want you to make a decision that protects your heart and the feelings of others.

Summary: Key points for setting a successful allowance amount

To ensure your allowance is a success, keep the following points in mind:

  1. Check the market price, use as a reference
  2. Communicate your value correctly and authentically
  3. Start carefully and adjust gradually
  4. Be confident and flexible when negotiating
  5. Focus on long-term satisfaction

The cold days continue, but I hope you don't catch a cold 😢

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Oseki-chan🥒(Yuna Seki)

In order to find out the reality of sugar dating, our sugar dating staff travels around the country to meet with reporters and actually engage in the activities while studying SEO strategies. Our goal is to write more realistic articles.

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