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[Question] Are you happy when a bunch of bitchy women come to you who are after your money and just take it?

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*This article was posted on 22/11/8
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As the term "sugar daddy" becomes more widely known, and more people enter the sugar daddy world,

Isn't sugar dating just about money?

I have started to hear a lot of people asking this question.

In fact, I have received consultations as a staff member at Universe Club, the largest sugar daddy dating company where I worked, and when I was assigned to the marketing department of PATOLO and digged into social media to hear the voices of people who have actually experienced sugar dating, their voices are particularly high-pitched and loud.

In fact, when we look into the reasons why people engage in sugar dating, a variety of objectives become apparent.
In this article, we will delve into the essence of sugar dating and explain in detail its various aspects.

You may have ear pain or a headache
I hope to write from an objective point of view!

The basics of sugar dating


Sugar dating is essentially a relationship in which an older man (sugar baby) provides financial support to a younger woman. The relationship is mutually beneficial and exists to meet each other's needs.
(Of course, there are young men as well, and it is by no means only young women who are active.
This means that, based on the basic public impression and the percentage meaning, this is generally the most common case.)

Financial support is the basis

The basics of sugar daddyFinancial support.

Many sugar daddy relationships are established when the man gives money to the woman.
This can come in many forms, such as food and shopping expenses or travel expenses.

Therefore, there are matching apps that are known as sugar daddy apps.
When men say they want to meet for free, they end up being mobbed.

A woman is outraged at men who want to start romantic relationships with women for free on sugar daddy apps.
The woman is angry and says that if she wants to meet someone for free on a sugar daddy app, she should just use a free app.
The woman points out to the man who thinks he could get away for free that there is a discrepancy in his meta-cognition between his age and the demands of romance.
Women are angry that sugar daddy apps are not the place to find serious relationships

I can understand that...
For women who can't stand older men, this is a free man to meet.
I don't think there's any benefit to meeting them...

To the suspicious man

When I first wrote this article in November 22, I was on Twitter"Papa life question"I wrote articles by taking the questions that came up at the top of the list and using them as topics for my blog.

Answering real questions objectively as a sugar daddy staff member
Because I wanted to put it into words.

Public opinion of men who are looking for sugar daddies

To people outside the typical sugar dating scene, men who are involved in sugar dating can sometimes seem ridiculous.
Some people honestly question whether this is a charity project, or whether it's just taking things and doesn't it feel empty?

Here are the actual questions I came across at the time.
(I tried to paste the original tweet but it was deleted.)

I have a question about sugar daddies, but these bastards who only want money
They come in droves and I wonder if they're happy just having their money taken?

To be honest, I think women who aren't into sugar dating and are only interested in money feel this way.
Since that person is only looking for money in sugar dating, it's easy to assume that others will feel the same way.
I think the more immature and the younger someone is, the less likely they are to accept diversity.

Click here if you want to know the reasons and psychology behind making assumptions

In fact, before I joined this company, I was also interested in more than just money.
It was hard to believe that there was a demand for uncles.
💦

If public opinion is in favor of older men and sugar daddies,
Among the men who are doing sugar daddy dating,Are women really interested in me, or are they only interested in my money?You may become suspicious.

Here, we will explain what the truth is, how to build trust, and how to find value beyond money.

Are you really just about money?

*This is merely my personal opinion based on what I have observed as a staff member and from listening to their stories.

In fact,

This isreal real.
and this isWhat do both men and women want?This determines your value to the other person.

For example, in the first place, menThose who only want a woman's body, and those who want to be completely divisibleIt is,
I don't seek emotional connections, or the importance of it is not that great.
In fact, he may find it more casual and better if the woman simply thinks of it as just money, rather than getting emotionally involved and making things more complicated.

Women are attracted to the rewards they receive for their support.knowingly
me tooEnjoy your youth, energy and bodyNot giving upgive and takeI am aware that I am.

The reason why some people worry when they meet someone through sugar dating

This is the opposite of the above example.heart connectionIslover-like relationship, this means a
This is not just limited to men, but also when what each person wants is different.Both men and women can get sick (feeling unhappy)I will.

No matter how much lovey-dovey time we spend togetherA relationship based on moneySo
Because you will be made aware of it every time you hand over money.

even women

Every time I get money
Is this a relationship that is only tied to money?I began to think that

Sometimes people say this.

So,

is basically not suitable for sugar dating.

This doesn't mean you shouldn't have a serious relationship, but it does mean you shouldn't have a sugar daddy.Negative emotions and persistence only get in the way,is what it means.

So, with this awareness, what can we do to ensure that our existence does not depend solely on money?

Let them know there is value beyond money

In order to make a sugar daddy relationship more than just a monetary exchange and have value for both parties, it is important to find value other than money.
For example,Enjoying common hobbies and supporting each other's growthThis allows you to deepen your relationships.

For example, the dad I met in person said,
For PJs who want to start a business because "there is a limit to the allowance we can give you"
We handle procedures and create websites for you.

They also provided support in the form of reducing costs that would otherwise be incurred.

Not everyone is into sugar dating just for the money

There are many misconceptions surrounding sugar dating.
Here, we will explain that there are also examples where people can build trusting relationships with each other through things other than the financial support that is the basis of sugar dating.

The role of the desire for approval and pseudo-love

In fact, there are many different purposes for sugar dating other than money.

For example, women may engage in sugar dating to satisfy their need for approval.
Sugar Daddy Ruby-chan, a legend in the sugar daddy world, also tweeted the following.


There are also women who realize only after quitting sugar dating that "sugar dating satisfied my need for approval."

Also, women who want to enjoy a pseudo-romance or who want a rich older boyfriend
Are you really looking for love in sugar daddy dating?Some people do.

To seek experiences that one cannot have with one's economic power or position, to expand one's network, etc.
There are people who engage in sugar dating for a variety of reasons.

The people I'm interested in are older men,

It would be even better if my boyfriend gave me some extra pocket money ♡

I have also met people at dating club events who started sugar dating with this in mind.
Here is a comic based on that experience:

He was a really, really good kid.
A woman who is somehow sick or extremely obsessed with money
I wasn't impressed either.

I think it really depends on the person, and it's not good to be bound by common sense.
That was one thing I felt.

Networking and experiences

Through sugar daddy activities,Expand your networkIt is also possible.

Some people use sugar dating to find business opportunities or new friends.
Another purpose of sugar dating is to seek special experiences, such as dining at high-end restaurants or traveling, which one would not normally have.

What you can do to build a network through sugar datingIf you want to know more,

If you want to read a PJ manga about a man who successfully advances his career by expanding his network through sugar dating, then read this 👇

The existence of a subspecies of dad called Suki-P

Sugar daddy relationships often do not involve romantic feelings, but among women who are in it for the money and treat it as a job or part-time job, there is a type of sugar daddy called a "suki-P" who is a little different from other sugar daddies.

In recent years, the opportunities to hear the word "Suki-P" have increased dramatically.

What is the definition of Suki P?

A "Suki P" refers to someone you have a particular crush on in your sugar daddy relationship.
This favor includes"I like it because I can respect it as a person."The meaning and"I like you as a man"There is a meaning.

👇We also conducted a survey

The variation in responses also shows that the definition of "favorite P" varies slightly from person to person.
If you only see it as money, you won't be recognized as a "love p."

このThe word "Suki-P" itself is building a bond between people that is not just about money.
Isn’t this proof of that?

In rare cases, the relationship develops into a serious relationship and ends up getting married.

Cases where sugar dating develops into marriage are rare, but they do exist.
I personally know of cases where sugar dating actually developed into marriage.

And it's not just one case.
In addition, Universe Club offers a service called "Kotobuki STYLE" for couples who meet and get married at Universe Club.
There is a system of giving out gift money.

👇Let's look at some examples of people who actually got married after dating sugar daddies



In every case, the relationship between the sugar daddy and the woman begins with a strong bond of trust, with financial support being provided, and they come to respect each other as people, and ultimately it is no longer just about money.

Summary: Are you happy when a bunch of bitchy women who only want money come to you and just take your money?

Here are the results.

Basically it's about money
In general, sugar dating with a large age difference is beyond comprehension.
When you look for someone's heart, you feel empty, thinking that all you want is money
Choose to accept it or face it head on
Please rest assured that rare cases do exist.

Make sure everyone has a comfortable relationship and is in a good emotional state.
Married people, don't get too involved!

Don't worry too much or think too much about it, just find your ideal partner.
I would be happy if Patro could be one of the catalysts for this.

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Oseki-chan🥒(Yuna Seki)

In order to find out the reality of sugar dating, our sugar dating staff travels around the country to meet with reporters and actually engage in the activities while studying SEO strategies. Our goal is to write more realistic articles.

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