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2024 January 08

[Why] What kind of people are less likely to receive offers from dating clubs?

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was offered a job

“We look forward to providing you with a wonderful encounter, female members.”See it and actually visit,
After taking the photos and posting them, I waited for an offer for a few days.

I don't get any invitation messages at all...


“Even though I registered with a dating club, I haven’t received any offers.”
“Why haven’t I received any offers?”
"Maybe I should re-register with another club..."

Aren't you pushing yourself hard because you haven't heard anything?

This time, we will focus on women who don't receive offers.
Why aren’t I getting any offers?
How can I increase the chances of getting offers?

I would like to explain about this.

We also stare at and analyze data every day.
I'm trying to be able to output it!

Are there actually people who have zero offers?

While there are women who actually receive a ton of offers,
Unfortunately, even if you register, there are some women who will not receive any offers (0 dates).

universe clubBut even during the interview (now called registration)"It doesn't necessarily mean you'll get an offer."We ask our customers to take this precaution and make sure they are satisfied before deciding to join.

We don't want you to be disappointed after joining, it's real
We would like you to understand this before proceeding with registration.

In dating clubs, it is common for women to actually receive zero offers.
However, this number includes women who did not actually go on a date, so the women with no offers

I have never been nominated (offered) by a man
Although she was listed as a second choice or lower, the date ended up with a woman who was a higher priority.
Although she was on the list of candidates for offers, she was rejected due to the date requirements, etc.

Due to factors such as these, the demand is effectively zero, so in most cases it is not that there is completely no demand.

The timing was really bad and I didn't get any offers.
There are also many women who say this...

The difficult part is that it depends on luck and the draw.

Compare in general terms

These are the types of women who are in demand on matching apps

From men on general dating/marriage matching apps"I miss you"The types of women you can think of are as follows:

(Model Press's“[A winning method for matching apps] Characteristics of women that men want to meet”Excerpt from column)

Just by looking at this content, you can imagine a "positive, honest, natural woman."

So what about women who are not in demand on dating apps?

On the contrary, in generalI don't need to meet this womanThe image of a woman I think of is
This means the following:

Indeed, if you ask me if I would like to meet a woman like this, I would think this way.

I'd rather meet her than die, but I turned down the opportunity to meet other women.
I don't want to take the time to meet you.

The hurdles to meeting someone on a sugar daddy app are higher than on regular dating apps

Then,Money is paid as an offer fee before meeting, and even if you meet face to face and become a couple,
hand over money"Papa life"In
Above allWhat about the social club industry?

Basically, the specifications of a dating club are different from those of a matching app.
It's something you need to remember.

Even if you get a lot of likes and messages from men on a dating app.
Because that's not sugar dating.Because it's free.

Basic specifications of the social club

Dating clubs are a service that excels at showing men the "reality" rather than the "ideal image."
Photographs and comments from club staff can sometimes reveal flaws or elements that the player himself may not be aware of or would not want to reveal.

Because the specs are as follows:

  1. Profile photos are taken by staff, so they are perfect.
  2. The content is enriched by adding objective comments from the staff.
  3. No need to send messages until the day we meet
  4. I can't say anything about sincerity because I haven't had any dealings with them.

With different specifications from matching apps, you can connect with many members.
In the world of comparison, it takes a lot of attention, captivation, and getting people to actually press the offer button.

The woman is attractive enough that you would be willing to pay money to meet her.

Required

Why does everyone go to such lengths to get offers from dating clubs?
Please read this article to learn about the benefits of joining a dating club.

What kind of woman wouldn't you want to pay money to meet?

So even if you actually register with a dating club, there is no demand.
= To men"Maybe I don't need to pay money to meet you."What are the tendencies and characteristics of women who are often thought of as such?

In the first place, I don't meet the criteria for joining the dating club.

Such women will not be hired.
Universe Club is generally proactive in recruiting, so unless you have major concerns, you will be allowed to pass.

Rather than appearance, your judgement will be based on a comprehensive assessment of your background, how you respond, the number of times you have been late, your attitude, etc.
Please also read the article that explains what kind of attitudes and behaviors will actually get you rejected.

Four reasons

From my observations as a staff member, I feel that what women who do not receive offers have in common is whether they fit the following criteria.
The more of these four that apply to you, the less likely you will get an offer.

attitude is too bad
She doesn't look appealing to the men who are registered in the club.
There are too many restrictions on dates, times, locations, etc.
I have no personality, no will, no PR.

I will explain in detail.

Reason 1: Your appearance is not appealing to men who are registered with the club.

Please take a look at this. This is our group's report on sugar dating.
This is a calculation of what men look at when deciding to make an offer.
AndAbout 45% is face, 30% is styleWhen,I make decisions based on what I can seeIt is

Most men prefer women who have the following style:

Those with beautiful feet
Those with large breasts
Slim people

In terms of appearance,

Neat and clean
Sexy
Announcer type
Girls series

There are many men who like it.
What if, among them, there was a pig with an unusual fashion sense, and some people couldn't help but ask, "Is he about to take part in a bizarre carnival?"

It may appeal to some hardcore fans, but it won't be for everyone.
Women who have a wide range of looks are also more likely to receive offers.

Reason 2attitude is too bad

Even though we live in a world where appearance matters a lot, that doesn't mean that beautiful women can get away with anything they want.
Women who exude the sentiment, "I'm a beautiful woman and I'm meeting you, so you should be grateful"
The staff are concerned, asking if everything is okay.

And in case an offer comes in, this is written in the staff comments.

"It seems like he has a bit of a prideful side to him..."

In that case, you have little hope of getting offers other than from men who like women with high pride.
Unless you are a woman who is recommended by the staff, it will be difficult to get an offer.

*Please note that this is not about flattering others. It's about how you present yourself.

Reason 3There are too many restrictions on dates, times, locations, etc.

I like her looks and I like her personality too.
However, women who live in remote, isolated islands with poor accessibility or who require a lot of coordination and planning to meet are also less likely to be selected.
If there are additional negative aspects (burdens) such as having to pay for babysitting for their children, many men will look for a woman with the same conditions and choose a woman who is easier to meet according to their schedule and environment.

When I fall in love, it's usually in close proximity.
Why not choose someone who doesn't have high hurdles?
Men also want to have pseudo-romance, and that's something I like.
I often make offers after giving it a lot of thought!

Reason #4: You have no personality, will, or anything to promote yourself.

After appearance and personality, the next most important thing is individuality, which is directly linked to attractiveness, and the reason for starting sugar dating
It is something that connects to your core and becomes your identity.

I started dating a sugar daddy because I wanted to buy a high-end bag!

I need this much money for my future goal (specific example)
I need money to earn that, and I want another source of income in addition to my day job and part-time job.
I started being a dad

Comparing the two above, which one would you want to support?
I'm sure there are some people who don't mind how the things they support are used.
Generally, many men want to support those who have a strong core and a strong sense of purpose.

Many men are disappointed when they realize that their partner has no thought for them.

Women like those described above are less likely to receive offers, which means they are less likely to be interested in meeting up for a relationship that involves money.

Associated elements

In terms of additional elements, there are also the following:

I value connections, so I look for good timing.
There are some things we place importance on.

I only want a woman who is willing to have an adult relationship with me.
I try not to make offers.
Sorry if you are only here for a meal.

I'm not attracted to ordinary women.
I am attracted to girls who are somehow different from others, and there is a trophy element to them.
My desire to meet him grows stronger.

Summary of the article

・Just as there are reasons to be chosen, there are also reasons not to be chosen.
It's just that it doesn't appeal to men, and there are some things you can change.

➤ Be conscious of changing the way you present yourself, and think again about why you want to be a sugar daddy
➤ Think about your strengths that others don't have
➤If you are on the chubby side, focus on dieting and self-improvement so that you can be judged as "worthy"

If you are using a social club or are considering it, please refer to it.
In addition, Even if you don't get any offers, there's no need to feel inferior and think that there was no demand from men..

It's just that the fields are different.
Daddy activities can't be done only at dating clubs, so let's make full use of apps and promote them.

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