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November 2024, 09

[Anxiety] Do I have to register if I join a sugar daddy/dating club? Will I be forced to register? I'm scared

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If I go to register for a dating club, do I absolutely have to register? What if I refuse? Is there a possibility that I will be forced to register? Images of anxious women

I want to attend a registration briefing for a dating club,
What to do if you are forced to register...

I'm sure there are many people who think the same way.
In this article, we will discuss what to expect during a dating club interview.Being forced to registerWhether there is
I will explain in detail.

If you are considering registering with a dating club, make sure you clear up any concerns or doubts you may have before
Make sure you register.

This time, we asked men and women who have considered dating clubs as an option for sugar dating,
Before going to the interview, I took a survey asking, "Were there any points that made you feel anxious about?"

I'm sure that both men and women have their own anxieties and worries.
I thought that each person's decision would be different when it came to whether or not they should register.

Are there many people who have negative images or concerns about dating clubs?

Have you ever felt uneasy about a dating club?

We asked both men and women to answer the questions.

Although the results are not yet clear, both men and women
There were a lot of people who were extremely anxious.

Something that is mysterious or that you can't understand until you see it with your own eyes
And women may be afraid of being alone in a closed room with their partner.
If you are a man, you may be worried about blackmail.

I thought to myself that many worries would cross my mind.

Did you have any concerns before you went to register?

Here, men and women were asked to answer the questionnaire separately.

For women

The women's options are as follows:

👇The result is...

At present, it seems that many women are worried that the registration staff may be scary or have scary attitudes.
If they speak loudly, you will feel intimidated, and if they give off an impression that you cannot refuse, it will make you nervous.

It's no wonder you feel anxious.

Occasionally, when registering, you will be asked to "prefer females."
In that case, I would like to meet your request, but on the other hand,
"I'm going to be meeting only men, is that okay?"
It makes me anxious. I would like you to know the situation (feelings) of the staff.

For men

The men's options are as follows:

👇The result is...

I will post the results again once they are available.
At the moment, it seems that most men are worried that they might be blackmailed using their personal information.

You won't know if it's trustworthy until you actually try it.
There is also the reality that the dating club industry itself is viewed with caution.

There were also people who were concerned from a different perspective.
👇This is how registered women look.

Maybe I know this too...

Feelings from the staff's perspective

i was transparentI'm not good at appealing "Buy! Buy!".
Whether you're buying clothes or accessories,

What should I match this with?


When you are wondering if you should say something, and you are not sure whether to say it or not,
When the staff members talk to me, it feels like a lifeboat. I am very grateful.

I have come to realize that timing, speaking style, and the first words you say are all very important.
Depending on how you propose or the words you use when registering, you may step on a landmine.
I often respond with a sense of tension, fearing that I might make the other person uncomfortable.

If you live an ordinary life, sugar dating is something that happens in the immediate world.
When you actually think about stepping into the world, it can be a little intimidating.

As much as possible, such questionsi want to get rid of it onlineI think so.
I would like to post a survey about what dating clubs are actually like and what it was like actually attending an interview/meeting.

Can I be forced to register?

However, what I know isFor PATOLO member stores only, That is.
I don't know the actual situation at other dating clubs, so the only way to find out is to actually go there for an interview.
(Probably, if it has been around for many years, there is a certain degree of quality and excellence guaranteed.)

So, the social club where I worked,
Let's talk about the Universe Club.

This club is the first company to use the term "sugar daddy" and is a
It is a major dating club.

Even so, the impression of sugar dating as being on the dark side or in a grey area is hard to shake.
That is why CEO Kida's belief is"Honesty, transparency, dedication".

Read more about Universe Club's top beliefs and corporate policies

SoHonesty and honesty come firstBecause I was taught that

・Forcing registration
・Forcing someone to do what they say they don't want
・It seems difficult to register while having a lot of worries
・ Suspicious of us intermediaries

It was not allowed to register the above,
Even when you are unsure

Take it home and think about it again
How about you come?

When,Put it on hold and reconsiderThere were also times when that happened.
At that time, you can answer the question immediately and register it later.Regretting it or canceling on the day after the date has been setand so on

I wanted to avoid causing trouble to my date partner.

It is not good to traumatize a woman or make her do something against her will.
I don't think that's what I want you to do.
I understand the feelings of a normal woman.


This tradition is still carried on by our PATOLO division today.
This information will be shared in detail with those who come to register as affiliated stores.
Don't worry.


Of course, the same goes for men.
So-called"Butt"The people callednot hereAnd we, the staff, are just ordinary company employees who grew up in ordinary families.

I think there are few men and women who have actually experienced sugar dating..

I am an ordinary office lady, a sales professional providing services, and a member of the PR department.
It may be impossible to get the same impression from a regular company, but at leastThe staff are people who sympathize with such a sense of "normality".

Please feel free to contact us.
*However, this content is limited to our company.

Introducing a dating club where you won't be forced to join

I can say with certainty that there is absolutely no such thing as forced labor.
Only social clubs are listed

What was it like actually registering? Survey

This time on my personal account,
"I'm sure you had some concerns, but how was it when you actually went to register?"
We asked men and women to answer the questionnaire separately.

Thank you so much everyone for your replies...!

Women's answers

So far, some people have said they had a good impression of the place, while others said they didn't have a good impression, but they also didn't have any worries.
The answer is equally common.
The good news is that so far, no one has answered that they had a bad impression.

Men's answers

I will post the results again once they are available.
At the moment,The most common responses were "I had a good impression," "I felt relieved," and "My worries were unfounded."
The next most common response was that they had a bad impression, and that they didn't have a good impression either, but they also had no concerns.
The results showed that there were a few men who responded.

This does not mean that we will adopt the same safety and methods as other clubs.
We recommend that you choose your club carefully.

Each club seems to have its own strengths, so I'm sure there is a club that suits you.
For young (or not) beautiful women and men who want to recapture their youth.
Using various methods, seeing with my own eyes, feeling with my own skin, and sometimes intuition
You need to decide whether or not to take the plunge into sugar dating and whether or not to register with a dating club.

Let's work hard together in finding a sugar daddy.

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