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Airi
I want to go to the registration information session for the dating club,
What if I'm forced to register...?
I think many people feel that way.
In this article, we will discuss the interview process at a dating club.They were forced to register.Whether or not
Let me explain in detail.
Oseki
If you are considering registering with a dating club, make sure to resolve any anxieties or questions before proceeding.
Let's register.
What kind of image do you have of interviews at dating clubs?
This time, we're asking men and women who have considered using a dating club as an option for "sugar daddy" relationships.
Before the interview, we conducted a survey asking, "Were there any points you were originally worried about?"
I'm sure there are things that men and women feel anxious or worried about.
I think everyone has different reasons for deciding whether or not to register.
Are there many people who have negative perceptions or anxieties about dating clubs?
Have you ever felt uneasy about using a dating club?
We received responses from both men and women.
Although no clear results are yet available, both men and women
The vast majority of people felt anxious.
Something that is unknown or something that cannot be understood until it is seen with one's own eyes.
And a woman might be scared to be alone in a closed room with just the two of them,
If you're a man, you might also be worried about things like blackmail.
I imagined that various worries would cross their minds...
What were your concerns before going to register?
We asked respondents to answer the questionnaire separately, by gender.
For women
The options for women are as follows:
- I'm worried I'll be forced to register.
- I'm worried I might be forced into a physical relationship.
- Is the registration (interview) staff member intimidating/having a scary attitude?
👇The result is...
At this point, many women seem to be worried that the registration staff might be intimidating or have a bad attitude.
If someone raises their voice, you'll feel intimidated, and if they create an atmosphere where you can't refuse, it's bound to make you nervous, right?
It's understandable that you're feeling anxious.
Oseki
Occasionally, during registration, we receive requests such as, "Please specify a female applicant."
In that case, I would like to accommodate your wishes, but on the other hand
"I'm going to be meeting only men from now on, is that going to be okay?"
It makes me anxious. I hope you'll also understand the staff's situation (their feelings).
For men
The options for men are as follows:
- I'm worried they'll force me to register (by pushing a high membership fee).
- I'm worried I might be blackmailed based on my personal information.
- I might get caught up in a honeytrap/trouble.
👇The result is...
I will add the results once they are available.
At this point, the biggest concern for many men seems to be the possibility of being blackmailed based on their personal information.
Whether it's trustworthy or not is something you can only find out by actually trying it.
There is also the reality that the dating club industry itself is viewed with suspicion.
There were also others who were concerned from a different perspective.
👇This is how registered women appear.
Uncle
I might understand this...
A staff member's perspective
I was transparentI don't like the "Buy it! Buy it!" kind of sales pitches..
Even when buying clothes or accessories,
Oseki
What should I pair this with?
When you're unsure and it's not necessary to speak up yourself,
When the staff members reach out to me, it feels like a lifeline. I'm very grateful.
I've come to realize just how important timing, tone of voice, and the very first words you use to start a conversation are.
The way you make a proposal or the words you use when registering can easily offend the other party.
I often deal with situations with a sense of tension, fearing that I might be causing offense.
The reality of registering with a dating club (interview/meeting)
If you live a normal life, sugar dating is something that happens in your everyday surroundings.
When you actually think about taking that step, it's natural to feel a little apprehensive.
I would like to ask such questions as much as possible.I want to remove it online.I think so.
I'd like to share what dating clubs are really like and include a survey about people's experiences after actually going to an interview/meeting.
Is it possible to be forced to register?
Not.
However, all I know isThis applies only to PATOLO member stores., That is.
Since I don't know the actual situation at other dating clubs, the only way to find out is to actually go there for an interview.
(I suspect that if a place has been around for many years, a certain level of quality and excellence is guaranteed.)
So, the dating club where I worked,
Let me tell you about the Universe Club.
This club is the company that first used the term "sugar dating" and is in the so-called sugar dating industry.
This is a major dating club.
Even so, the negative image associated with "sugar dating" (or "papa katsu") is hard to shake off.
That's also why CEO Kida's belief is"Honest, transparent, and dedicated".
Read more about the beliefs and corporate policies of the Universe Club's top management.
SoHonesty and integrity are paramount.That's what I had been taught.
- Forcing registration
- Forcing someone to do something they don't want to do.
- Registering while feeling overwhelmed and worried
They are suspicious of us, the intermediaries.
Having them register as described above was not allowed,
Even if you are still undecided
Oseki
I'll take it home and think about it again.
Would you like to come?
When,Please put this on hold and reconsider.That also happened.
I gave my answer immediately and registered it later.Regretting it, or canceling a date on the day it was scheduled.And so on.
I wanted to avoid causing any trouble for the person I was going on a date with..
Oseki
Causing trauma to women or acting against their will
I don't want you to do that.
I understand how ordinary women feel.
We at the PATOLO division continue to uphold that principle even today.
This information will be fully shared with those who come to register as a participating store.
Don't worry.
Of course, the same applies to men.
So-called"Backer"Those who are callednot hereFurthermore, we staff members are just ordinary office workers who grew up in average families.
Oseki
I think there are very few men and women who have actually experienced "sugar dating.".
I'm an ordinary office worker, a sales representative providing services, and I'm also in the PR department.
It may be impossible for a typical company to perceive it in exactly the same way, but at leastThe staff are people who can empathize with such "normal" sensibilities..
Please feel free to contact us.
*However, this information is specific to our company.
Dating club introductions where you are not forced to register.
Oseki
I can confidently say that there is absolutely no coercion involved.
Only dating clubs are listed.
What was your experience like when you actually went to register? (Survey)
This time, using my personal account,
"I imagine you had some concerns, but what was your experience like when you actually went to register?"
We asked respondents to answer the questionnaire separately, by gender.
Oseki
Thank you all so much for your responses!
Female response
At this point, some people had a good impression, while others didn't have a good impression but didn't experience anything that caused concern.
This answer is equally common.
It's a relief that so far, no one has answered that they had a bad impression.
Male response
We will post the results once they are available.
At the moment,The most common responses were: "I had a good impression," "I felt relieved," and "My worries were unfounded."
The next most common response was that they had a bad impression, followed by those who didn't have a good impression but said that nothing they were worried about happened.
The results showed that a small number of men did respond.
Summary
This does not mean that we should adopt the same safety practices and methods as other clubs.
I recommend choosing your club carefully.
Each club seems to have its own unique strengths, so I'm sure you'll find one that suits you.
Beautiful young women (or women, regardless of age), and men who want to recapture their youth.
Using various methods, seeing with my own eyes, feeling with my own skin, and sometimes relying on intuition
Please decide whether or not to venture into "sugar dating" and whether or not to register with a dating club.
Let's work hard together on our sugar daddy activities.
