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2024/ 10/ 22
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Created: June 2024, 8
Is sugar dating just a relationship about money?
Sugar baby girls are looking for money
Maybe you don't think about the other person at all...
If you say that, then the men who are looking for sugar daddies are also only interested in the bodies of young women.
Is there something I haven't seen?
Aren't there many people who feel the same way?
In this column, we will introduce the public image of sugar dating and the real voices of people who are actually involved in sugar dating!
Is sugar dating just about money or just about body?
I would like people to know the real situation.
I hope that's not the case...!
When you're dating a sugar daddy, do you ever get turned off by the other person's words and actions?
When there is too much difference or temperature between your stance and the other person's stance, both men and women
I'm tired of being a sugar baby... Maybe it's not what I thought...
Why are you doing sugar daddy activities?
I think there are times when you find yourself feeling exhausted.
me toouniverse clubWhen I was in sales at
In the end, the fact that they only care about the money I have
I realized that it is difficult to build a true relationship of trust.
I understand so I will cancel my membership.I'm sorry.
I remember being shocked when I was told that.
Reasons for women quitting dating clubs include:"I got a boyfriend/I was found out," "I didn't think it was right for me," "I didn't get enough offers"There are various things like this, but the ones I hear regularly are
I was only seen as a sexual object, and as I met more and more men
There was a growing distrust of men.
It was the content.
I know this is a relative opinion because each man you meet is different, but one of the factors that can easily cause stress is
Men feel like they are only seen for their money
Women "feel like they're only interested in their bodies"
There seems to be something like that.
Every time I heard that, I had mixed feelings as a sugar daddy staff member.
👇The post that inspired me to write this article
We decided to conduct a survey to find out whether there are men and women who feel the same way about not only those who quit dating clubs, but also those who use sugar dating apps or other ways to meet people.
Look forward to the results✨
I'll create a graph and post it!
The results showed that the overwhelming majority of men had experienced feeling that it was all about money.
It is difficult to actually ask the respondents' partners for their opinions,
Do the girls out there who are into sugar daddies really think that their relationship is just about money?
On the other hand, are men only interested in sex when it comes to sugar dating?
It depends on the person, but what percentage do they exist in?
Is that the only purpose for men and women?
Or are there other factors that lead them to sugar dating?
Will the answers to such questions be reflected in the survey?
Let's see.
My regular ticket is "only about money"
I wish you wouldn't say that... it makes me nervous 😿💦
Then let's accept reality...
This is the question that men are most likely to be concerned about.
Yes, if we look only at money, we calculated the total with the other three options.
Why do you want to be a dad?
Is it just money?
(Of course, I think money is a major consideration.)
Here are the results.
Please wait a little longer for the final results and graphs.
This time, when I thought about the factors other than money that women can only get through sugar dating,
When I think about meeting guys, I think of three things:
You can have experiences you normally can't have
My relationship with my dad is special
It will be a source of connection, learning, and nourishment.
This financial support is not the only part of the site and club."Motivation for registration"People who have become
It seems to me that women who are naturally attracted to older men value these aspects even more.
In fact, there are fewer women who only care about money than women who value other factors.
I only found out after taking a survey.
I also asked the following questions to the sugar daddy girls:
What do you look at apart from money?
Not money or anything, but can it just help me feel more confident?
I wonder if they'll treat me like a princess👸
The reply I received was as follows:
Men of the same generation don't escort me, or they have a strong sense of gender equality.
"The tendency to not let women get carried away"He said that he sometimes feels this way.
In that respect, older men pamper women, making them feel as if their value as women has increased.
So, what would you girls who are actually looking for sugar daddies do if you were offered something like this while actually meeting with your sugar daddy regularly and with payment in return?
A relationship based on money is empty, so it's not like a sugar daddy relationship.
Is it possible for us to have a relationship?
We met through sugar daddy dating.
Was it a genuine crush, was it to save money, or was it said to make her dislike me?
I don't know, but this proposal takes a lot of courage...
Here are the results of the survey 👇
We will update you with clear results at a later date.
To the women who chose "stop seeing each other," the overwhelming majority of the time in the previous survey,
I asked the following questions:
Even though he was someone I had a good feeling towards,
Why do you think dating without money is difficult?
I've had many opportunities to see many sugar daddy couples up close,
I think the following might be the reason why it's difficult.
First of all, your partner is married
→ It is difficult to have a normal relationship and only women are at risk.
→I feel like this is exploitation.
In the first place, we met through sugar daddy dating
→Even though the two of them met for the purpose of financial support,
I don't think it's sincere that he wants to date me for free without considering that.
When you can no longer receive something that you were previously receiving, you feel like you are missing out.
→The reason I was meeting that person was originally because I could get money.
Questions arise about the time and relationships when this does not occur, and people wonder, "Are they just trying to save money?"
I feel less valuable as a woman
→ Originally, they must have felt that I was worth paying money to meet them.
Is it no longer worth it, and do you no longer feel the need to pay money to meet someone?
This can hurt your pride and self-esteem, and is hard to accept.
I thought the above points could be the main reasons.
👇Why do girls start dating sugar daddies?Maybe it will make sense if you know this?
If we meet in this relationship, will we be able to build a "relationship of trust" like a true romance?
Can you trust the other person 100%? I feel like the hurdle is getting higher...🥺💦
👇 See the survey results here
This is "I like you as a person, but I don't like you enough to meet you without money."
The harsh conclusion was that when the money was weighed against the feelings towards the person, it was not worth more than the money.
On the other hand, if you are absorbed in it,
Will people start thinking, "I'd like to meet them even for free?"
Or maybe, "Because we met through sugar dating, our relationship and feelings will never waver."
Is that what it means?
I hope to gather more information on this topic in the next survey.
Now let's take a look at the survey we conducted among men.
How does this differ from the answers given by women?
This question arises when women sometimes become tired of being subjected to men's sexual desires and ulterior motives.
Yes, if we just look at the body, we've included the other three options in the calculation.
Is a woman's body the only thing you're looking for?
(The original reason (purpose) for doing sugar daddy dating was
I think the most important thing is a relationship with a woman that includes sex.)
Here are the results.
Please wait a little longer for the final results and graphs.
When I thought about what other things men look for in a sugar daddy besides the body, the following three things came to mind.
Healing
Pseudo romance
whereabouts
I think everyone has their own needs, but a man who has financial means
"If you pay money, you can have a physical relationship" "You can receive first-class service" Don't choose a brothel
Perhaps what men are really looking for when they choose to engage in sugar dating is what they are looking for?
That's what I think.
As a result, the men who declared that they were only looking for a body in sugar dating
It was just under 10%.
So how would a man respond in the following situation?
Actually, this was answered as well.
We can no longer meet as adults.
Can we meet in another way?
· · ·
👇The survey results are here
What percentage of people will decide to stop seeing each other?
I'll keep an eye on that and wait for the results.
I would have liked to know if there were any options other than not meeting this time, in other words, if there were any men who would "want to continue meeting in some way in the future" or "want to continue supporting in another way in the future."
I have left out people who were originally just friends through tea and rice.
We had been meeting for physical relations, but from the next time onwards, it will be impossible.
This is what it would be like if you were told this.
I actually included it in my options.
"Become a meal dad" "Become a business partner and support in other ways"
There were a few people who answered yes.
I'm sure there are others who have become friends or even eat together.
This time, the question was whether or not they would like to continue supporting the children even if they could no longer meet due to physical intimacy.
I was honestly surprised to find that there were actually people who thought that was okay.
When there is a physical relationship, affection starts to form.
There are some men who want to take care of you until the very end.
So, what about the man who chose "If we can't act like adults, we won't meet"?
We also asked why they decided not to meet and why they gave up on continuing the relationship.
To be honest, if I were a guy, I'd be the type to say, "If you can't do it, then go home!"...
sorry···
...
👇 See the survey results here
Surprisingly, the rankings were quite varied.
There was no overwhelmingly popular answer, but the most popular wasI know from experience that relationships don't work out if people have different stances.It seemed like that.
If one of them is forcing themselves to meet
That's not a good relationship and it's already broken.
I have to pay money and push myself... What kind of training is that...?
It's not that I only look at the body,
Activities includeIf there is no physical intimacy involved, it's not worth paying for, the stance
I think most people feel this way, and I can understand how they feel (even though I'm a woman).
When we conducted this survey, some people replied with their actual honest feelings.
Although she uses the harsh word "utility value," I feel that it is actually a good way to put into words the reality of sugar dating.
Sugar daddy is likened to hunting.
There is an appeal that only that person can fill the void.
It seems like it would be difficult if the other person doesn't have special feelings for you.
On the anonymous Q&A box where real problems related to sugar dating are posted,
We looked into whether there are any sugar daddy couples who meet for free and whether there are any women who are interested in the men.
I was surprised to learn that there are many different types of relationships.
Let me introduce some of them.!
It's great that you're thinking about other people's feelings even at a time like this.
I'm being called sneaky but I'll take it
This is the answer, I feel relieved somehow
This person is not into dating clubs or sugar daddy apps.
Maybe I'm not suited for this...?
Is it possible to be friends with someone you've dated as an adult?
I was surprised to find out that it's possible for some people!
I guess every relationship is "case by case 🦈"...
A woman said she wanted to meet me even if it was free...
Wow, how charming is this guy...
2024.10.22 Addendum
When we conducted a survey asking people how they felt about the men they met through sugar dating, we asked for their experiences.
I'll show you some examples of what I've actually received.
This person is an example of someone who, at first, was interested in money, but as they spent time with this person, it began to become fun and it became one of the things they looked forward to.
We're together because it's fun and we like each other,
There are no words that make me happier than this...
If you say you love the man you met through sugar dating
So why do people meet without money like in normal relationships?
Why not? Isn't it just for the money?
Some people may think so.
After that, I received another follow-up story(?).
This is for men who think that the only woman they are dating is for money.
I thought these words would provide hope and comfort, so I decided to make them into a manga.
I would be happy if you could take a look.
As mentioned above, it seems that the reasons why women who are involved in sugar dating continue to accept the men they are dating despite having feelings for them are as follows.
Also, in this case, I don't know if the person is single or married, but maybe
If the man in question is in a position of authority or has a partner, he may have thought about it and interpreted it as a way to draw a line.
⇩These are actual experiences we received.
If your partner already has a partner, you have nothing left
I thought it might be too rude to women.
Even if we have feelings for each other, we have decided to involve money..
Of course, if you are both single, you can just date as a couple.
There are people who say they have reached the finish line.
No matter how much you feel, no matter how much you love someone (not just their body, you love them for who they are), it seems like it's a different story when it comes to whether you can realistically turn them into a realistic partner.
Is it really just about money?
The fact that it's the same man makes it feel so real...😢😢
How was it?
This time, we will look at what men and women are looking for based on the theme of "Sugar Daddy Purposes"
Most importantly, I have explained how relationships change when the most important parts become difficult.
・Basically, sugar dating is all about money
→It is not often that a relationship transcends that, but it does exist.
Physical relationshipThere are also people who want it but it is not a must.To
→There are some men who want to support in other ways.
I would like to be able to work while drawing a certain line between men and women, understanding each person's wishes and circumstances.
Anyway, please be happy... and don't get sick...
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