Characteristics of people who pass the dating club and the secret to success
What is a social club?
The dating club is a service that matches wealthy men (dads) who are mentally, physically, and mentally available with attractive women (or men).
They range from major clubs with branches all over the country to small, community-based clubs.
Members (users) can interact through meals, dates, etc., and give and receive benefits from each other.
It is popular as a form of father activity.
Conditions for getting into a social club
Social clubs require interviews and screening for registration.
This is done in order for the staff to actually meet with the person and determine whether the person is suitable for the dating club and whether there is no problem in introducing the person to the members.
Depending on the club and access, you may not only be able to meet offline but also register online via video calls.
In this article, we will explain in detail the points and measures that our staff should pay attention to when registering.
1.Appearance is average to above average
Physical attractiveness is very important in a dating club. In particular, the following points will be evaluated:
- facial level: A well-groomed face and hairstyle are the most important points for men who are looking for a high-quality woman.
- fashion sense: Must have a sophisticated fashion sense and be able to dress appropriately for the occasion.
- Self-management: Careful management of skin, hair, and body shape.
2. Communication skills (can you have normal conversations with staff?)
Communication skills are essential skills for success in a social club.
It can be said that the conversation you have with the staff and the way you talk to them will determine whether or not they recommend it (or not).
- Abundance of topics: Must be knowledgeable about a variety of topics and be able to enjoy conversation.
- good listener: Being able to listen to what the other person has to say and ask questions with interest.
- Politeness:Be able to behave in a polite and dignified manner.
👆This kind of point is often seen because it is directly connected to the attitude toward men on a date.
For example, some people passively just say "yes" or "yes" during a conversation and leave everything to the other person, but women who tend to do so should try to actively participate in the conversation.
3. Intelligence and education
Intelligence and education are also important points.
This is not required, but if you press + and say ``This is my background,'' you can get an extra push.
Your educational background and ability to speak a foreign language does not mean that you will fail the interview, be unable to register, or not meet the standards.
- Educational background and work history: If you have a background from a national or public university or a famous university, it will especially impress dads who like highly educated people.
- cultural knowledge:If you have a wealth of knowledge about art, music, travel, literature, etc., you will be able to keep up with men's conversations, so you will be more likely to be evaluated.
- wording: Beautiful Japanese and the ability to speak foreign languages when necessary are highly valued. Depending on the situation, you may be able to be introduced to a foreign father.
4. Social skills and manners
Social clubs emphasize sociability and good manners.
This point is especially important. The following points will be evaluated:
- sociability:Be able to interact happily with people you meet for the first time without being shy. This can be said to be a very important point when it comes to father life and face-to-face meetings.
- Etiquette : Must be familiar with dining manners and general etiquette. This also relates to quality.
- Self-management: Being able to arrive at the designated time on the date without being late, and being able to communicate smoothly. Be able to manage your physical condition.
- don't lie
5. Good at self-promotion
Self-promotion is also an important element. Remember the following points:
- Contents of self-introduction:If you can accurately highlight your charm, you will make a particularly good impression.
- 自信: Being confident in yourself and being able to express that confidence naturally.
If you keep saying "Hmm" or "Um..." in silence, or if you are not confident in your own good qualities, you may end up making him pay attention to you.
Preparation for admission to a social club
1. Create a profile
Listen to the explanation at a dating club and create a profile for men to see.
It may be a good idea to prepare for this in advance.
- 写真:You will have to have a staff member or photographer take the photo.
The key is a natural smile and an angle that shows off your body line.
There is also the matter of your dominant face, so check whether it looks better when taken from the left or right side.
- self-introduction:Create a sincere and attractive self-introduction to highlight your hobbies and special skills.
2. Preparing for the interview
First impressions are very important when interviewing for a social club. Be aware of the following points
- clothing:Choose clean clothes that are appropriate for the interview.
- How to speak: Make a good impression on the other person by speaking clearly.
- Preparation for questions: Prepare answers to frequently asked questions and accurately convey your charm.
Men are very sensitive to whether you have initiative or are easily swayed.
How you want to convey it to others, how you want to show it to others,
It may be a good idea to have some idea of what kind of man you are looking for.
3. Self-management
It is important to maintain self-care on a daily basis.
- healthy life: Make sure to have a balanced diet and moderate exercise.
- beauty care: Take thorough care of your skin and hair to always keep it in its best condition.
- Time management: Arriving at meeting times on time. Reply to messages from ♣ within common sense.
Points for passing at a dating club
1. Enhance your visuals
No matter how beautiful a woman is, a man won't make an offer unless he first likes her appearance.
Raise yourself to the highest level and keep it. Changes in weight are most directly linked to appearance.
It may be difficult, but let's do our best and be careful not to eat too much ✨
2. Keep your promises and keep interactions smooth
Whether it's a date or an interview, the first thing they look at is whether you arrive at the interview location at the specified time and without any problems.
If you follow these rules, you can easily improve your impression.
3. Be conscious of responding in a pleasant manner.
Your attitude towards the interviewer will be judged as your attitude towards men.
You don't have to be flattering, but there's no harm in acting in a way that makes men want to recommend you.
Summary
In order to be accepted into a social club, you need not only attractive appearance, but also overall attractiveness such as communication skills, intelligence, and manners.
By taking good care of yourself, creating an attractive profile, and being well-prepared for your interview, you can increase your chances of success.
Get ready to enjoy a wonderful encounter at a dating club.
A dating club is a place to build relationships that are beneficial to both parties.
Show off your charm to the fullest and enjoy wonderful encounters.
Let's work hard together!