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Article created: 2022.12.9
Introduction: Many women who engage in sugar dating have problems with their romantic relationships
I'm looking for a sugar daddy, but I also want a boyfriend.
I have a boyfriend, but honestly I want money too.
Is it okay to be a sugar daddy while dating a boyfriend?
Among those who receive financial support from sugar daddies,
At random moments, I think, "What if I had a boyfriend...?" or, "Sugar dating is sugar dating, and I want to think about the future."
I think there are many women who feel the same way.
Today, I have been asked a question from time to time.
What will you do if you get a boyfriend or girlfriend? Should you quit? Or not? Can you do both at the same time?
I would like to think about this together with you.
This time, we conducted several types of surveys targeting women who have boyfriends.
I actually asked on my personal sugar daddy account.
Of the 71 votes, we found that approximately 7% of people have a partner but are still engaged in sugar dating.
About 3% of people do not have a smartphone, meaning that there are more people who have one than those who do not.
Is this the reality...?
Well, women who are looking for sugar daddies are in the general dating and marriage market.
There will definitely be demand...💦
Would a man leave a woman who can get along well with an older man alone?
They definitely won't let that go.
Moreover, it's not like it costs money just to meet up, so I think you'll get a lot of invitations from people of your age, at least.
It would not be an exaggeration to say that some people consider her to be out of reach.
This time, we asked women who have boyfriends but are still involved in sugar dating why they do it.
We conducted a survey to find out why people engage in sugar dating.
Savings (for the future)
Because my partner/husband's income and the current situation are not enough (for both of us)
To become financially independent
We conducted a survey with these three options.
Since you have a partner, you probably have no trouble finding a romantic partner, right?
So I decided to focus on the financial aspect.
In addition, we wanted to know if there were any differences depending on age, so we divided the survey into women in their 20s, 30s, and 40s.
We asked them to answer using the same options.
Please wait a little longer for the results.
A woman in her 20s who chose "other" replied, saying that this is how she feels.
Stress relief🥺❣
What?! It's not about money?!
What kind of place can relieve stress?
Hmm, that's difficult.
The activities are fun, enjoyable and make me happyLoose
It's annoying, sad and makes me sick.There are times like that!
It's like an addictive hobby!
Maybe it's a feeling I can understand because I've tasted both the sweet and the sour...
I want to go to that area❣
The conversation went like this.
By the way, he is a student in his early 20s. As he is a student, I assume he started the business for money.
そのActivities are a stress reliever,It's not just economic reasons that are keeping it going.
We can also see that...
Compared to so-called young women, many men are old and pikatsu, so of course
Not only single people.
Depending on the time, he may have a mistress or a girlfriend.
I wouldn't say that most people are like this, but there are a certain number of them.
(Our Group Social Club,PatroWe do not dare to check your registration,
Most people just talk as the conversation flows.)
This is when I was interviewing for a dating club or when I received an inquiry on the Sugar Daddy staff account.
It seems to me that it's more women who ask these kinds of questions and have these kinds of worries.
I have a boyfriend, can I register?
I have a boyfriend now, is it okay for me to continue my activities?
So, if you have come across this article, I think you are a more normal and pure-hearted person.
I'm sure the staff member who receives such a question during registration feels happy.
I am actually expressing my opinion as a staff member, but for men who are looking for sugar daddies
How do you feel about women who are looking for sugar daddies and have boyfriends or girlfriends?
In conclusion, if you want to be the only one, you don't want the other person to have a boyfriend.
Some people may think that way, but on the other hand, some people may feel at ease because they know that they won't cross the line.
In the end, it's a relationship that involves money, so it depends on the man.
But I'll never be this girl's number one.
It makes me sad to think that I won't be able to monopolise it...
I can understand how this person feels.
(I know this is on hold because I have a wife too)
Of course, there were also those who felt uneasy.
Although each person has their own perception, it can basically be divided into three types.
By the way, at the Universe Club
In principle, it is not okay to ask someone to quit or to force them to date only you.
Has become.
The woman said she would only do it with you.
There are some people who make declarations like this...
Up until now, these have been the opinions of people who have chosen the option of engaging in sugar dating.
Basically, sugar dating is something that should be kept secret and does not have a good reputation in society.
If I were a man, I would be hurt if I found out that my girlfriend was a sugar baby and had a physical relationship with him.
Eh... I'm just looking for a sugar daddy for money?
You might think that.
But honestly,It is normal to be put off, not understand, or even angry about sugar dating.
Don't think that my boyfriend is narrow-minded.
I'm not stopping your sugar dating because I don't want you to be happy or because I'm worried that you might earn more than me.
Because I love you dearly
And what's really surprising about that is that they have no idea of buying a woman's time or body with money.
Because I have lived my life sincerely loving only the woman in front of me.
I hope people don't lose patience with me if they don't understand.
I will say it straight to the point.
If you can hide it, you'll be fine!
In the dating club and PATOLO, we do not refuse membership or registration based on whether or not you have a partner.There is none.
But at this point, I can't recommend it to anyone who feels this way.
I might feel guilty towards my boyfriend, what will I do if he finds out?
It's better not to be afraid and afraid than necessary.
The boyfriend found outIf we have to break up...
I can't imagine breaking up with my partner, I can't live with him
If so, it's better not to do it.
People who have a certain amount of courage and presence of mind will likely have more success with sugar dating.
👇 Is sugar dating a bad thing? Let's look at this from this perspective.
If I were your girlfriend I would say this:
Even before you start dating your sugar daddy, do you feel bad about meeting other men?
Or having sex?
Does it hurt to receive money in return?
And"The very thought of seeing another man makes me feel bad.” thenStop being a dadIs called.
If the thought of having sex makes you feel bad, then you should avoid sugar dating with adults and start with a relationship focused on tea and rice.
First of all, it would be painful to receive money in return.
Wouldn't it be better to meet face to face and then decide? I suggest.
In a rowprivacy comes firstBecause I think
Personally, I don't like sugar daddy dating.I don't want it to become the very basis of my life.I think
Income source of +α to enhance private life,
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The reason is that they are not suited to it or are working with a sense of conscience.
Because I'm exhausted both physically and mentally...!
Both men and womenContinuing to play Pikatsu requires endurance..
The risk that someone might find outTo
"The risk of losing someone you love or care about"There's even the risk of being despised, especially by the people you love.
Taking that into consideration, this job would be suitable for the following types of people:
Once again, let’s talk about sugar dating and the existence of a partner.
Think about how much it means to you.
Even after thinking about it, I still want to be a sugar daddy, and there are reasons why.
If you have come to this decision, you will be able to act without wavering.
My private self and my sugar daddy self
If you are aware of the differences and their proper habitat,
I think I'll feel better later.
I would recommend that you prepare and take measures just in case.
Don't meet on the usual route, reserve a private room, or find a sugar daddy when you're outside the prefecture.
It's also important to take precautions when you actually meet.
The real thing comes suddenly and unexpectedly, like a surprise test.
I should have thought about what to say in advance.
Be sure to prepare in advance so you don't end up regretting it later.
Can you effectively say that this is what you do?
(This may seem impossible, but there are some brave souls who make it work.)
Being seen doing sugar daddy activities
A reason that you can insist you didn't do it (without leaving any evidence) and that the other person will believe
Find the optimal solution in advance
I believe that it is necessary to have a certain level of professional skill and determination.
I want people to know that it is so difficult to rebuild trust.
I feel this way, although it may be presumptuous of me.
Just as there are good and bad people in love, there are people who are good and bad at sugar dating, which costs money. This is especially true for people who have never done night work before and who already have a crush on someone, a lover, or a partner.
There are women who compare the things they really don't want to let go of, the things they like and the things that are important to them, and the things they might have to give up by engaging in sugar dating, and still say, "I'm going to get ahead through sugar dating," or "I'm going to increase my income,"I love all the staff!
Of course, he has a wife! He has a girlfriend! He has a mistress, a friend who isn't a mistress, and a dinner buddy!
I have no problems with women at all!
But I still have plenty of money to get involved with PJ!
Men like that are very welcome!!
This article is based on the original blog post I posted in December 2022.
It was published as a column.
Two years have passed, and I wonder if my stance on starting a sugar daddy relationship has changed?
I looked into it and nothing had changed.
The author believes that a woman's life does not end when she is engaged in sugar dating.
Before we started, we all had our own beliefs and values, and even during our sugar daddy relationships,
AndLife goes on even after you quit sugar dating.
So, before you start, I want you to think seriously about sugar dating, your partner, and your own life. I hope that this feeling will be conveyed to those reading this.
👇My image in 2022
My husband works from home three days a week.
During the break, I was watching TV and laughing, "Wahahaha."
To my husband who was participating in a web conference
"I'm sorry, colleague"I made a terrible laugh, but are you okay?"I was asked that, so I turned the volume down a little."