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2024/ 10/ 10
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I was asked for my real name during a sugar daddy date, what should I do?
I want to keep my sugar daddy secret, but...
What to do if your real name is revealed...
Some people are actually confused!
In this column, I will explain what to do when asked for your real name during a sugar baby relationship, the criteria for whether or not to reveal your real name, the advantages and disadvantages, and ways to protect your identity if you don't want to give your real name.
If you want to find a sugar daddy,Your PrivacyIt is important to think carefully about the pros and cons and the risks, so your carefulness in making advance preparations by searching with that intention is extremely important and admirable.
I'll try my best to provide as much useful information as possible!
By the way, in the first place, in meeting with a dad-like person
How many of you are working under your real name?
We conducted a survey on X, which is currently in operation. (We also asked men.)
👇We are currently tallying the results in this survey.
Once the data is available, I will create a pie chart and update the percentages.
I predict that the overwhelming majority of people who are looking for sugar daddies are doing so under their stage names.
So I'm going to bet against the trend and say there's a "real name activity project"!
Most people probably use nicknames or pseudonyms.
Even in the case of dating clubs, I think many women (and men) set a temporary name, called a club name, and use that name to participate in the club.
In the case of PATOLO operated by Universe Club and Universe Group,
Please set your full name, which is the same as your real name, with your first and last name as a set.
This activity name is used by Universe Club."Club Name"We have named it ``.''
👇Click here for a sugar daddy site/club where your real name will not be revealed until you meet
If you are active on SNS, the nickname or alias you set as your account name
It seems like a lot of people continue to work under their given names.
Or without a surname, just a first name.For example, "Asami ♥".
Why Asami♡ wwww
(I'm making a comment to my former boss who wrote this column)
When I was asked my real name during a sugar daddy session,teachOrI can't tell youI think it's a difficult question.
Both have advantages and disadvantages, so you'll need to decide based on your situation.
Below are a few of the things that the sugar daddy staff have thought about and considered from various angles.
Benefits of telling your real nameI am writing about
Please skim through it✨
It goes without saying that in sugar dating, the feeling that you trust the other person and that they trust you creates a relationship of trust.
By giving your real name as "personal information," you can
This guy really trusts me...
I think you will think that way.
Especially for men who have a strong desire to be trusted
=I thought it would be proof that the other person had opened up to me., you will feel closer to each other.
Another advantage is that it allows you to send and receive money via bank transfer.
Of course, we can also accept electronic money other than bank transfer (such as PayPay or other pay).
Some people may find it easier to transfer money to a bank account.
If you are receiving allowances on a monthly contract, or if you would prefer to pay by bank transfer,
If you tell us your real name and bank account number, you can receive the money through your account.So, some people find it helpful in that case.
For men who don't like hand-delivery because it gives the impression of being a sugar daddy
Many people want to transfer money.
I, Oseki-chan, am rewriting this article.
This article was originally written by a male staff member named Oda, who was my former boss.
The above are the benefits that I have come up with, so I would like to include the benefits that ODA sees as well.
He is now in charge of the IT department at Universe Club.
You are doing great! I miss you!
I dared to imagine if there was a good pattern.
It may be rare, but your real name is necessary for various formal procedures.
For example, when signing a contract for real estate, etc., the name written on other contracts will be written with your real name.
I think it's a very happy place to be able to pay the rent or buy an apartment, but let's imagine what will happen if you do it.
There is no particular relationship if the pattern is that you can only pay the rent for the rental apartment you contracted yourself, but for example, the other party is a real estate manager and you contract the property through their own brokerage, or purchase an apartment. In this case, the amount of money is large, so if it is a story where two people need to prepare various documents, create a contract, and sign a contract, just think about the possibility of trouble in advance. You can take a look.
Also, I don't think it's likely, but the other person was quite old, and in the unlikely event that he needed an emergency due to some illness, he called an ambulance, or was involved in other incidents. In that case, the only way to identify yourself is with your real name.
In such cases, it is unlikely that the other person will give you their real name or other personal information so that you can deal with the situation to some extent, but it may be possible.
When hospitals and police get involved,What kind of relationship do you two have without even knowing their real names?Because it is true that there are times when it becomes like
"No, we met through an app, but we didn't know each other's real names,
He always called me "Shiojii" and I was called "Micchan".
I was invited to eat regularly and it was a feast,
I don't know about his chronic illness, where he lives, where he works, etc.
Well, it's a pretty rare story, so if you're a very old man, it might be possible.
This is a story that is based on a natural flow and mutual trust between the two of you.
It's not something you would ask yourself, saying, "I want to know just in case."
ODA is so stylish and it's great!
In my personal opinion, the risks of giving out your real name outweigh the benefits.
Although both parties should understand that this is a secret activity, sometimes it is impossible to control other people's emotions and actions.
What are the actual risks and dangers?
I think there are two risks in this area:
These two.
When I was working as a sugar daddy staff member (sales department), and even now, I receive consultations from friends who are involved in sugar dating.
My personal information has been leaked from somewhere, and my real name and
Even my school and workplace have been identified and I am being threatened with being exposed if I end our relationship.
that kind of thing.
I'm scared"To avoid ending my relationship with myself"It's very scary that people act like this because they don't want to let go.
There may be cases where people incur resentment and threaten others because they hate or dislike them.
The key point is that it's because of growing feelings.
Attachment can sometimes make people "do things they normally wouldn't do" = it changes them
This is something that happens to everyone.So please be extra careful.
In fact, there is a good chance that information will spread on social media and the internet.
You need to be careful to avoid encouraging others to do this.
This is similar to an invasion of privacy, but because sugar dating generally begins through an app or browser app, there is a chance that photos of your face and other information may be captured and saved.
Sometimes we meet with the person, listen to what they have to say, gather some information, and then identify the individual.
Possibility of being identified from personal information and becoming a victim of stalking or defamation
Apparently they are sometimes exposed on anonymous message boards.
Especially when you meet someone on a social networking site like X where no money is generated, there is no monitoring.
There are no restrictions on usage, so people can escape by deleting their account, so it's not a deterrent.
👇Check out the reality of sugar dating on X!
Giving your real name also increases the chances of getting into trouble.
First of all, if the other person is married, it would be a disaster if their wife (partner) looked at your phone and saw your full name registration.
What would you do if you were the wife?
Whether or not you divorce
Gulp...
Maybe I'll write down the full name and look into it.
It will be easier to obtain evidence to claim compensation...
That's what I mean
Let's act with every possible scenario in mind.
If you don't take any precautions, you may have to just accept the situation when it happens.
If you plan to continue a mature relationship with a married man, you should be especially careful and act with caution.
If you haven't given us your real name,This will significantly increase your chances of being left in the dark.
Even if we investigate"If the name of the person being investigated is different, there's no way to investigate."Because there are more things.
How you handle your LINE registration name, email address, and phone number is also important.
Taking precautions such as not giving out more information than necessary will ultimately help protect both your own life and the other person's.
👇Cases like this really do exist...be careful🥺
From this perspective, it is not advisable to tell your real name to someone you meet through sugar dating.
Keep in mind that this equates to an increased risk.
We are looking for stories from people (male and female) who have had their real names revealed through sugar dating.
You can send your comments anonymously, so we look forward to hearing from you on the ground.
👇Please send us your "experiences of having your real name revealed through sugar dating"🥺✨
I'll post my experience here!
If you have decided not to reveal your real name in your sugar daddy relationship, you can avoid calling each other by your real name by the following method.
It seems they are taking measures again.
If you meet someone at a dating club, you will be told in advance that your name is "club name".
Many people find it easy to get involved in the activities because everyone "understands in advance the risks of publishing their real names."
Some people use different smartphones, while others have only one.
It seems that some women use symbols, emojis, or just initials to make their LINE names unclear.
However, there seem to be a certain number of people who feel that there is a professionalism that is unique to "sugar baby girls."
It's difficult to balance...
👇Someone was conducting a survey about the display of names on LINE messages exchanged by PJ.
I thought it would be okay because I had stopped being a sugar daddy (I blocked my partner), so I changed my name to my real name.
There have been cases where the changes were communicated to the person you blocked, so
Be careful when changing your LINE name.
What do the sugar daddy staff actually think about telling each other their real names?
Here is the view of Oda, who originally wrote this article:
I personally prefer names that sound like names,
I think it doesn't necessarily have to be your real name.
Isn't it a bit tricky (not good) to tell people the conclusion?
What do you mean?
In short, what is the real meaning of the man who wants to use his real name?
No discomfort or little discomfort
I think that may be the case.
In other words, if you make sure your date doesn't feel uncomfortable,
Does that mean it doesn't matter if it's your real name or a fake name?
For example, if the woman has a completely original name,
"Chomikki" or "Pointas" (these are just random names that probably don't actually exist).
If it's a name I don't understand, it's hard to call and I feel uncomfortable.
I think it would end up creating a strange atmosphere.
Chomicki...Pointa...
Sense...
So even if it's a lie, I'd say "Kumiko Ueda"The more common name is,
Even though I know it's a fake name, it doesn't feel strange at all, so it's natural.I feel that.
This temporary name "Kumiko Ueda"
Is there a nickname or name other than "Kumi-chan" or "Kumicchi"?
I think it's totally fine.
Rather, after introducing myself, I started having conversations like, "How should I read it?"
It might be fun if the two of you decide on a name to call each other.
So that's it···
However, for various reasons, what is your real name?
I think some people will ask.
Yes, it seems that people who listen will listen.
But we know there are risks.
Why do you ask me this...?
I can imagine the reason
・Knowing your real name is considered intimate evidence
・Believing that holding your real name will give you a strong position (including unconsciously)
・Trying to grasp the weaknesses by investigating the workplace and school from the real name.
・I want to search SNS with my real name and see real dirt.
Around here?
There may be some people who have a place like that kind of play in a sense.
I felt closer to him when I learned his real name!
I think I understand..
A sense of genuine connection between people.
Do you think it's okay to tell us your real name in some cases?
I agree….
Although most of the content seems like it could be risky,
If you're not too concerned about it, it's no problem.
In that case, you should weigh the pros and cons of continuing the relationship with the other person.
If there seems to be a benefit, I think it would be okay to go along with the other party's request.You.
I see!
First, weigh the benefits and risks
It's important to think calmly
Yes, if not, I will refuse to reveal my real name.
It wouldn't hurt to have a few different ways of refusing prepared.
For example,
"I'm sorry. I'm in trouble, so please use the club name."
"I'm sorry. I'm a little scared, sorry."
etc.
Thank you for your advice!
I also wanted to leave behind ODA's opinion (will).
I tried posting it in this way:
By the way, I also took this opportunity to start working as a sugar daddy staff member.
I use my first name, Yuna, in order to ensure that I respond honestly.
As for surnames, I will tell them if the person is trustworthy, but there are some people who I don't tell them for some reason.
I teach people of a similar age how to have frank relationships with others.
I guess I'd like to become close enough to tell them about this job.
I am a sugar babysitter myself, and unless I am really into it, I won't develop into an adult. My husband knows about this job, so there is no risk of it being discovered or becoming a big deal.
Sometimes I will share information when I feel like it, but personally I don't recommend teaching it.
I might tell you if you said you would transfer the money.
This is only true for people you trust very much, that is, people you can trust highly.
This article is about whether it is okay to tell your dad your real name when he asks you.
As a supplement, we will introduce some basic ways to enjoy safe and secure sugar dating without using your real name.
Some sugar daddy apps do not require you to register your real name, and allow you to register with a nickname or pseudonym.
This does not mean that you do not have to register your ID.
Only women over 18 who can prove they have graduated from high school can engage in sugar dating.
What I mean here is that you don't need to register your real name.
Use a tool that doesn't require you to use your full name in your profile
is what it means.
Basic apps require age verification and identity verification, but most allow you to register with a nickname.
👇 We can also operate under a pseudonym after verifying your ID.
When exchanging contact information, you may exchange LINE, SMS, Kakao, etc.
Some people may be cautious because they register with their real names.
Some people also sign up for low-cost SIM cards to avoid their partners finding out, and use completely different settings and contact information.
This may be the best option for people who absolutely do not want to give out their real name.
If you use the smartphone you already use, you can start from 1000 yen per month, so it may be a better option when you consider the risks and cost-effectiveness.
✅Comparison of low-cost SIM cards
Some people suggest using Kakao instead of LINE, but many men have prejudices against it.
Since each person has different senses, landmines, and points to avoid, we recommend that you find the optimal solution by exploring the other person's stance.
What did you think.
This time"They asked me my real name, can I tell them?"We have been talking about the theme of ``.''
How do you guys deal with this kind of situation?
If you don't mind, I would be happy if you could tell me how to deal with it in the comments section.
We also welcome sharing stories like, "This is what happened on a date!"
I really think the voices of those on the ground are important, so I would appreciate it if you could share them.
I'm so happy! Thank you so much as always 🥺
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