"Dad activity appI've tried using it, but I haven't had any good encounters...
Many people probably consider joining a dating club because of these kinds of problems.
But when you hear the word "interview," you might feel anxious, thinking, "It's going to be tougher than the app," or "What kind of questions will they ask?"
To put it simply, if you grasp the key points, interviews aren't scary.
Furthermore, this article includes commentary from a former interviewer who actually conducted interviews with women at a dating club, based on the criteria and trends they observed in the field.
This guide will help you succeed in dating club interviews, from the right attire and makeup to finding high-quality encounters.
Teacher Yumiko
I'm Yumiko, 36 years old. I've been involved in "sugar dating" for 5 years, meeting about 50 men and earning a total of approximately 900 million yen. The average is around 20 to 30 yen per month. I've had relationships with financially well-off married men, and I've almost been caught by their wives.
Three key criteria for passing an interview at a dating club.
In interviews for dating clubs, the decision to hire or reject an applicant is made based on a unique perspective that differs from typical job interviews.
The important thing is whether you have the kind of appeal that makes male members want to go on a date with you.
This standard is based on a comprehensive evaluation of three main elements: "appearance and cleanliness," "communication skills," and "common sense as a working professional."
If you keep these points firmly in mind, your chances of passing will increase dramatically.
Below, we will take a closer look at the specific details of each criterion.
1. Appearance and cleanliness that meet the standards of male members.
While appearance is a very important factor in interviews for dating clubs, it doesn't necessarily mean that you need to have the perfect looks of a model or actress.
Even more important is a sense of cleanliness.
Male members prefer well-groomed women as companions for meals and spending time together.
Specifically, they check things like clear, radiant skin, shiny hair, well-groomed nails, and whether your clothes are wrinkle-free or stained.
Teacher Yumiko
Rather than flashiness, a refined and elegant appearance tends to be more highly valued.
Paying attention to every detail, including skincare and hair care, on a daily basis is key to passing the exam.
2. Smooth communication skills and a charming personality
Just as important as, or even more important than, physical appearance, is the ability to communicate effectively.
Male members with high social status are looking for enjoyable conversations.
Therefore, during interviews, candidates are evaluated on whether they can speak clearly and with a bright smile, whether they can listen attentively to others, and whether they can give positive affirmative responses.
Through conversations with interviewers, they are assessing whether you can naturally connect with someone you've just met.
Teacher Yumiko
A woman who can maintain a smile and show consideration for others, even in tense situations, will be highly valued.
3. Common sense as a working adult, such as being punctual.
Many of the male members registered with dating clubs are busy businessmen or wealthy individuals.
Therefore, basic professional etiquette such as punctuality is strictly checked as an absolute requirement.
Being late for an interview can give the impression that you are "not punctual," which can be a major reason for not getting the job.
This is because women who cannot keep their appointments will be deemed unsuitable for introduction to male members.
Please allow ample time to get to the interview location, taking into account potential delays in public transportation.
Teacher Yumiko
It goes without saying, but adhering to common sense and manners expected of a working adult leads to trust.
[Preparation] Clothing, makeup, and belongings that will make a good impression
The success or failure of an interview isn't determined by your answers on the day; it begins with your preparation beforehand.
Clothing, makeup, and hairstyle, in particular, greatly influence first impressions and are extremely important in increasing your chances of passing the exam.
In interviews for dating clubs, the key is how well you can project the "elegance" and "cleanliness" that male members find attractive.
Rather than following trends, it's important to focus on a style that is well-received by everyone.
Furthermore, forgetting essential items such as your identification could result in being unable to take the interview altogether, so it's crucial to double-check everything by the day before.
Clothing | A feminine and elegant dress or skirt style is the basic choice.
When dressing for an interview, aim for a clean, elegant style that will appeal to men.
The safest and most flattering option is a dress with a feminine silhouette.
In particular, bright and soft colors such as white, beige, and pastel colors, as shown below, make your complexion look brighter and create a clean and fresh impression.
If you don't have a dress, a blouse paired with a knee-length skirt is also a good option.
Teacher Yumiko
Avoid overly casual t-shirts and jeans, revealing clothing, and items with flashy designs or prominent brand logos.
For footwear, the basic rule is to wear pumps with a heel of about 3-5 cm and natural-colored stockings.
Makeup & Hairstyle | Focus on naturalness and a glossy finish to create a clean and polished look.
The basic principle of makeup is natural makeup that is understated and enhances the natural beauty of the skin.
Teacher Yumiko
Avoid applying foundation too thickly, using heavy eyeliner, or wearing false eyelashes. Instead, aim for a radiant, dewy complexion.
Choosing eyeshadow and lipstick in skin-friendly shades like pink or beige will give you an elegant and gentle impression.
As shown below, cleanliness is important for hairstyles as well; a style that conveys that it is well-maintained is preferable.
Dryness and bedhead are strictly forbidden, so make sure to blow-dry your hair thoroughly on the day of the event.
Shiny, straight hair and loosely curled down hairstyles tend to be popular among men.
What to bring: Identification is a must! Don't forget a handkerchief and a mirror.
The most important item to bring on the day is your identification document, which is necessary for verifying your identity and age.
Be sure to bring a government-issued photo ID, such as a driver's license, passport, or My Number card.
If you forget this, you won't be able to take the interview, so be sure to check it before you leave home.
It's also a good idea to have some items prepared to help you look your best.
Keeping a handkerchief and tissues, as well as a hand mirror, makeup for touch-ups, and a spare pair of stockings in your bag, will help you cope with any unexpected situations.
Teacher Yumiko
These meticulous preparations create peace of mind.
[Complete Guide] All Steps from Applying for a Dating Club Interview to Receiving Notification of Acceptance or Rejection
When considering registering with a dating club, some people may feel anxious because they are unsure of the specific steps involved, from application to actually starting their activities.
Here, we will explain in detail the entire process, from applying through the official website, to the interview with a representative, to taking profile photos, and from receiving notification of acceptance or rejection to the steps after registration, divided into five steps.
Understanding the overall process beforehand can help alleviate anxiety on the day and ensure a smooth process.
STEP 1: Apply through the official website and schedule an interview.
First, access the official website of the dating club you wish to register with and apply using their dedicated application form.
The form requires you to enter basic information such as your name, age, contact information, and place of residence.
The image below shows the actual application form for the Universe Club.
Within a few days of submission, a club representative will contact you by email or phone to schedule an interview.
Interviews are typically held at the club's office, but sometimes on-site interviews are held in hotel lounges in major cities for those living outside the local area.
Teacher Yumiko
Let them know your preferred date, time, and location to confirm the interview date.
STEP 2: Interview with the person in charge (approximately 30 minutes to 1 hour)
You go to the designated location at the agreed-upon time, and the interview with the person in charge begins.
The time required varies depending on the club, but it is generally around 30 minutes to 1 hour.
During the interview, you will first receive an explanation of the club's system, fee structure, and rules regarding its activities.
Afterward, the person in charge will ask you questions about your reasons for applying, your desired relationship style, hobbies, etc.
This is an important interview to understand your personality and character and to appropriately match you with male members.
Teacher Yumiko
While the atmosphere is generally relaxed and informal, often involving casual conversation, your language and demeanor are carefully observed.
STEP 3: Take a photo for your profile
During or immediately after the interview, a profile photo will be taken for posting on the website.
Photos are extremely important because they are the first way male members get to know you.
Some clubs have professional photographers, but in most cases, club staff take the photos in a designated photo room.
Since the attire you wear to the interview is the basis for your photo, it's important to choose clothing that looks good in photographs.
Teacher Yumiko
To capture your best smile, try to relax during the photoshoot.
The photos taken will be posted on your profile page at a later date.
STEP 4: Timing and method of notification of acceptance/rejection
After the interview and photo shoot, you will be notified of the results at a later date.
The timing of notification varies from club to club, but generally, you'll receive a call as early as the evening of the interview, or at the latest within a week.
Teacher Yumiko
In some clubs, the decision of whether you passed or failed the interview is made on the spot at the end of the interview.
Notifications are usually sent via email or phone, and if you pass, you will also receive instructions on the subsequent registration process and how to make your profile public.
Unfortunately, most clubs will contact you if you fail, but if you don't receive any contact, you may assume you have failed.
STEP 5: Steps after passing the exam (Profile publication and start of activities)
Once you receive notification that you have passed the exam, you can finally begin preparing to start your activities.
Based on the information gathered during the interview and the photos taken, the club will create your profile page.
In many cases, you can review the content before it is published, so be sure to check it carefully for any errors.
Once your profile is published on the website, male members will be able to view it, and you will start receiving date offers.
If both parties agree through the club's system, the process will proceed to setting up the first date.
[With example answers] 10 questions asked in dating club interviews and tips for answering them
Many people who have an interview coming up for a dating club may be feeling anxious, wondering, "What will they ask me?" or "I don't know how to answer."
Here, based on interviews with staff who previously handled interviews at Universe Club branches, we will explain in detail 10 questions that are actually asked in interviews and tips on how to answer them in a way that leaves a good impression.
Use these examples as a reference and prepare to communicate in your own words.
Hello!
My name is Higashino, and I worked at the Universe Club Osaka branch for three years, where I was in charge of interviewing female members!
I have conducted interviews with hundreds of people and have seen many women actively participating in these activities.
I think the most important things in an interview are "honesty" and "a positive attitude."
Here, I'll tell you honestly what interviewers are looking for.
1. Reason for wanting to register (Motivation for applying)
This question is designed to see if you have positive reasons for wanting money, or if there are other motivations besides just financial gain.
If your sole motivation is "for the money," you may be perceived as someone prone to causing trouble.
It's important to include positive reasons such as interacting with people you wouldn't normally meet or broadening your horizons.
There's no need to deny that their true motivation is "for the money," but you should convey that it's "not the only" reason.
Showing a desire for growth, such as saying, "I want to broaden my horizons by talking with business owners and experienced individuals I wouldn't normally meet," will leave a good impression.
The interviewer is well aware that your real motivation is "for the money."
From a profile perspective, it's best to avoid making that "all" you have.
Adding even one positive reason or a desire for growth can make a huge difference in how you're perceived.
2. Past experience with sugar dating or using dating clubs
There's no need to hide past experiences; in fact, being honest can allow us to provide appropriate support.
Having experienced trouble in relationships helps you understand what kind of men you dislike and what kind of relationship you're looking for.
For experienced candidates, being able to contribute immediately can be a positive factor in their evaluation.
If you have experience, briefly explain what kind of activities you were involved in.
Even if you have had trouble in the past, by not hiding it and sharing it, you can receive support to prevent making the same mistakes again.
If you have no prior experience, express your enthusiasm positively by saying something like, "I'm a little nervous because this is my first time, but I'm eager to learn."
Some people hide their past experiences, but being honest will allow us to introduce you to a more suitable man.
If you share any past troubles you've experienced, it will help us prevent you from making the same mistakes, so please don't hide anything.
3. Desired relationship style and frequency
In this question, be sure to clearly answer two things: the type of relationship you are looking for and how often you are available to meet (how often you can meet per week/month).
To prevent mismatches, it's important to be frank about what type of person you're looking for.
At Universe Club, you choose your "relationship type" from five options, A through D.
Please refer to this for information on relationship types.
Also, when describing the frequency of activities, be sure to provide a realistic schedule.
Specify a frequency that is manageable for you, such as "about once a week," "two to three times a month," "regularly," or "on-demand."
If your schedule is irregular, it's perfectly fine to be honest about that and discuss it with us.
If the schedule is vague, it becomes difficult to coordinate with male members.
If you can be specific about your availability, such as "once a week on weekday evenings" or "twice a month on weekends," including your work hours and shifts, we can introduce you to men who are a good match.
Please feel free to be honest about your relationship type.
If you have any reservations, or if you want to gradually close the distance, let's discuss it in detail and make a decision together.
4. Ideal man (age range, occupation, hobbies)
This question is designed to determine "what kind of man would satisfy her?"
Answers that match the club's clientele (mostly business owners and executives in their 40s to 60s) are preferred.
Use expressions that are appropriate for the club's clientele, such as "calm and composed" or "experienced."
It's best to be specific about the age range, such as "40s and older" or "around 50s."
The clientele of dating clubs mainly consists of business owners and executives in their 40s to 60s.
Within reasonable limits, it would be helpful if you could tell me what age group you think you would enjoy spending time with.
We have members in their 70s, so please feel free to consult with us if you feel even slightly unsure about anything.
5. Previous dating experience with the opposite sex
This question is designed to determine whether you are comfortable interacting with men and whether you have any romantic experience.
Even if you have limited experience, being honest about it will allow us to provide appropriate support and help you create a suitable profile.
Lying could lead to a mismatch after the introduction.
If you have experience, simply explain it briefly.
If you have little experience, convey a positive message such as, "I'm a beginner, but I will handle everything carefully."
Even if you lack experience, if you tell us honestly, we can create a profile that takes that into consideration. Some male members prefer a "fresh" or "inexperienced" type of person, so being inexperienced won't be a disadvantage.
For women in their 40s, their wealth of experience can actually be a selling point, which can appeal to men seeking a highly satisfying relationship.
6. Occupation and lifestyle (times available for activities)
This question will confirm "what time slots you are available for activities" and "whether you can balance these activities with your work."
Regarding my occupation, we will discuss and decide how much to disclose, taking into consideration the need to protect my identity.
You only need to give a general description of your occupation (e.g., "office worker," "service industry," etc.).
Please specify the times you are available to work (e.g., "weekday evenings after 19 PM," "weekend afternoons," etc.).
If you are worried about your identity being revealed, it is perfectly acceptable to say, "I would like to keep the details private."
You don't have to go into details if you don't want to.
However, if you can tell men the specific times you are available, it will be easier for them to imagine a date with you, which will increase the chances of them asking you out.
If you work on a shift system, please let us know.
Also, please feel free to discuss any specific details, such as whether you want to go home by the last train or if you have enough money for a taxi.
7. Goals for the activities (target amount and objectives)
This question is designed to assess whether you have clear goals and whether you are genuinely motivated to take action.
Answering with "just because" doesn't convey sincerity and leaves a bad impression.
Having specific goals, such as "I want to get braces" or "I want to buy a car," will make a good impression.
Prepare at least one specific goal or objective.
It's a good idea to state your financial goal in a way that's within your means (e.g., "My goal is 10 yen per month").
Having clear goals makes a good impression on men.
Having specific goals, such as "I want to get my teeth straightened" or "I want to buy a car," makes it easier to create a profile that shows you are actively working towards those goals.
However, even if it's the real reason, things like "not having money to spend on a host," "fandom activities," or "plastic surgery" might not give a good impression...
8. Health status and presence of pre-existing medical conditions
This question is being asked for clarification regarding the club's rules and regulations, as well as from the perspective of introducing female members to male members.
They may also check for the presence of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and whether you undergo regular checkups.
Answering honestly can prevent problems from arising.
If you are healthy, a simple "Nothing in particular" is sufficient.
If you have a pre-existing medical condition, please inform us to the extent that it does not interfere with your activities.
If you undergo regular checkups, mentioning this will help reassure the doctor.
According to the club's regulations, checking your health status is mandatory.
If you answer honestly, we can inform the man in advance and take appropriate action.
If you are undergoing regular checkups, mentioning this will help reassure the doctor.
9. Presence or absence of plastic surgery or tattoos.
This question is asked to help prevent mismatches with male members.
Some male members have restrictions on plastic surgery and tattoos, so it's important to be aware of this beforehand.
Hiding it could lead to problems later.
If you have had cosmetic surgery, simply state the area(s) briefly (e.g., "double eyelid surgery," "nose surgery," etc.).
If you have a tattoo, please tell us its location and size.
Some male members have a policy against plastic surgery or tattoos.
If you hide it, it could lead to trouble after we meet, so please be honest.
Even if you've had plastic surgery or tattoos, I can introduce you to men who will understand and accept that.
If you don't have any, simply answer "Nothing in particular."
Please also let us know if you are considering plastic surgery in the future.
We'll also discuss things like scheduling dates and when to make your profile public.
10. Strengths and selling points
This question is designed to determine if there are elements that would appeal to male members.
It's important to be able to analyze yourself and identify the qualities that are sought after in dating clubs, such as being a good listener, being proactive, and being considerate.
Highlight one or two things that men would find appealing.
Adding specific anecdotes will make your argument more persuasive.
Choose positive traits such as "smiles often" or "enjoys listening."
Being considerate and smiling often are qualities that male members find very appealing...
The more unique selling points you have, the better, rather than just generic content.
Also, please tell us if you have any hobbies you can share with men (golf, cars, fishing, drinking).
Having intellectual strengths such as being able to speak English or having studied abroad is also a big advantage.
Frequently Asked Questions about Interviews at Dating Clubs
There are common questions and anxieties that many women have when interviewing for a dating club.
Here, we will clearly explain three points that are frequently asked about, in a Q&A format: "confidence in one's appearance," "whether or not there are fees," and "whether or not online interviews are possible."
Let's resolve these questions and prepare so you can approach your interview with confidence.
Can I pass the exam even if I'm not confident about my appearance?
In conclusion, model-level looks are not necessarily required.
This is because dating clubs place importance on overall appearance, including cleanliness, charm, and communication skills.
If you research elegant clothing and natural makeup that suits you, and make an effort to speak clearly and with a bright smile, you have a good chance of passing.
For more details on "what kind of people fail interviews," please see our separate article.
Is there a fee for the interview?
Most dating clubs do not charge women any fees for interviews or registration.
There are no membership or registration fees, and you can start participating immediately upon passing the selection process.
However, it is generally the case that you will be responsible for the cost of transportation to the interview location.
If you are asked for money during the interview or registration process, be aware that it may be a sign of a fraudulent company.
I live in a rural area; is it possible to have an online interview?
Yes, in recent years, many major dating clubs have started offering online interviews.
Even if you live in a rural area or are unable to come to our office due to work commitments, you can have an interview from home if you have a smartphone or PC.
However, some clubs require in-person interviews, so be sure to check their official website for their policy before applying.
[Summary] Be fully prepared for your ideal encounter
The interview process at a dating club is designed to determine whether the woman is someone they can confidently introduce to their male members.
To pass the interview, you don't necessarily need to have model-like looks; rather, a clean and presentable appearance, smooth communication skills, and common sense as a working professional, such as punctuality, are all evaluated comprehensively.
Teacher Yumiko
Thorough preparation is essential to deliver your best performance on the day of the event.
The key to approaching an interview with confidence lies in checking what to wear and do to make a good impression, what to bring with you, and preparing your own answers to anticipated questions, as explained in this article.
Even if you're still undecided, you're more than welcome!
At Universe Club, it's perfectly fine to just come and listen to what we have to say!
Even if you just want to come and get some small questions or concerns answered, that's perfectly fine. Let's talk with the staff and think together until you feel positive about participating in the activities!
