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Is sugar dating just about eating and shopping? What is adult dating? Explanation guide

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Article creation date: August 2022, 12

I am always indebted.
This time, I would like to introduce and answer some of the questions I was frequently asked during my time as a sugar daddy staff member.

To get straight to the point, when I was working as a dating club coordinator, the most frequently asked questions I was asked were as follows:

Is adult dating a must?

Is it possible to just hang out for a meal or shopping without having an adult relationship?

Every time I get asked this question, I think, "Not again..." or wonder what the real meaning of the question is, but I'd like to share with you how I actually answered it.

What is an adult relationship?

In the first place, when communicating on a sugar daddy site or app, the staff of the dating club will tell you
What do "adults", "adult relationships", and "adult relationships" refer to?

The meaning of adult relationships

It basically refers to a relationship that includes physical contact, i.e. sex.
In contrast, the type of relationship that does not involve physical contact in sugar dating is often described as a non-adult relationship or just meals.

Also, there are girls who are only looking for sugar daddies and are only interested in dating without adults or going out for meals or tea.
It's often called "Chahan PJ" or "🛍🍽".

There are many types of projects, such as tea and rice projects, adult projects, and mistress projects.

The men's side also have self-introductions such as "dinner P" and "adult adult P".
It is often referred to as such.

Relationships with physical relations

A physical relationship includes physical contact in addition to everyday activities like eating and shopping. This type of sugar dating goes beyond simple financial support and is characterized by a deeper intertwining of trust and feelings.

When it comes to adult relationships, it can make the other person feel that you have a more intimate relationship as a man and a woman than if you just met for dinner.
It seems that there are some men who have no desire to give gifts to women with whom they do not have a physical relationship, but who want to do something for women with whom they have a physical relationship and do not mind giving gifts.

The relief and joy of being accepted
It inevitably leads to action.

Adults don't have to be there all the time, but it's better than a woman who is adamantly against being an adult.
A woman who accepts both is more attractive to me.

Is it actually possible to date without having an adult relationship?

So, is it actually possible to make money from sugar dating without having an adult relationship?
Is this realistically possible?

It depends on where you meet and the wavelength you are on with your partner, so I will answer by scenario.

If you meet someone on a sugar daddy app

If you start dating a sugar daddy using a sugar daddy app...

Although there aren't many women who are currently looking for a sugar daddy just for dinner, they do exist.
An example of this isTouka-chanIt can be said that

https://twitter.com/toukachanchan2/status/1747882457872138405

This woman is only active when eating and shopping.
At first, she started out giving him 1 yen for meals, but now it seems that her husband is giving her 4 yen just for meals.
It's possible that the man is agreeing to this in order to deepen his relationship with the woman, but since he's not hiding his intention to only have meals, this is a legitimate example of how a dinner project is possible.

Ruriri is also one of the girls who only engage in meal-based sugar daddy activities.
She recently appeared on Abema TV as a sugar baby girl and her popularity and influence are rapidly increasing.

We are currently challenging ourselves to meet 100 people!
The key points will be whether she meets men who want to develop into adults and how she responds to them, but this is one story I would like to continue to follow as it unfolds.

If you met at a dating club

It is more difficult to only go out to eat and shop at a dating club than it is to use a sugar daddy app.
After all, the price range is different from sugar daddy apps...!

But I'll start with the conclusion:can!
However,only the chosen ones!

Workeddating clubSo, when questions like the above come up, as a staff member
I have told you the following:

Just a meal
Is it possible to have a sugar daddy relationship without having a physical relationship?

I agree…!
As a relationship type (stance) chosen by women who cannot think about adult relationships,
We recommend choosing A.


👇The latest relationship types in the Universe Club are like this. You can choose your dating stance.

Why do you recommend Type A?

This isNo matter how many times you go on a date, no matter who the person is, you can't have an adult relationship.
This is the type that you choose.

HoweverMost of the men are not only interested in food.
He is looking for a deeper relationship than that.There is a reality.

Really…

That's right...

SoWhile many women are registered,
You can earn money only with meals and tea!I have an offer!
Unfortunately, I can’t promise you that.I can't 😢

Whether or not a relationship with a man you meet at a dating club will develop
It's up to the person's judgement, right?
Does that mean it has to evolve?

No, that's never the case.
Both women and men have the choice to develop or not.
That's the biggest benefit of being a dad.

However, I want to have a relationship with anyone without adults from the beginning.
I want women who take this stance to be open about it.
I think so. That's why I set up the relationship type.

I see, it's as if there is a possibility even though there is none.
Does this mean you shouldn't register based on the atmosphere?

Yes, the setup fee is also on a different level than sugar daddy apps.
So you don't have to go out of your way to find a dinner partner at the club.
I think that's the reality.

If it's just a meal, you can just invite a girl from a bar or a female classmate...

However, on rare occasions, there are people who say that the meal alone is fine,
If the woman is famous to some extent,

If she is exactly your type,
There is a good chance that you will receive an offer because they really want to meet you.

That's right, the possibility is not zero.
People who can earn money or get offers just by eating and shopping
That means it’s limited…

Will dating type A receive offers in the dating club?

The reality of dating clubs

And what is the actual situation? I would like to tell you honestly.
Even if you are in the dating type A category, you can still make inquiries or offers.There is actually!

⇩This is an opinion based on Universe Club data as of December 2022.12.

From my personal experience, there are fewer in Kyushu and the Chugoku region.
Kinki, Chubu and Kansai areasFewer than women based on adult relationshipsbut
I'm no longer surprised when I get an offer normally.

In the Kanto region, where the denominator is large, there is also Type A (no relation to adults).
It seems like a normal place to be.

What is PATOLO, a cross between a sugar daddy app and a dating club?

Patro is currently registered with relationship type A (no physical relationship) and has women (valid)
6% of the total, 479 people nationwideis.

⇩ Distribution of women's dating types as of November 2024.11

Including women who have already withdrawn, it appears that 1317 women had registered as Type A.
The ratio is dating type (development from the daythink about)C is more common. Of course, it is not compulsory.

If it's forced, it becomes controlled prostitution...
Don't worry, we won't force anyone to do this

I'd also like to see the offer rate for dating type A.

I'll check it out💦

So, even if you register with a dating club for "meals only," you may not feel that it is attractive or valuable.
It turns out that there are quite a few men out there who think, "I really want to meet this person!"

I don't know if this will continue for years, but there is evidence that demand is not zero.

When it comes to sugar dating, you absolutely have to have an adult relationship with anyone...

This is incorrect, and it's important to understand that this is the reason why sugar dating is so popular.

Trends of women who are in demand as adult-free projects (chahan projects)

As part of the staff, I was setting up the venue when I noticed something.
I don't know about sugar daddy apps, but this is the conclusion I came to regarding dating clubs.

That is, women who can have a sugar daddy relationship without an adult
It's that they are quite similar in type.


When it comes to dating without an adult relationship, I really do have a type.
Generally speaking, there are two patterns.

Pattern 1: Pure angel loli type

Cute type, really small and pure and innocent looking like an angel
This tends to generate interest and encourage applications.

atmosphere:A soft and soothing atmosphere.
Speaking style:She has a gentle personality and a warm and relaxed vibe that makes you feel at home when you're with her.

make: Makeup that brings out the natural beauty of your skin. At least it's not overly made up.
A style that emphasizes light makeup and a clean look.
Simple clothing: Wear white or pastel colored blouses, skirts, dresses, etc. Soft colored clothing.

Reasons for demand
Because they are approachable and give a sense of security, and other participants are likely to want to protect them.

Pattern 2: Noble and out of reach

She is tall, well-educated, has a good figure and is slender.
Tight dresses made from high quality materials and simple yet elegant clothing.
The colors are mostly monochrome or deep shades.

I get the impression that red can also be worn chicly.

Hairstyle:There are lots of neatly arranged updos and sleek straight hair.
Speaking style and voice:It's a gentle feeling, like the person is going to evade your question when you talk to them. The end of the sentence falls.
atmosphere:You can feel the confidence in his demeanor and facial expression. He is also knowledgeable and has a high level of self-management.

Reasons for demand
They give off a sense of specialness and charm, and are admired, so they are likely to attract people looking for a deep relationship.

This type is the so-called fat people.
It has an appealing nature.
I feel so proud just having him walking next to me.

Not suitable for adult-free projects (chahan projects)

Now, let's introduce the types of projects that tend to be avoided as adults-only projects because of their prevailing image.

Gal type/Flashy type

Contrary to the impression of their appearance, the reality is that they are strict and cool.
There are few applications, probably because it is contrary to the image of men without adult datingImpression.

It seems like men are really influenced by appearances,
I can't say that women with light brown hair or blond hair who are not in an adult relationship are popular.
People think you are open and easygoing, but in reality you are cautious...

Bad mood

This is what people tend to think. (This is just my personal opinion.)

Reasons why it is not suitable
This can put other participants at a disadvantage and ruin the relaxed atmosphere.

Careless, intense, unique

This applies to everyone, even if it is not an adult relationship from a man's perspective.
Women who lack feminine appeal or whose femininity is not easily seen will be in proportion to the low demand.

Reasons why it is not suitable

If you don't exude femininity

I want to become closer with this person.
I want to know more about this person
I want this person to like me

Because you can’t think like this.
Therefore, even if the person seems interesting at first or has a good face, it tends not to lead to a second visit.
Also, some people may feel embarrassed walking around town with someone who has poor fashion sense.

Conclusion: Women who are likely to be popular without adults in dating clubs

Black hair straight
Low length
Neat and clean
Little romantic (sexual) experience
Has a fleeting atmosphere


It seemed that the more women lacked these elements, the higher their chances of receiving offers.

If you feel like this applies to you, please consider signing up!

✅Register without an adult: Learn more about Universe Club

✅ Patro is a dating app that allows you to easily use dating clubs

Demand for adult-free pj on sugar daddy apps

Recently, it seems that many people are meeting people through apps.
I've heard some stories of people actually just going out for meals together.

I don't know how much demand there is, but there is no clear type of relationship, so
The purpose and stance of the app's registration are unclear.

Rather than using various methods to operate as a project without adults,
The nuance is probably something like, "No adults, just rice and tea project" that they themselves have established.

Types of Adult-Free Tea Cake Projects in the App

They seem similar but there are clear differences

You're either lying or you're not.

Yes, there is a difference between lying to someone about your stance and not lying to them.


In pattern 2, you set up a meeting with the intention of developing the relationship, but not necessarily progressing.
This applies to women who rush to meet people and to these people too.

It seems that there are some people who use clever methods that target only new people.

Types of tea scams

By estimating the amount of adult dates significantly lower than you would expect, even though you have no intention of developing an adult relationship.
I was surprised to hear that the initial allowance was set a little higher, but that many people would think it was ok to pay it because the amount for adults was lower.

実 例

In short,

How about 1 for face, 1.5 for meals, and 2 for adults?

One face... but adults are cheap

The conditions are fine! How about the date?

Thank you!

After the date and meal...

Next time, as we discussed last time, please have two adults.
How about 〇 day △ time?

(ignore)

This seems to be a popular trend.
If you use the app, be sure to keep this information handy and be careful when interacting with the app.

As a staff, what a palliative hand...!I also think,
I'm in the same biological category as Noda, and I'm also unable to have adult relationships, so as an individual, I'm impressed by how incredibly clever he is!

Although it's not sugar dating, there are apps where you can make money without an adult

Some apps seem to be more like a rental girlfriend, with no adult relationship assumed.
This also includes paid drinking.

Depending on the app, you are required to show your face, and you may be banned if there is a difference between your photo and your actual appearance.

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There are also other sites such as Aima, so if you're interested, check them out.

Is there really anything we can give to men without adults?

When I was a staff member, I was strict because I didn't want people to commit dating fraud.
What I thought after actually starting sugar dating for the sake of recording it.

Positively considering a sexual relationship with a man at an early stage
I think it's difficult for an ordinary woman...

If I can perfectly show you the dream of "I might be able to do it with this girl",
I often think that maybe it's possible.

A white lie might be what you need sometimes.
As long as I can avoid getting involved in any incidents or troubles, I hope I can play the role of the ideal woman and show people their dreams.
It might be a positive thing for both of you.

They say that a lie is the ultimate love...

Examples of telling white lies and sticking to them

In fact, the only person my sister has had a physical relationship with is her husband.
There are transfers p, presents p, and dates p that are not related to adults.

This is what is called love."We're datingIn the relationshipAll night shift cabaret clubsIt's a meeting in.

I am grateful that I sometimes receive souvenirs from Mr. P's business trips to his hometown.

Hey! Neechan! Takeshi sent me some snacks to go with my drinks!

🦀There it is!

To all Chahan P members

Thank you so much for all your donations to the girls who are looking for sugar daddies and mainly rely on tea and rice.
There are definitely women out there who are happy thanks to all of you who have the means.
Thank you in the future.

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Oseki-chan🥒(Yuna Seki)

In order to find out the reality of sugar dating, our sugar dating staff travels around the country to meet with reporters and actually engage in the activities while studying SEO strategies. Our goal is to write more realistic articles.

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