Can you negotiate your allowance after you become an adult?

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Can you negotiate your allowance after you become an adult?


I would like to talk about the theme.






Decide before you get into an adult relationship.




One of the important elements in PATOLO, dating clubs, and other encounters as a dad activity is "Allowance"Isn't it?



There are various ways to say allowance, such as so-called gratitude, pocket money, reward, etc., but in many cases it refers to the support of passing money from men to women.

In some cases, the terms of the relationship and the content of the support are not only money, or there are cases where it is not money, such as assistance with rent, purchase of real estate, shopping for branded goods, etc. There may be.

However, for the time being, I would like to talk only about money here.





The reason is that it can cause problems.




In the title "Negotiation, but in reality it is ``sense of negotiation” too much,get a little coldThere is a possibility.





If the woman is good at financial negotiations, she will feel a sense of work, and will be interested in romance and dating."healing"For men who are looking for a date, it will be cold as if they were pulled back to reality at once from the flow of dating so far.




However, moving to the room without knowing how much the amount of support will beDanger.

I don't think it's possible that you weren't able to get an allowance if there was a person in the middle of a dating club.




(In such a case, deterrence is working because it will be withdrawn via the club)




"The amount was different from what I expectedIf you say that, the date will end with dissatisfaction.

So, how men think about support and how much they think about the amountConfirm in advancemust be






Killer phrase "How do you think?"




For example, when matching at PATOLO or a dating club, on the first date, both men and women will have a cup of tea or a meal to check how they feel with the other person.





If the feeling does not match at that point, of course it will not develop into a relationship,






If you think that you are a good person somehow, there is a possibility of development.



From questions such as "What are you going to do after this?", I explored whether the relationship will develop specifically from that day, or whether it will be a breakup today and the next time, while spending a little more time. I think I will.




At this timing, for example, the woman asked, "Well, I'm fine, but what are your thoughts on support (benefits)?" Here, at the point where you are asking "What's next?", I know that the feeling is OK and I want to move on to the next step, so I think it would be a good idea to check the support amount).






Even if the woman herself has set the amount of money, if it is the flow like this example, I think that the flow will be more beautiful once it is swallowed.





"Well, 20! Nice to meet you!"





(I'm exaggerating a bit)
With that in mind, even if you don't want 20 yen, it's a little, a little, isn't it?




(No, well, maybe some men will say "Aiyo" too..)




If the man expresses his wishes here, I can answer with YES or NO whether I agree or not,

Depending on the situation, they may even ask, "On the other hand, how much does ○○ think?"





It may be annoying, it may be drowsy, but here is "HmmLet's enjoy this catch while saying something like this m(_ _)m





The response from here may vary from person to person, but you may try to tell them the amount you really want, or you can tell them as if you can accept the minimum amount, or say a little higher, " Is it about ○○○○○?", and you may want to check the other person's reaction (feelings).




If you don't move after confirming both the rabbit and the corner, the probability that you will regret it differently than you thought will increase.


I think it's mutual, but basically, before moving to the room, it's better to confirm the conditions (the price is the same, and the frequency with which you want to meet) with each other. I think that it is difficult to happen.




Of course, after meeting a few times, it can happen that "it might be a little different", just like normal love and other human relationships, so we will make decisions and respond according to the situation at that time. prize.






So how was it?
This time
I talked about the theme of "Is it possible to negotiate allowances after becoming an adult?"




Understood!If you are interested, I would appreciate it if you could comment.






If there is anything you would like to know more about, please let us know in the comments section.



I will use it as a reference for my next blog post.



See you in the next blog post.
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